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Remember in first grade, when everyone learned about "good touch," and "bad touch," and how to tell the difference? Those rules still apply to grown-up life as well. People should use their brains a lot more, and bitch a lot less. Sep 28 11 07:32 am Link I make it a point to maintain my distance with the model. Sometimes I offer her my hand to help her with the difficult pose or location, but always leave a few inches so that the model has a choice to accept the help or not. Communication, both verbal and non-verbal, is the key Sep 28 11 07:33 am Link descending chain wrote: Hehehehehehe ... Sep 28 11 07:33 am Link Threads like this, IMHO, should not try to address whether or not touching is appropriate. We all know what is and what is not without anyone explaining it to us. On both sides. What we should be after is whether or not it is unprofessional to make sweeping generalizations in your profile that indict everyone in a particular group, in this case, photographers. I personally feel it is NOT appropriate, and I wouldn't work with anyone who put something like that in their profile, and I don't care if they are America's next top model. The end. NEXT. Sep 28 11 07:41 am Link William Kious wrote: Agreed 100% ! Sep 28 11 08:02 am Link No one is tucking the tag on my thong in without asking permission first. That's my arse you're fiddling around with. (I cut the tags off my modelling clothes anyway, but that's not the point!) Basically, it's my body, and just because you're taking pictures of it does not mean you temporarily own it. I ask permission before touching your camera, my friend's CDs, or my teacher's pens. Please extend the same courtesy to my skin. Sep 28 11 08:35 am Link ShivaKitty wrote: Well - talking about nailing it - 'nuff said Sep 28 11 08:39 am Link Tansy Blue wrote: Tucking in a tag is not the same thing as "fiddling around with your arse" ( I really hate that word, ewwwww ), but good to know I'd never be shooting you ;-) Sep 28 11 08:45 am Link Harold Rose wrote: Time to retire. Sep 28 11 08:50 am Link ShivaKitty wrote: Wow - I don't even have to waste my morning answering the OP. It was all said above. Sep 28 11 08:52 am Link descending chain wrote: +1 Sep 28 11 08:56 am Link Shiva Photo wrote: Touche ! Well put ;-) Sep 28 11 08:56 am Link ShivaKitty wrote: Well said! Sep 28 11 09:00 am Link Elizabeth Claret wrote: This is what it comes across as to me. Granted I am a woman photographer, but in my years of shooting models, I've heard horror stories from a few about some GWC grabbing a breast and one GWC claiming he had to adjust the crotch of a bikini bottom (where the inner thighs connect to the pelvis and you have vagina) and in doing so, slipped a couple of fingers inside her vagina. Sep 28 11 09:02 am Link ShivaKitty wrote: . Sep 28 11 09:03 am Link Harold Rose wrote: Seriously Harold...one has nothing to do with the other. Not at all. Not even remotely in the nearest galaxy! Sep 28 11 09:06 am Link Swank Photography wrote: Quickie interception - when shooting politicians etc - all the time - and if it were a McD employee promo - pretty certain - time is key, when verbal direction fails, move in. Never had hassle/rebuke - even when model/actress partners on set - only thanks for results. Sep 28 11 09:27 am Link How do you translate " I will not tolerate HANDS ON PHOTOGRAPHERS " to;Reluctance of a model to be touched by the photographer even for adjustment of a pose for best angle or lighting is counter productive to getting the best shots. Models who are absolutely " touch me not" must think twice about a serious career in modeling.????? I translate it to mean that the model has had some bad experiences with some "touchy" unprofessional photographers and is frustrated. This model deserves compassion not vilification. Some of the remarks here are part of the reason many models do not trust photographers Sep 28 11 09:36 am Link ShivaKitty hit it perfect. It reminds me of the Friends show with Chandler being fitted for a suit. lol. Photographers can touch me, I am not made of glass. If they touch me inappropriately, then I will let them know. It is not like people haven't tried before. Sep 28 11 09:36 am Link ShivaKitty wrote: .......COMMON SENSE........ Sep 28 11 09:40 am Link I don't like being touched. If a stranger in the street comes up and snaps my bra strap, bitch is going DOWN. That's not to say you can't. Just need to ask! Usually I will say "Oh yea! No problem at all. Go for it." and then for the rest of the shoot, you're as good as gold! At photoshoots though, yes, it is sometimes necessary - though very, very very seldomly - for me to be touched by the photographer, stylist, whatever (I wear next to no clothing 90% of the time). All I ask is that you simply ASK before you enter my 'bubble'. You'd cringe to hear some of the stories I have experienced of photographers 'falling on me' while I pose on a bed in a high end hotel room, of 'erotic massages' that came right out of left field, being 'helped onto a rock' by placing his hand ON my crotch, inappropriate pet names and comments on my crotch, and oh man does the list go on. Those photoshoots were over in the blink of an eye. Just... ask. That's ALL it takes. "May I adjust your hair/brastrap/etc.?" Nothing wrong with that. If you have a crappy attitude and think that everyone should have the same level of comfort as you with being touched, I would say that YOU are the diva, not the other way around. Tansy Blue wrote: YEP. Sep 28 11 10:02 am Link Has any photographer been successfully sued for assault or sexual harassment for touching a model? Has any model contemplated such an action? Sep 28 11 10:40 am Link The only time I have ever had to "touch" a model is if I didn't want her to move out of a pose and she had a stray hair or something. I prefer to work with girls who are able to pose themselves, and when needed are able to take direction. Sep 28 11 10:48 am Link Starr Images wrote: Really? Because if you're fiddling around with a tag that is necessarily in extremely close contact with my buttocks... Sep 28 11 10:50 am Link Try doing bondage photography WITHOUT touching the model ! Sep 28 11 10:56 am Link If a model has the rule, then have her bring a female assistant to do the touching. I touch models after asking. Typically it is to move hair, but sometimes it just when I've tried to explain for 5 minutes and my wording is matching what she is thinking I mean. Then I've had models tell me to just move them around as needed. So everyone is different. I work to respect the comfort of my models/clients. For large productions, I've had stylist moving clothes, adjusting boobs (and no the model couldn't do it, because once she moved the boob and re-posed it would need adjusting again). This is one I that I wouldn't do as a photographer though, which why I use a stylist for shoots where this type of issue is possible. Sep 28 11 10:57 am Link Why is it models don't like to be TOUCHED but they LOVE to be RE-TOUCHED??? (Just sayin) ~ ALOHA ~ Sep 28 11 11:01 am Link Ken Marcus Studios wrote: QFT - the only reason to touch me, is if im physically bound, and unable to touch myself. lol Sep 28 11 11:03 am Link I cannot afford a breast stylist so I have to do it myself. Excuze me for livin. Sep 28 11 11:04 am Link Augustine York wrote: I always ask and then I only use the lightest of touches on the most neutral places. You'd be surprised how few people know what turn your body counterclockwise towards the light 30 degrees means. As for more subtle adjustments, trying to describe a subtle change in position is usually a massive exercise in futility. Sep 28 11 02:38 pm Link Ken Marcus Studios wrote: I finally realized why I stopped doing so much bondage work, and it has nothing to do with touching... Sep 28 11 02:41 pm Link Shiva Photo wrote: This is one reason some photographers have assistants present for protection among other reasons. Or videotape sessions. Similar worries are why doctors usually have a nurse/assistant present when examining women...protection against accusations and shakedown lawsuits. Sep 28 11 02:56 pm Link Shiva Photo wrote: I think they'll find it rather difficult for the photographer to hold and operate a camera without hands. Sep 28 11 03:31 pm Link Someone mentioned gyn teachers. She'd better never take a yoga class. Many of them just take hold and adjust your pose as they walk by. It's usually pause, yank, Like this! Sep 28 11 03:37 pm Link I do minor adjustments usually, and I TRY to remember to ask beforehand, but sometimes I'm just too quick for my own good. I haven't had anyone complain yet, but it might also be because I'm a lady who's interested in men and photographs women, so no one's gotten the wrong idea. Sep 28 11 03:39 pm Link Black Sunshine wrote: I've gotten some results I love from the model misunderstanding the instructions. But, I usually shoot what they came up with AND what I originally intended. Sep 28 11 05:02 pm Link Tansy Blue wrote: Starr Images wrote: Tucking in the tag ON A THONG is pretty close. Sep 28 11 05:08 pm Link Unless the models hands are tied up or something, why the hell would you be tucking in their label on their thong? Remember models are capable of doing stuff themselves. Sep 28 11 06:32 pm Link I will touch you. Sep 28 11 08:07 pm Link I have a no touch rule. However, just ask and I'll let you. I've had bad experiences. Sep 28 11 08:12 pm Link |