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Model

Koryn

Posts: 39496

Boston, Massachusetts, US

Remember in first grade, when everyone learned about "good touch," and "bad touch," and how to tell the difference?

Those rules still apply to grown-up life as well.

People should use their brains a lot more, and bitch a lot less.

Sep 28 11 07:32 am Link

Photographer

Intimate Sketch

Posts: 324

New York, New York, US

I make it a point to maintain my distance with the model.  Sometimes I offer her my hand to help her with the difficult pose or location, but always leave a few inches so that the model has a choice to accept the help or not.  Communication, both verbal and non-verbal, is the key

Sep 28 11 07:33 am Link

Photographer

Ryan Lowis

Posts: 1

Sacramento, California, US

descending chain wrote:
Seno Akta Gamat!

Hehehehehehe ... smile

It's too bad that no one up in this thread of threads speaks the Divine Language ...

Cuz it MIGHT just help some of 'em ...

Especially if they're not really clear that THIER the Real Issue ... with THIS issue ...

Happy Pointless Gropings Everybody !!!

;-)

Sep 28 11 07:33 am Link

Photographer

TRC Photography

Posts: 618

East Brunswick, New Jersey, US

Threads like this, IMHO, should not try to address whether or not touching is appropriate. We all know what is and what is not without anyone explaining it to us.  On both sides.

What we should be after is whether or not it is unprofessional to make sweeping generalizations in your profile that indict everyone in a particular group, in this case, photographers.

I personally feel it is NOT appropriate, and I wouldn't work with anyone who put something like that in their profile, and I don't care if they are America's next top model. The end. NEXT.

Sep 28 11 07:41 am Link

Photographer

Starr Images

Posts: 173

Atlanta, Georgia, US

William Kious wrote:

Because society is being programmed to think that all touch is bad.  *sigh*  Think about it.  Hell, kids aren't even allowed to hug each other in school anymore.

I don't see how we're the better for it.

Agreed 100% !

Photography by it's very nature is to get a good shot without too much editing at the end. A model is a canvas for the art of photography.

In some shots she ( he ) can not SEE what adjustment needs to be made like a tag on clothing, bra, panties, etc...tucking the tag in quickly & resuming the shoot is much easier and faster than her fumbling around. A thread sticking out, a hair thats fallen, dirt, sand, the list goes on.

If I have to touch I touch, I'm not going to ask the model 12 times in a 2 hour shoot " You mind if I touch you ( here ) " and I've never had one protest. If that ever happened I'd probably stop the shoot NOW !

Sep 28 11 08:02 am Link

Model

Tansy Blue

Posts: 318

Brighton, England, United Kingdom

No one is tucking the tag on my thong in without asking permission first. That's my arse you're fiddling around with. (I cut the tags off my modelling clothes anyway, but that's not the point!)

Basically, it's my body, and just because you're taking pictures of it does not mean you temporarily own it. I ask permission before touching your camera, my friend's CDs, or my teacher's pens. Please extend the same courtesy to my skin.

Sep 28 11 08:35 am Link

Photographer

Fotografica Gregor

Posts: 4126

Alexandria, Virginia, US

ShivaKitty wrote:
Remember in first grade, when everyone learned about "good touch," and "bad touch," and how to tell the difference?

Those rules still apply to grown-up life as well.

People should use their brains a lot more, and bitch a lot less.

Well - talking about nailing it - 'nuff said smile

Sep 28 11 08:39 am Link

Photographer

Starr Images

Posts: 173

Atlanta, Georgia, US

Tansy Blue wrote:
No one is tucking the tag on my thong in without asking permission first. That's my arse you're fiddling around with. (I cut the tags off my modelling clothes anyway, but that's not the point!)

Basically, it's my body, and just because you're taking pictures of it does not mean you temporarily own it. I ask permission before touching your camera, my friend's CDs, or my teacher's pens. Please extend the same courtesy to my skin.

Tucking in a tag is not the same thing as "fiddling around with your arse" ( I really hate that word, ewwwww ), but good to know I'd never be shooting you ;-)

Sep 28 11 08:45 am Link

Photographer

Shiva Photo

Posts: 1961

East Hills, New York, US

Harold Rose wrote:
Over 50 years of photographery  I "Do Not Touch Models"  No need to!!  Do you touch the waitress a McDonalds..  Do you touch the cashier???

Time to retire.

Useless comparisons.

Compare to similiar situations like artists, painters, sculptors, gym instructors who may face similiar situations.

Sep 28 11 08:50 am Link

Photographer

J O H N A L L A N

Posts: 12221

Los Angeles, California, US

ShivaKitty wrote:
Remember in first grade, when everyone learned about "good touch," and "bad touch," and how to tell the difference?

Those rules still apply to grown-up life as well.

People should use their brains a lot more, and bitch a lot less.

Wow - I don't even have to waste my morning answering the OP. It was all said above.

John

Sep 28 11 08:52 am Link

Photographer

MWI

Posts: 23

Nottingham, England, United Kingdom

descending chain wrote:
Seno Akta Gamat!

+1

Sep 28 11 08:56 am Link

Photographer

Starr Images

Posts: 173

Atlanta, Georgia, US

Shiva Photo wrote:

Time to retire.

Useless comparisons.

Compare to similiar situations like artists, painters, sculptors, gym instructors who may face similiar situations.

Touche ! Well put ;-)

Sep 28 11 08:56 am Link

Photographer

HOTTIE SHOTS

Posts: 6018

Memphis, Tennessee, US

ShivaKitty wrote:
Remember in first grade, when everyone learned about "good touch," and "bad touch," and how to tell the difference?

Those rules still apply to grown-up life as well.

People should use their brains a lot more, and bitch a lot less.

Well said!

Sep 28 11 09:00 am Link

Photographer

Swank Photography

Posts: 19020

Key West, Florida, US

Elizabeth Claret wrote:
The statement in the OP, "I will not tolerate HANDS ON PHOTOGRAPHERS" sounds more to me like someone who has worked with a few too many GWCs who like to get grabby, not someone who is simply moving you or a hair or a piece of clothing or wardrobe.

This is what it comes across as to me. Granted I am a woman photographer, but in my years of shooting models, I've heard horror stories from a few about some GWC grabbing a breast and one GWC claiming he had to adjust the crotch of a bikini bottom (where the inner thighs connect to the pelvis and you have vagina) and in doing so, slipped a couple of fingers inside her vagina.

I make it a policy to ask the model if they are alright with my adjusting them and if so I am mindful about places I lay my hands.

Sep 28 11 09:02 am Link

Photographer

Swank Photography

Posts: 19020

Key West, Florida, US

ShivaKitty wrote:
Remember in first grade, when everyone learned about "good touch," and "bad touch," and how to tell the difference?

Those rules still apply to grown-up life as well.

People should use their brains a lot more, and bitch a lot less.

.

This is sooooooooooooooooooooooo spot on

Sep 28 11 09:03 am Link

Photographer

Swank Photography

Posts: 19020

Key West, Florida, US

Harold Rose wrote:
Over 50 years of photographery  I "Do Not Touch Models"  No need to!!  Do you touch the waitress a McDonalds..  Do you touch the cashier???

Seriously Harold...one has nothing to do with the other. Not at all. Not even remotely in the nearest galaxy!

Sep 28 11 09:06 am Link

Photographer

Image Unlimited

Posts: 1559

Crewe, England, United Kingdom

Swank Photography wrote:
Seriously Harold...one has nothing to do with the other. Not at all. Not even remotely in the nearest galaxy!

Quickie interception - when shooting politicians etc - all the time - and if it were a McD employee promo - pretty certain - time is key, when verbal direction fails, move in.  Never had hassle/rebuke - even when model/actress partners on set - only thanks for results.

Edit - I touched my (novice model) avatar during the shoot, mostly to adjust the hair.

Sep 28 11 09:27 am Link

Photographer

Docta Shock Fotografix

Posts: 1806

Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, US

How do you translate " I will not tolerate HANDS ON PHOTOGRAPHERS "
to;Reluctance of a model to be touched by the photographer even for adjustment of a pose for best angle or lighting is counter productive to getting the best shots.

Models who are absolutely " touch me not"  must think twice about a serious career in modeling.?????

I translate it to mean that the model has had some bad experiences with some "touchy" unprofessional photographers and is frustrated. This model deserves compassion not vilification.

Some of the remarks here are part of the reason many models do not trust photographers

Sep 28 11 09:36 am Link

Model

Mickey Maurer

Posts: 942

Danbury, Connecticut, US

ShivaKitty hit it perfect.  It reminds me of the Friends show with Chandler being fitted for a suit. lol. 

Photographers can touch me, I am not made of glass. If they touch me inappropriately, then I will let them know.  It is not like people haven't tried before.

Sep 28 11 09:36 am Link

Photographer

PETER GEORGAS

Posts: 1183

Burnaby, British Columbia, Canada

ShivaKitty wrote:
Remember in first grade, when everyone learned about "good touch," and "bad touch," and how to tell the difference?

Those rules still apply to grown-up life as well.

People should use their brains a lot more, and bitch a lot less.

.......COMMON SENSE........

Sep 28 11 09:40 am Link

Model

Dane Halo

Posts: 1154

San Francisco, California, US

I don't like being touched.  If a stranger in the street comes up and snaps my bra strap, bitch is going DOWN.

That's not to say you can't.  Just need to ask!  Usually I will say "Oh yea!  No problem at all.  Go for it." and then for the rest of the shoot, you're as good as gold!

At photoshoots though, yes, it is sometimes necessary - though very, very very seldomly - for me to be touched by the photographer, stylist, whatever (I wear next to no clothing 90% of the time).  All I ask is that you simply ASK before you enter my 'bubble'.  You'd cringe to hear some of the stories I have experienced of photographers 'falling on me' while I pose on a bed in a high end hotel room, of 'erotic massages' that came right out of left field, being 'helped onto a rock' by placing his hand ON my crotch, inappropriate pet names and comments on my crotch, and oh man does the list go on.  Those photoshoots were over in the blink of an eye.  Just... ask.  That's ALL it takes.  "May I adjust your hair/brastrap/etc.?"  Nothing wrong with that.

If you have a crappy attitude and think that everyone should have the same level of comfort as you with being touched, I would say that YOU are the diva, not the other way around.

Tansy Blue wrote:
No one is tucking the tag on my thong in without asking permission first. That's my arse you're fiddling around with. (I cut the tags off my modelling clothes anyway, but that's not the point!)

Basically, it's my body, and just because you're taking pictures of it does not mean you temporarily own it. I ask permission before touching your camera, my friend's CDs, or my teacher's pens. Please extend the same courtesy to my skin.

YEP.

Sep 28 11 10:02 am Link

Photographer

Shiva Photo

Posts: 1961

East Hills, New York, US

Has any photographer been successfully sued for assault or sexual harassment for touching a model?


Has any model contemplated such an action?

Sep 28 11 10:40 am Link

Photographer

Jeff Waters Photography

Posts: 420

Bainbridge Island, Washington, US

The only time I have ever had to "touch" a model is if I didn't want her to move out of a pose and she had a stray hair or something. I prefer to work with girls who are able to pose themselves, and when needed are able to take direction.

Sep 28 11 10:48 am Link

Model

Tansy Blue

Posts: 318

Brighton, England, United Kingdom

Starr Images wrote:
Tucking in a tag is not the same thing as "fiddling around with your arse" ( I really hate that word, ewwwww ), but good to know I'd never be shooting you ;-)

Really? Because if you're fiddling around with a tag that is necessarily in extremely close contact with my buttocks...

We're on different continents anyway, so we were never going to shoot even if had the same standards of behaviour.

Sep 28 11 10:50 am Link

Photographer

Ken Marcus Studios

Posts: 9421

Las Vegas, Nevada, US

Try doing bondage photography WITHOUT touching the model !

Sep 28 11 10:56 am Link

Photographer

Blue Mini Photography

Posts: 1703

Tempe, Arizona, US

If a model has the rule, then have her bring a female assistant to do the touching.

I touch models after asking.  Typically it is to move hair, but sometimes it just when I've tried to explain for 5 minutes and my wording is matching what she is thinking I mean.

Then I've had models tell me to just move them around as needed.  So everyone is different.  I work to respect the comfort of my models/clients.

For large productions, I've had stylist moving clothes, adjusting boobs (and no the model couldn't do it, because once she moved the boob and re-posed it would need adjusting again).  This is one I that I wouldn't do as a photographer though, which why I use a stylist for shoots where this type of issue is possible.

Sep 28 11 10:57 am Link

Photographer

West Images

Posts: 754

Sacramento, California, US

Why is it models don't like to be TOUCHED but they LOVE to be RE-TOUCHED???   (Just sayin)

~ ALOHA ~

Sep 28 11 11:01 am Link

Model

3-Dimensional

Posts: 1081

Atlanta, Georgia, US

Ken Marcus Studios wrote:
Try doing bondage photography WITHOUT touching the model !

QFT - the only reason to touch me, is if im physically bound, and unable to touch myself. lol

Sep 28 11 11:03 am Link

Photographer

Digital Photo PLUS

Posts: 5503

Lorton, Virginia, US

I cannot afford a breast stylist so I have to do it myself. Excuze me for livin.

Sep 28 11 11:04 am Link

Photographer

Le Beck Photography

Posts: 4114

Los Angeles, California, US

Augustine York wrote:
I can't recall a single time in modeling where someone had to put a hand on me to show me how to pose or to adjust a piece of clothing for me. Usually a quick "move your bra strap" or "to the left" or "look up" does the trick.

If a model is so inept at following direction, or a photographer is so inept at giving it, that the photographer needs to be physically touching the model to get her to move the way he wants her to... then someone is doing something wrong.

And yes, I know there are some exceptions where someone is in such a complicated pose they can't even reach their own panties to adjust them, but seriously, how often do those scenarios happen?

I always ask and then I only use the lightest of touches on the most neutral places. You'd be surprised how few people know what turn your body counterclockwise towards the light 30 degrees means.  As for more subtle adjustments, trying to describe a subtle change in position is usually a massive exercise in futility.

Sep 28 11 02:38 pm Link

Model

Elizabeth Claret

Posts: 56038

Yelm, Washington, US

Ken Marcus Studios wrote:
Try doing bondage photography WITHOUT touching the model !

I finally realized why I stopped doing so much bondage work, and it has nothing to do with touching...

I got tired of my pubic hair being pulled by the ropes. Fuck that does not feel good. lol

Sep 28 11 02:41 pm Link

Photographer

Joel England Photo

Posts: 599

Los Angeles, California, US

Shiva Photo wrote:
Has any photographer been successfully sued for assault or sexual harassment for touching a model?

Has any model contemplated such an action?

This is one reason some photographers have assistants present for protection among other reasons. Or videotape sessions. Similar worries are why doctors usually have a nurse/assistant present when examining women...protection against accusations and shakedown lawsuits.

As to the questions I'm not aware of any such lawsuits, and I'm sure models have contemplated such lawsuits.

Sep 28 11 02:56 pm Link

Photographer

MaillerPhong

Posts: 79

Kansas City, Kansas, US

Shiva Photo wrote:
" I will not tolerate HANDS ON PHOTOGRAPHERS "

I think they'll find it rather difficult for the photographer to hold and operate a camera without hands.

Sep 28 11 03:31 pm Link

Photographer

Le Beck Photography

Posts: 4114

Los Angeles, California, US

Someone mentioned gyn teachers. She'd better never take a yoga class. Many of them just take hold and adjust your pose as they walk by. It's usually pause, yank, Like this!

Sep 28 11 03:37 pm Link

Photographer

Sheri Baldwin

Posts: 1111

Orlando, Florida, US

I do minor adjustments usually, and I TRY to remember to ask beforehand, but sometimes I'm just too quick for my own good. I haven't had anyone complain yet, but it might also be because I'm a lady who's interested in men and photographs women, so no one's gotten the wrong idea.  tongue

Sep 28 11 03:39 pm Link

Photographer

Art of the nude

Posts: 12067

Grand Rapids, Michigan, US

Black Sunshine wrote:
Usually the best poses are the ones they make in between poses for half a second, and when you tell them what to do, they don't know what you mean.

I've gotten some results I love from the model misunderstanding the instructions.  But, I usually shoot what they came up with AND what I originally intended.

Sep 28 11 05:02 pm Link

Photographer

Art of the nude

Posts: 12067

Grand Rapids, Michigan, US

Tansy Blue wrote:
No one is tucking the tag on my thong in without asking permission first. That's my arse you're fiddling around with. (I cut the tags off my modelling clothes anyway, but that's not the point!)

Basically, it's my body, and just because you're taking pictures of it does not mean you temporarily own it. I ask permission before touching your camera, my friend's CDs, or my teacher's pens. Please extend the same courtesy to my skin.

Starr Images wrote:
Tucking in a tag is not the same thing as "fiddling around with your arse" ( I really hate that word, ewwwww ), but good to know I'd never be shooting you ;-)

Tucking in the tag ON A THONG is pretty close.

Sep 28 11 05:08 pm Link

Photographer

punkuate

Posts: 1558

Glasgow, Scotland, United Kingdom

Unless the models hands are tied up or something, why the hell would you be tucking in their label on their thong? Remember models are capable of doing stuff themselves.

Sep 28 11 06:32 pm Link

Photographer

Collin J. Rae

Posts: 7657

Winchester, Virginia, US

I will touch you.

Sep 28 11 08:07 pm Link

Model

retiredanddeleted

Posts: 3561

Azul, Buenos Aires, Argentina

I have a no touch rule.
However, just ask and I'll let you.

I've had bad experiences.

Sep 28 11 08:12 pm Link