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Cat Brooke

Posts: 3

Brooklyn, New York, US

I'm 17 and my parents don't want me to do any pinup-type modeling because they think I'm too young and the photographers involved in those fields are all perverts. Is it just me or are they being rediculous and over protective?

Dec 31 07 04:06 pm Link

Model

StacyJack

Posts: 2297

New Orleans, Louisiana, US

lol dosn't matter what anyone else thinks, if your parents say no, it's a no.  They can sue you know.  lol

Side note:  there are perverts in all feilds of photography.

big_smile

Dec 31 07 04:07 pm Link

Photographer

Benjamin Lambert

Posts: 1734

Lake Geneva, Wisconsin, US

they're being parents. they're supposted to look out for your interests, not let you do age-inappropriate things. you've got the rest of your life to do the sex / sexy sells thing. don't rush it.

Dec 31 07 04:08 pm Link

Photographer

Tim Little Photography

Posts: 11771

Wilmington, Delaware, US

Most respectable photographers are not going to shoot anything with you unless one of your parents are at the shoot. Most respectable photographers will avoid shooting anything that isn't age appropriate because a misunderstanding can destroy everything they have worked for. Waiting until your 18 is worth it.

Also, unless you parents sign off on the model release the photographer cannot do anything with the pictures.

Dec 31 07 04:10 pm Link

Photographer

Fotosbymike

Posts: 797

Sarasota, Florida, US

You have no idea how lucky you are to have parents that actually take an interest in your life and care about your safety. Wait another year to decide, you'll be glad you did.

Dec 31 07 04:12 pm Link

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tigerfist photography

Posts: 2100

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

where do these people COME from?!

Dec 31 07 04:13 pm Link

Photographer

Overall Photoworks

Posts: 16

Knoxville, Tennessee, US

Listen to your parents, they most def know whats best. Just like the other photographer said - wait another year, then decide - you'll be glad you did.

And btw- LOVE your port! Hope you go far!

Ciao Ciaos!
Chet

Dec 31 07 04:17 pm Link

Photographer

SunArcher Photography

Posts: 7669

Washington, District of Columbia, US

This is SO not going to end well. Hell, it's barely STARTED well...

Dec 31 07 04:18 pm Link

Model

Shannon_Nicole

Posts: 1260

New Orleans, Louisiana, US

you should be happy if your parents let you model AT ALL.
some parents don't.  and it's their right as parents to decide that.

Dec 31 07 04:21 pm Link

Photographer

HOTTIE SHOTS

Posts: 6018

Memphis, Tennessee, US

I looked at your port.  There is not a good professional shot in it.  You are very pretty and I am sure you can get some photographers who will shoot you some age appropriate material. 

Having a casting call at 17 for edgy shots is not going to bring any responsible photographer to shoot it when your parents will not sign for you and go to the shoot.

18 will come soon enough.  Work on practicing you poses and expressions and shooting until it does.

Dec 31 07 04:22 pm Link

Photographer

Eric Simard

Posts: 1083

Penticton, British Columbia, Canada

Chet Overall wrote:
Listen to your parents, they most def know whats best.


Chet

my parents didn't know what was best. shit!

Dec 31 07 04:24 pm Link

Model

Brandi Runnels

Posts: 792

Dallas, Texas, US

You wont be able to shoot without your parents consent until your 18, and if they say no...thats all she wrote.  Why not build up your port with the work that you can right now, then when you're 18 you can call the shots.

Dec 31 07 04:24 pm Link

Photographer

BTHPhoto

Posts: 6985

Fairbanks, Alaska, US

Cat Brooke wrote:
I'm 17 and my parents don't want me to do any pinup-type modeling because they think I'm too young

Right or wrong, that's their decision to make ...

Cat Brooke wrote:
and the photographers involved in those fields are all perverts.

... even if they are horribly misinformed.

Cat Brooke wrote:
Is it just me or are they being rediculous and over protective?

Yes, they probably are, but that's their prerogative.

Dec 31 07 04:28 pm Link

Model

Cafe Society

Posts: 338

Houston, Texas, US

Girl, you're 17. Do something that promotes your YOUTH! People would be envious of it! I know sometimes I still wish I were a teen smile

Dec 31 07 04:30 pm Link

Photographer

PYPI FASHION

Posts: 36332

San Francisco, California, US

Go clean your room little girl.

Dec 31 07 04:31 pm Link

Model

Ashley Graham

Posts: 26822

Saint Petersburg, Florida, US

Most photogs won't shoot lingerie or implied or anything that has a chance to cross the line with you until you are of age. Be glad your parents care and keep a hold of your innocence and such, I lost mine far too young and regret that. You are almost 18 then you can do as you please and trust me with more freedom comes more responsibility

Dec 31 07 04:32 pm Link

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BTHPhoto

Posts: 6985

Fairbanks, Alaska, US

Cafe Society wrote:
Girl, you're 17. Do something that promotes your YOUTH! People would be envious of it! I know sometimes I still wish I were a teen smile

Yeah, but did you feel that way when you were 17?

Dec 31 07 04:33 pm Link

Photographer

Bill Mason Photography

Posts: 1856

Morristown, Vermont, US

This is going to sound harsh...your port so far contains provocative images...the makeup and cleavage have a rather wild look to them. Maybe the problem is that your parents don't trust YOU. It may be easier for them to crap on the photographers than it is to confront you on your choices.

Dec 31 07 04:37 pm Link

Model

olivan

Posts: 3

Washington, Arkansas, US

Ditto on being glad your parents let you model at all. Be thankful. Build a good solid age  appropriate port and you will do much better in the industry. You are a beautiful girl, you should go very far but be smart:)
best of luck,
joyelena

Dec 31 07 04:37 pm Link

Photographer

OLJ studio

Posts: 1550

Winnetka, California, US

Start from good headshot.
It will move your much further then you can imagine

LO
http://www.oljstudio.com/

Dec 31 07 04:39 pm Link

Photographer

Jake Garn

Posts: 3958

Salt Lake City, Utah, US

Nope, your parents are absolutely right and are doing their job quite nicely.  Go tell them you're sorry!  Not all photographers are perverts but when you're under 18 it's better safe than sorry.

Dec 31 07 04:40 pm Link

Photographer

Evan Shorrock

Posts: 780

Silver Spring, Maryland, US

if you don't listen to any of the other advice feel free to wait a year and find out for yourself.

Dec 31 07 04:42 pm Link

Photographer

art davis photography

Posts: 134

Palm Springs, California, US

unfortunately in this nation, society is governed by obsolete rules on sex and age while at the same time allowing the media to bombard everyone with the opposite! it is ridiculous. most parents are in "control" mode and feed on the conservative, religious ferver on the subject.
talk to your congressman! smile yeah right...

in the mean time...the pros above are correct unless you can find a partner in crime or somehow make your photos completely devoid of any "lascivious" conduct. (look up the word, you will need to understand the definition of the law smile

i am a single father of 3 teen young men and i recommend talking in a civil way with your parents, help them recognize that it would be better to work together on the concept instead of trying to be control freaks and welcome them to any potential shoot you might do.

otherwise...at most...you only have one more year. put it out of your mind and it will go by fast. and in the meantime practice with normal clothing smile)

Dec 31 07 04:45 pm Link

Photographer

Madcrow Photographics

Posts: 7805

Boston, Massachusetts, US

I think that you are too young for lingerie. As for the other two, it really depends on what you mean. If you mean: stand around in a bikini looking mildly-but-not-too sexy, then you're probably fine IN THE ABSTRACT.  Nevertheless, given the way the world works, if your parents say no, that means no. If you do otherwise, not only could you get into trouble, but you could get other people into trouble as well.

Dec 31 07 04:45 pm Link

Photographer

TRPn Pics

Posts: 10435

Silver Springs Shores, Florida, US

Cat Brooke wrote:
I'm 17 and my parents don't want me to do any pinup-type modeling because they think I'm too young and the photographers involved in those fields are all perverts. Is it just me or are they being rediculous and over protective?

Honestly, you need some simple casual and fashion shots by a professional in your portfolio. The camera phone shots are not gonna take you very far.

  As far as the pinup style and "the photographers involved in those fields", your parents may be being just a tad naive about the industry as it's likely that most of the photographers you run across will have the ability to shoot pinup as well as just about every other genre of photography and do so on a regular basis, so good luck finding one that hasn't shot pinup or hasn't wanted to. Saying all that, when you turn 18 if your still in this game, I'm certain you will get all the pinup offers you want as well as other opportunities that some including your parents may find distasteful for whatever reason. Keep in mind though as has already been stated that your parents are for the most part looking out for your best interest and maybe you should consider why they do so.

On the other hand I recommend that you find a photographer in your area that has a decent book and or profile and has good recommendations and see if he/she is willing to help you out with a test or two of age appropriate images for your profile here and to start your portfolio off with some great shots. Don't concern yourself with what any specific photographer has shot or shoots normally, thats really not your concern. What you want are shots that will help you get a good start and if a photographer has some good work, even if it is pinup or playboy style, he/she certainly has the ability to shoot casual and fashion images. Weather they are willing to or not may be a different story.

One other thing, you may want to do some research on how many 5'4" models walk major runways before you go considering fashion modeling as your dream and or goal.

  My .02

Dec 31 07 04:53 pm Link

Model

Kymberly Jane

Posts: 2251

Los Angeles, California, US

DONT do it~

wait tiLL your of legal age..


REALLY..... Dont..

Dec 31 07 04:54 pm Link

Photographer

art davis photography

Posts: 134

Palm Springs, California, US

"One other thing, you may want to do some research on how many 5'4" models walk major runways before you go considering fashion modeling as your dream and or goal."

when did "runway" enter the conversation?

Dec 31 07 04:58 pm Link

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Taboo Motel

Posts: 195

Kansas City, Missouri, US

TeddyRay wrote:
Honestly, you need some simple casual and fashion shots by a professional in your portfolio. The camera phone shots are not gonna take you very far.

  As far as the pinup style and "the photographers involved in those fields", your parents may be being just a tad naive about the industry as it's likely that most of the photographers you run across will have the ability to shoot pinup as well as just about every other genre of photography and do so on a regular basis, so good luck finding one that hasn't shot pinup or hasn't wanted to. Saying all that, when you turn 18 if your still in this game, I'm certain you will get all the pinup offers you want as well as other opportunities that some including your parents may find distasteful for whatever reason. Keep in mind though as has already been stated that your parents are for the most part looking out for your best interest and maybe you should consider why they do so.

On the other hand I recommend that you find a photographer in your area that has a decent book and or profile and has good recommendations and see if he/she is willing to help you out with a test or two of age appropriate images for your profile here and to start your portfolio off with some great shots. Don't concern yourself with what any specific photographer has shot or shoots normally, thats really not your concern. What you want are shots that will help you get a good start and if a photographer has some good work, even if it is pinup or playboy style, he/she certainly has the ability to shoot casual and fashion images. Weather they are willing to or not may be a different story.

One other thing, you may want to do some research on how many 5'4" models walk major runways before you go considering fashion modeling as your dream and or goal.

  My .02

Good advise here...^

A link to one of your 17yo peers portfolio...I'm sure if there were anything illegal posted MM would not allow it...all the naysayers in this thread are over reacting.

https://modelmayhem.com/pics.php?id=520275

Dec 31 07 05:01 pm Link

Photographer

Escalante

Posts: 5367

Chicago, Illinois, US

SoloShado wrote:

Good advise here...^

A link to one of your 17yo peers portfolio...I'm sure if there were anything illegal posted MM would not allow it...all the naysayers here are over reacting.

https://modelmayhem.com/pics.php?id=520275

Different country, different LAWS different attitude , AND different Set of Parents

Dec 31 07 05:08 pm Link

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Taboo Motel

Posts: 195

Kansas City, Missouri, US

ESCALANTE wrote:

Different country, different LAWS different attitude , AND different Set of Parents

I agree to all of your points...still...nothing illegal posted in that portfolio...all the images are legal here in the US....

Dec 31 07 05:11 pm Link

Model

Erika Tschirhart

Posts: 576

San Francisco, California, US

It is a MUST that your parent(s) consent with what you're doing.. they're not being ridiculous, necessarily.. it's what they want and feel comfortable with.  And if that's what they want, just wait until you're 18.  (17 is close enough.. I don't know why people don't understand this.. lol I remember being 16 like it was yesterday.. and it was horrible.)  Do as much PG modeling as possible.. lol.. it's safer that way anyhow.. the photographer could get ridiculed.  Also, being as young as you are, you shouldn't jump into that type of modeling right away.  It's just.. a bad idea.  Believe me.

Dec 31 07 05:12 pm Link

Photographer

Lumigraphics

Posts: 32780

Detroit, Michigan, US

Cat Brooke wrote:
I'm 17 and my parents don't want me to do any pinup-type modeling because they think I'm too young and the photographers involved in those fields are all perverts. Is it just me or are they being rediculous and over protective?

They are right for being concerned, for being involved, and for putting limits on your activities. They are stereotyping fucking idiots for thinking that every glamour/pinup photographer is a pervert.

Edit- this gives you a year to show them how decent and responsible you and photographers in your area can be. Build a relationship with a few and then, when you trust them and are an adult, you can shoot more racy stuff.

Dec 31 07 05:14 pm Link

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art davis photography

Posts: 134

Palm Springs, California, US

SoloShado wrote:

I agree to all of your points...still...nothing illegal posted in that portfolio...all the images are legal here in the US....

actualy if someone wanted to push it legally in this nation this would definitely not make it. it is definitely lascivious!

Dec 31 07 05:16 pm Link

Photographer

Jefferson Dorsey

Posts: 648

Nashville, Tennessee, US

StacyJack wrote:
Side note:  there are perverts in all feilds of photography.

Jake Garn wrote:
Not all photographers are perverts...

Not all, but most?

(I get so sick of this shit. I wonder how any models even survive in this industry, since it's populated by so many perverts and murderers)

Dec 31 07 05:26 pm Link

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Cre8ive

Posts: 1075

Los Angeles, California, US

art davis photography wrote:

actualy if someone wanted to push it legally in this nation this would definitely not make it. it is definitely lascivious!

You are saying that the stuff in Val's port is not legal? and why is Val's port being used? There is nothing in her port that is even close to being inappropreate or borderline smut. The OP needs to pass on pin/up stuff and like Jerry Coleman wrote needs to work on some basic stuff and start building a port first.

Dec 31 07 05:28 pm Link

Photographer

BlackWatch

Posts: 3825

Cleveland, Ohio, US

Caring parents rule!

Side note:  We would not shoot pinup with a 17 year old...

Dec 31 07 05:30 pm Link

Model

StacyJack

Posts: 2297

New Orleans, Louisiana, US

Jefferson Dorsey wrote:

StacyJack wrote:
Side note:  there are perverts in all feilds of photography.

Not all, but most?

(I get so sick of this shit. I wonder how any models even survive in this industry, since it's populated by so many perverts and murderers)

chill.

Dec 31 07 05:41 pm Link

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Taboo Motel

Posts: 195

Kansas City, Missouri, US

StacyJack wrote:

Jefferson Dorsey wrote:

StacyJack wrote:
Side note:  there are perverts in all feilds of photography.

Not all, but most?

(I get so sick of this shit. I wonder how any models even survive in this industry, since it's populated by so many perverts and murderers)

chill.

StacyJack wrote:

chill.

hey, maybe her doctor is a pervert...or the cop that comes to her house when she calls...or the Attorney General of Calif...or, holy ministers Batman....her preacher....give us a break ya'll, sure would be nice to create some beautiful work without all the freaks on both sides of this BS...

Dec 31 07 05:51 pm Link

Photographer

art davis photography

Posts: 134

Palm Springs, California, US

Cre8ive wrote:

You are saying that the stuff in Val's port is not legal? and why is Val's port being used? There is nothing in her port that is even close to being inappropreate or borderline smut. The OP needs to pass on pin/up stuff and like Jerry Coleman wrote needs to work on some basic stuff and start building a port first.

it isnt smut! but do you think that OP could shoot those same shots in the US? her parents would quickly take it to a nice religious judge and he would quickly lock the photographer up! and the male model posing with her ready for a hot kiss?..and then quickly get it on FOX news for the AM news headlines!

only reason im continuing on this, is that this is a perfect example of how ridiculous the laws in this nation are when it comes to age appropriateness. we are not a free nation! this nation is dominated and controlled by a certain type of christian who is focused on interpreting "god's" rules on their own. in peru they are dominated by christianity but they know their god will do the judging... smile

age appropriateness should be judged on an individual basis. there is no real line in time and experience...or desire.
on the other hand...
we, the "wise"..."adults" should approach the guidence of our children in their youth in terms of real guidence instead of just "black and white" rules! probably the biggest issue here in the long term is our concern for OP's health and safety! she will have to learn the ways of caution in this field. and often parents are even more clueless than the models. i see a lot of "mothering" comments from models here but instead of just saying "dont do it" what about offering more advice on how to recognize a potentially dangerous situation. like... when someone comes up to her and offers her lots of money to ....

happy new year everyone!

Dec 31 07 06:04 pm Link

Photographer

Cre8ive

Posts: 1075

Los Angeles, California, US

art davis photography wrote:

it isnt smut! but do you think that OP could shoot those same shots in the US? her parents would quickly take it to a nice religious judge and he would quickly lock the photographer up! and the male model posing with her ready for a hot kiss?..and then quickly get it on FOX news for the AM news headlines!

only reason im continuing on this, is that this is a perfect example of how ridiculous the laws in this nation are when it comes to age appropriateness. we are not a free nation! this nation is dominated and controlled by a certain type of christian who is focused on interpreting "god's" rules on their own. in peru they are dominated by christianity but they know their god will do the judging... smile

age appropriateness should be judged on an individual basis. there is no real line in time and experience...or desire.
on the other hand...
we, the "wise"..."adults" should approach the guidence of our children in their youth in terms of real guidence instead of just "black and white" rules! probably the biggest issue here in the long term is our concern for OP's health and safety! she will have to learn the ways of caution in this field. and often parents are even more clueless than the models. i see a lot of "mothering" comments from models here but instead of just saying "dont do it" what about offering more advice on how to recognize a potentially dangerous situation. like... when someone comes up to her and offers her lots of money to ....

happy new year everyone!

Stuff like whats in Val's port is shot all the time in the US... There is NO WAY any judge would even look at this because the law inforcement wouldn't even take a second look. I complete have to say either you are wrong, or just wound up to tight...

Dec 31 07 06:15 pm Link