Photographer

PhillipM

Posts: 8049

Nashville, Tennessee, US

of the Matrix.

No more Facebook account...

Liberating....

Dec 13 17 04:47 am Link

Photographer

Frank Lewis Photography

Posts: 14488

Winter Park, Florida, US

Well done! You are to be commended.

Dec 13 17 04:53 am Link

Photographer

Mike Collins

Posts: 2880

Orlando, Florida, US

It really is a joke.  I stayed away from it for years.  Got back on about a year back.  Not sure why.  All it is is ad after ad and everyone political views.  You know, the things I usually want to get away from when "socializing!!"  I rarely post anything anymore. 

People "socialize" to catch up on things.  If we post every single thing we do every single day, there is no need to get together and actually socialize!! 

I'd much rather meet for beers, lunch or whatever and just shoot the shit as they say.

Dec 13 17 06:38 am Link

Photographer

PhillipM

Posts: 8049

Nashville, Tennessee, US

Yeah, its was just the B.S. on my feeds.  Broke down like this on a daily basis.

MaryJane - Send Prayer request because my cat had the shits.
Ricky Bobby - All dressed in Camo head to toe, showing off the Deer he just blasted into oblivion.
My Shit don't stink Susy Q - showing vacation pics of feet in the sand in Florida with a mixed drink next to her.
Pysco Dilly Dan - Slamming some political viewpoint, somewhere.
GrandMa Jones - Twerking or something there of.
Lazy Jane - Feeling down cuz she has to work.
Look at me Sally - 100,000 selfies.  20 a day at least
Cheap Ass Bob and Jane - sharing links to retail food outlets that their too cheap to eat at, but do so, to win a free munchy.
The Mod Squad gals - selfie gansta poses with guppy lips, who couldn't be a gangsta if they married one.

And on, and on, and on.

I'm out.

Dec 13 17 07:11 am Link

Photographer

nwprophoto

Posts: 15005

Tonasket, Washington, US

Never been on FB.
Old fashioned, call my friends on the phone or get together for a meal.

Dec 13 17 07:43 am Link

Photographer

Looknsee Photography

Posts: 26342

Portland, Oregon, US

I'm a little bit on Facebook.

...  Facebook Purity does an excellent job of reducing the unwanted crap on FB.
...  If that link doesn't work, you can go to the FB Purity Facebook page.
...  I am careful about who I "friend", and I tend to avoid signing up or visiting businesses.
...  I tend to drop "peripheral" friends after a while.
...  I try (and admittedly don't always succeed) to limit my posts.

Yeah, FB is a big time sink, and is not a good substitute for social interactions.

Try FB Purity!

Dec 13 17 08:05 am Link

Clothing Designer

GRMACK

Posts: 5436

Bakersfield, California, US

I started on it years ago, but pretty much left it as it became too consuming for clutter.  When my computer died, so did the password so I never went back.  Brother dropped it as he found his blood sugar went up when he was on it and got annoyed with something (He's a Type 2.).  My doc thinks social media is the bane of society and he sees too many Type 2 kids now, and said his own son is borderline and too fat.

My niece is heavily into social media on her phone and tablet.  Bad part is she is growing horizontally instead of vertically as she does not get her fat @ss off the couch or bed.  No Xmas puter toys for her, maybe some skates or something to get her out of the house and moving.

Dec 13 17 08:32 am Link

Photographer

RacerXPhoto

Posts: 2521

Brooklyn, New York, US

Glad you chose the Blue Pill
I was born outside the Matrix and have never been touched by the Machine

Dec 13 17 08:42 am Link

Retoucher

3869283

Posts: 1464

Sofia, Sofija grad, Bulgaria

I have a FB page with 61 followers big_smile

Dec 13 17 08:51 am Link

Photographer

Nor-Cal Photography

Posts: 3719

Walnut Creek, California, US

nwprophoto wrote:
get together for a meal.

Wow!  Do people still do this????

Dec 13 17 09:15 am Link

Model

Gelsen Aripia

Posts: 1407

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

.

Dec 13 17 09:28 am Link

Photographer

Motordrive Photography

Posts: 7087

Lodi, California, US

I'm looking for a Socialist network to join  tongue

my  activity on FB is limited to a couple of times a month to give
insincere birthday wishes to people I hardly know

Dec 13 17 10:11 am Link

Photographer

martin b

Posts: 2770

Manila, National Capital Region, Philippines

I gave up my fb a few days ago.  I didn't tell anyone.  I also changed my personal number.  unfortunately people can still bug me through my business fb account.  To do that though they need to talk to my manager.    It's nice to get out of the matrix.

Dec 13 17 10:22 am Link

Photographer

Managing Light

Posts: 2678

Salem, Virginia, US

I never got into FB, but I'm still wondering whether that was wise when I keep reading on MM that the models are migrating there and photogs say on the forum threads that they us FB to find models.

Dec 13 17 11:04 am Link

Photographer

Lightcraft Studio

Posts: 13682

Las Vegas, Nevada, US

I don't mind FB. My "friends" on there are a mix of relatives, real friends, past co-workers and models I've worked with.  Most of them have enough sense to avoid politics, and for those who don't, I simply ignore their stuff.

I have family/friends scattered all around the place, so it's an easy way to keep up with what everyone's up to.

Dec 13 17 11:55 am Link

Photographer

PhillipM

Posts: 8049

Nashville, Tennessee, US

Each to their own...

I was never a big FB power user to start with anyway.
I'm over it, and gone.  Not looking back... wink

Dec 13 17 01:23 pm Link

Model

Jules NYC

Posts: 21617

New York, New York, US

Yay!

My life certainly has improved by NOT being on the social big brother called Facebook.

I develop more organic friendships that are beneficial to me.  I'm not pressured to care about image 24/7.
I'm not inundated with posts I don't want to read over my phone, email and wall.
I don't feel comfortable with anyone giving me a running tally of their life.

My friends CALL me, email me and SEE me in person without an audience.
I like this!

P.S. - if you have to be reminded of a 'friend's' birthday through Facebook, you are not really a good friend.

Dec 13 17 01:33 pm Link

Photographer

Lightcraft Studio

Posts: 13682

Las Vegas, Nevada, US

Jules NYC wrote:
P.S. - if you have to be reminded of a 'friend's' birthday through Facebook, you are not really a good friend.

Way back when I created my FB account I put in a phoney birth-date, since that piece of data is one more useful tidbit for prospective identity thieves to use against you.

Dec 13 17 04:13 pm Link

Photographer

Randy Poe

Posts: 1638

Green Cove Springs, Florida, US

PhillipM wrote:
I'm out.

Good stay out if that is what gets you panty's in a bunch. Those sound like people who are sharing themselves and their interest.

The ones that get me to shut them off are the endless memes of other peoples opinions and half of them are BS. But I love my friends showing what they are into. From home made lunch to lunch in Morocco I enjoy seeing what they share from around the globe. Personal victories, how their kid with seizures is doing. I love being informed and involved even if from afar. I like sharing my work and it gets me more work.

To each their own

Edited to add every single model in my port here and a couple dozen more who I still work with regularly as they are good about showing up are all FB connections. I'm not saying I haven't had my share of flakes from there as well but mostly they are better. If all I see on their wall is blunts and grunts I move on.

Dec 13 17 08:55 pm Link

Photographer

Looknsee Photography

Posts: 26342

Portland, Oregon, US

I do find the local Models & Photography group to be useful in announcing availability, travel plans, events, or simply posting of recent pictures.  It appears to me that I can find more models on Facebook than on MM, and I get to hear about more traveling model plans on FB than on MM.  It's annoying, however, that FB has a universal censorship policy with regards to what can & can't be posted on a model's portfolio.  Still, I am more likely to find my next model or to get more recommendations / references on FB than on MM.

Dec 14 17 08:05 am Link

Photographer

Brooklyn Bridge Images

Posts: 13200

Brooklyn, New York, US

FB=< Mental Health
http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/ … twork.html

A New, More Rigorous Study Confirms: The More You Use Facebook, the Worse You Feel
https://hbr.org/2017/04/a-new-more-rigo … e-you-feel

Dec 14 17 11:59 am Link

Photographer

kickfight

Posts: 35054

Portland, Oregon, US

Facebook just published a very interesting article called Hard Questions: Is Spending Time on Social Media Bad for Us?

What I found particularly interesting was how the actual data and the results thereof reflect not only my own personal use of social media, but my experience with internet technologies in general (especially now that it's been a decade since I retired from full-time high-tech work), and even many of my IRL interactions as well: active participation rather than passive consumption.

I think it's awesome that people are taking their own initiative to place social media and other potentially-intrusive tech either at a comfortable distance, or entirely out of their lives even. As with any number of things, it's not for everyone. Some people will experience great results and obtain very positive feedback, for others it will be adequate but no big deal, for some others it will be just plain meh, yet for further others it could be counter-productive and maybe even harmful.

Dec 15 17 04:31 pm Link

Photographer

Looknsee Photography

Posts: 26342

Portland, Oregon, US

Okay -- serious discussion question:

What's the difference between Facebook & Model Mayhem to you?
  How is one better than the other?

Dec 15 17 07:42 pm Link

Photographer

Looknsee Photography

Posts: 26342

Portland, Oregon, US

Looknsee Photography wrote:
What's the difference between Facebook & Model Mayhem to you?  How is one better than the other?

...  FB is more pervasive & intrusive.
...  FB has more ads & other garbage.
...  MM's ads are easily managed by AdBlocker technology.
...  FB is in an ever escalating war with the afore-mentioned FB Purity.

Dec 15 17 07:44 pm Link

Photographer

kickfight

Posts: 35054

Portland, Oregon, US

BTW, Facebook is introducing a new feature: the Snooze "button" smile

Dec 16 17 05:21 pm Link

Photographer

Rays Fine Art

Posts: 7504

New York, New York, US

Looknsee Photography wrote:
Okay -- serious discussion question:

What's the difference between Facebook & Model Mayhem to you?
  How is one better than the other?

MM serves a series of inter-related, definable purposes.  (however well or ill.)
I've yet to find either on facebook.
(Not quite true--I used to use it to check up on my grand kids but they caught on and now have two accounts each (as far as I can tell) one for stuff it's O.K. for gramps to see and that's not.

Dec 16 17 05:56 pm Link

Photographer

Black Z Eddie

Posts: 1903

San Jacinto, California, US

Me, I just create a List (I have several of them).  On this List, which I use as my main "newsfeed" consists of only pages, businesses, and people I want to see.  So, I have stuff from car magazines, photographers, models, a small handful of friends, etc.  The advantages of using a List is you don't see every stinkin' activity friends do even when they are on the List.  You don't see likes, reactions, shared stupid memes.  You only see their actual post and if they like a page.

For actual real life friends (and family), I have a Friend List (FB has one as default).  I also have a Political List.  Etc, etc.  From time to time, I view those when I'm in the mood for it.

This List thing really keeps my "new newsfeed" quiet.  Unless I'm reading an article, I'm done with FB in less than 5 minutes.

Dec 16 17 07:52 pm Link

Model

Jules NYC

Posts: 21617

New York, New York, US

Looknsee Photography wrote:
Okay -- serious discussion question:

What's the difference between Facebook & Model Mayhem to you?
  How is one better than the other?

MM: you choose if you want to participate
MM: you don’t get notifications sent unwillingly to your phone/email
FB: they keep changing the rules

MM: an artist community not solely based on modeling/photography
FB: everything and everyone posting more nonsense than not
MM: is full of nonsense too yet I can turn the dial than change a bunch of settings on my personal wall

MM: people comment on your work
FB: people comment on your life

I will give kudos for a FB like I recently seen without being on FB. A pro wrestler has brain cancer and a FB poster said a doctor cured the same inoperable tumor. They offered help for the referral. Hope the wrestler takes his advice.

Dec 16 17 07:58 pm Link