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Photographer

Larry Quick

Posts: 117

Lake Worth, Florida, US

Doesnt matter what you shoot with, the most important accessory you have for any camera equipment in about 3 inches behind the camera. if you don't know what your doing with the most expensive equipment you still won't get any better photos than with a phone camera. So talk yourself up and not everybody elses equipment.

Jan 13 13 02:20 pm Link

Photographer

ontherocks

Posts: 23575

Salem, Oregon, US

the groom and i were on the way to shoot the car outside (at the groom's request) closely followed by the bride when the maid of honor announced the garter toss. when the groom told me to follow him outside maybe i should have checked with the maid of honor first. no DJ on this one (so far on six weddings we've had one DJ plus a DJ at a pre-wedding party). i had also been told there wouldn't even be a garter toss on this wedding (but i can't remember who said that).

i could have shot it with my 501.4 (in hindsight should have) but wanted my 17-40. my 2nd body had a 15mm fisheye and only goes to ISO1600. after changing lenses, i did manage to catch the garter catch but not the toss.

i agree that being caught out is bad. maybe the moral of the story is don't listen to the groom. check with the ladies first.

i did get the bouquet toss although e-ttl (how i hate that) went nuclear on me for one frame. the bouquet toss can be surprising. i had one bride on the top deck of a boat where she caught her own bouquet because of the wind and then quickly threw it underhanded surprising all the photographers.

whoever says weddings are easy hasn't done one yet. not if you want to get all the shots.

i think next time i'm not going to listen to the groom or will at least check with the maid of honor first. so far on our weddings the bride has been pretty much exhausted and just running on fumes. there were several times on this wedding where the groom steered me wrong relative to what the maid of honor had in mind.

Good Egg Productions wrote:
If you're not prepared for the bouquet toss, then you're not prepared. It's your business to coordinate with the DJ or coordinator to make SURE you're prepared to shoot one of the most important parts or a reception.

Jan 13 13 02:29 pm Link

Photographer

Good Egg Productions

Posts: 16713

Orlando, Florida, US

How long could it possibly have taken to change lenses??

5 minutes?

Tell the bride to wait. She WANTS these pictures. She will wait.

Jan 13 13 02:35 pm Link

Photographer

testingphotography

Posts: 218

Seattle, Washington, US

The gear doesn't matter, it's the photographer that makes the difference. "Everybody" has some kind of great camera these days but it's the skill of the photog that makes the shot.
By the way, you couldn't pay me enough to shoot weddings...

Jan 13 13 02:37 pm Link

Photographer

ontherocks

Posts: 23575

Salem, Oregon, US

less. i asked them to wait but they didn't. there were a couple times where they said they would wait but didn't. at one point they told me i could grab a bite (i was doing them a favor and staying beyond the paid for time) and then announced the first dance while i was chewing. there was bad or no communication between the bride, groom and maid of honor. in hindsight i should have tried to confirm everything with the maid of honor on this one. or i should have yelled "WAIT" but it was a big and noisy reception.

the problem we've had is the brides just being a wreck and not really tracking anymore at the reception. they wear themselves out physically and emotionally before the big day. or the stress of the big day just gets the best of them. and the grooms are afraid to make a decision and upset the bride but she doesn't want to make any more decisions. aren't weddings fun?

for the cake cutting i had to shoulder my way through at least 20 guests (all shooting) to get a clear shot. felt like an NFL linebacker. i used all of my 240 pounds.

i really need a 2nd MK II (or maybe another fuji) so i have a two low light cameras around my neck. the MK I isn't so good for dark receptions.

and i'm still learning how aggressive i can be at weddings without risking pissing someone off. i'm a lot more aggressive now than i was on the first one. but at the busier/noisier receptions it seems like they don't wait for anyone, even the hired photographer. i had one guest (a pinup model type) say that she had invited a student friend of hers to shoot the wedding as a gift for the bride (and i kind of got the feeling it was like "if she had shown up the bride wouldn't have needed you guys"). sometimes i feel like rodney dangerfield.

Good Egg Productions wrote:
How long could it possibly have taken to change lenses??

5 minutes?

Tell the bride to wait. She WANTS these pictures. She will wait.

Jan 13 13 02:39 pm Link

Photographer

Good Egg Productions

Posts: 16713

Orlando, Florida, US

What you really need to do is find out who's in charge and coordinate with that person throughout the event.

That's usually the DJ because he has the mic.

Sometimes it's a wedding coordinator.
Rarely, it's a Maid of Honor or mother of the bride.

Every once on a while, it'll be you.

Your job is to get the shots. You can't do that if you are not in communication with the person running the show.

Jan 13 13 02:48 pm Link

Photographer

Dan OMell

Posts: 1415

Charlotte, North Carolina, US

made by the same paint and brushes

https://www.cssplay.co.uk/menus/matisse/matisse4.jpg

https://static.artlover.me/300/images/art1/albrecht-altdorfer-the-battle-of-alexander-detail.jpg

Jan 13 13 02:53 pm Link

Photographer

ontherocks

Posts: 23575

Salem, Oregon, US

i think i need to follow the mic. our weddings seem like complete chaos and nobody (including bride or groom) ever seems to know what's going on when i ask or they manage to misdirect me. things just sort of happen spontaneously. like the thing with shooting the car outside at the last one. i didn't know about that until the groom said "let's go" and i said "i need to switch lenses, hold on"

i can see why some photographers sell themselves as coordinators, too. it's in their own best interest.

we've only had one DJ so far and he wasn't coordinating. the coordinators we've had have been associated with the venue and more concerned that people were blowing bubbles and someone might slip.

maybe it's because we're working lower budget ($10K and under) type weddings? not sure.

still trying to figure how to make sure i can get every shot and not miss anything important.

Good Egg Productions wrote:
What you really need to do is find out who's in charge and coordinate with that person throughout the event.

That's usually the DJ because he has the mic.

Sometimes it's a wedding coordinator.
Rarely, it's a Maid of Honor or mother of the bride.

Every once on a while, it'll be you.

Your job is to get the shots. You can't do that if you are not in communication with the person running the show.

Jan 13 13 02:53 pm Link

Photographer

Patrick Walberg

Posts: 45198

San Juan Bautista, California, US

twoharts wrote:
shot a wedding last night and one of the guests noticed the wife's x-pro1 and showed off his new fuji x-e1 and then said his normal camera was a D-800 but he didn't feel like bringing that along. i asked him if he shot professionally and he said he did it just for fun. he didn't interfere or anything but it's hard to outgun the guests these days unless you have like  a D4. during the cake cutting there must have been 20 guests shooting although they did let me get my shots.

we did some shots with a Bel Air in the dark and the x-pro1 again outperformed my canon 5D MK II at ISO6400. and it's not even full-frame. fuji did something special in making that sensor.

just seems like within a few years if everyone is running around with X-E1 class cameras then they can get good shots in the dark, too. so a "pro" will have to distinguish themselves through other means than camera technology. but maybe that has always been the case.

Having worked as a wedding and portrait photographer, I've shot many weddings since back in the days when a photographers choices were "what film" to shoot.  It was rare for anyone to bring a medium format camera better than mine to the weddings.  Thanks to technology and pricing, now anyone can have a camera that takes decent ... even great pictures!

Jan 13 13 02:55 pm Link

Photographer

Good Egg Productions

Posts: 16713

Orlando, Florida, US

twoharts wrote:
maybe it's because we're working lower budget ($10K and under) type weddings? not sure.

still trying to figure how to make sure i can get every shot and not miss anything important.


I would agree with that.

And I'll further speculate that the brides and grooms are getting what there paying for. Likely much more.

Jan 13 13 02:59 pm Link

Photographer

Kaouthia

Posts: 3153

Wishaw, Scotland, United Kingdom

twoharts wrote:
still trying to figure how to make sure i can get every shot and not miss anything important.

Second shooter.

Jan 13 13 03:02 pm Link

Photographer

MKPhoto

Posts: 5665

Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada

I've seen people with these

https://di1-2.shoppingshadow.com/images/pi/2e/e1/1c/109829534-260x260-0-0_rainbow+rainbowimaging+black+qucik+release+dual+sh.jpg

Two  bodies, two lenses, 3 seconds to swap cameras.

Jan 13 13 03:10 pm Link

Photographer

ontherocks

Posts: 23575

Salem, Oregon, US

i'm always amazed at someone who can work solo and nail all the shots. now that's something!

on a large event i think i'd like to even have a third person as assistant, gear-watcher and someone i could direct to take a few specific shots here and there.

Kaouthia wrote:
Second shooter.

Jan 13 13 03:15 pm Link

Photographer

ontherocks

Posts: 23575

Salem, Oregon, US

you look you're going into battle but i guess in some ways you are. i can definitely see the advantage of wearing two bodies lensed up differently although once you add flash it can be a lot to have on you.

i have a single camera black rapid strap but it slips all around and drives me nuts so i don't use it much except when i'm doing 70-200 senior shots in the park.

MKPhoto wrote:
I've seen people with these

Jan 13 13 03:18 pm Link

Photographer

KA Style

Posts: 1583

Syracuse, New York, US

MainePaintah wrote:
I briefly shot weddings in NYC when I was a photographer in the 1980's. I remember that the day following a wedding shoot, I could barely walk because I spent most of the wedding trying to be unobtrusive and shooting from being on one knee and scurrying around all day!

Ha, totally! I feel like I was run over by a truck at the end of a full coverage day. Im no spring chicken and my knees were already shot before I did events.


And yes on the stealth mode.Thats what a zoom is for. They say "I didnt even notice you" or you look like you love your job and having fun. Because I am. big_smile

Jan 13 13 03:21 pm Link

Photographer

Chris David Photography

Posts: 561

Sydney, New South Wales, Australia

I find more and more often hobbyists and amateur photographers around me having far better gear then professionals. This is because they have higher paying stable jobs in a different industry (especially IT) to fund their hobby where as most professionals are just getting by. I  The difference is usually in the skill, quality and products being produced. was shooting weddings with 20D's/30D for a number of years before I upgraded to 1Dsm3. I've had someone assisted me who has only been shooting 6 months and owns a Nikon D3s and a H4 Hasselblad but could barely use the equipment correctly to get a good image.
As a guest I've seen a wedding crew overseas use Canons Rebels and kit lens for photo/video producing absolutely remarkable work. They played an edited video during the reception and managed to produce and deliver the final video and magazine style album 3 days later. I don't think bride/groom gets to see any put in any more input in the time before its produced but they are well designed. Here it takes 3-6 weeks to get an album made from the supplier.
I also know a popular wedding photographer here that always has 5 cameras strapped on him at shooting. 4 DSLR with different lens combos plus a MFD. He has 2 secondary shooters each with 2-3 cameras so its all overkill but probably for show to the guests.

That put aside I do have a theory that pro wedding photographers also make great model photographers especially on location shoots. They can set up very fast, work with the model and get "the shot" and move on to the next look at a fraction of the time it takes for most.

Jan 13 13 03:25 pm Link

Photographer

ontherocks

Posts: 23575

Salem, Oregon, US

last night the wife was like "i should have drank a whole bottle of that wine!" (we don't normally drink at the reception but on this one she wished she had). i felt better after an ibuprofen and tylenol but i'm feeling it today. last wedding i snapped my shoe in half from bending down so much.

why couldn't i have done this when i was younger?

KA Style wrote:
Ha, totally! I feel like I was run over by a truck at the end of a full coverage day. Im no spring chicken and my knees were already shot before I did events.

Jan 13 13 03:30 pm Link

Photographer

ontherocks

Posts: 23575

Salem, Oregon, US

not exactly going to be a stealth photographer like that! here's my posse, ma'am. but i guess some guys like to put on a good show and are hired partly for that. and maybe the guests will give him some space.

Chris David Photography wrote:
I also know a popular wedding photographer here that always has 5 cameras strapped on him at shooting. 4 DSLR with different lens combos plus a MFD. He has 2 secondary shooters each with 2-3 cameras so its all overkill but probably for show to the guests.

Jan 13 13 03:31 pm Link

Photographer

AG_Boston

Posts: 475

Boston, Massachusetts, US

I typically show up with my gear. The only thing I don't bring is my light kit. I also stay out of the way of the paid photographers though.

Jan 13 13 03:32 pm Link

Photographer

KA Style

Posts: 1583

Syracuse, New York, US

twoharts wrote:
why couldn't i have done this when i was younger?

Right. lol

Jan 13 13 03:35 pm Link

Photographer

Hero Foto

Posts: 989

Phoenix, Arizona, US

MKPhoto wrote:
I've seen people with these

https://di1-2.shoppingshadow.com/images/pi/2e/e1/1c/109829534-260x260-0-0_rainbow+rainbowimaging+black+qucik+release+dual+sh.jpg

Two  bodies, two lenses, 3 seconds to swap cameras.

YUP ... I own this and a single sling ... even though the dual is convertible to a single ..

really want a spider dual rig .. http://www.spiderholster.com/dual-camera-system.html

Jan 13 13 04:25 pm Link

Photographer

Ted W

Posts: 63

Portland, Oregon, US

twoharts wrote:
i'm always amazed at someone who can work solo and nail all the shots. now that's something!

on a large event i think i'd like to even have a third person as assistant, gear-watcher and someone i could direct to take a few specific shots here and there.


Our wedding was over 10 years ago, the photographer used a medium format film camera, manual film advance, manual focus. He shot over 300 photos all day. I don't think I would ever be able to do that.

Jan 13 13 04:35 pm Link

Photographer

Herman Surkis

Posts: 10856

Victoria, British Columbia, Canada

Anthony J Deffina wrote:
Not trying to sound like an ass here but it doesn't sound like you should be shooting weddings on your own yet.

Things to consider:

1) No wedding photographer should be shooting without at at least one 2.8 or wider in their bag. As you've learned, ability to shoot in low light without a flash is a must.

2) Shooting from a balcony is common place, at least part of the time. Wide shots of the ceremony are very important. In addition to that, it's important that the photographer not become part of the ceremony. You should not be noticed. You're lucky the bride didn't come unglued with you sitting in the front row, or more likely the mother of the bride. Fine if you got permission first though.

3) You should also be sure to have two of everything with you. Don't know if you did or did not but always be sure to.

4) Camera capabilities will always get better, that's life. You will always run across someone with new or better. The two things you need to be concerned with are if you are equipped with what you need to get the job done right and do you have a style that sets you apart from the crowd.

You sound like someone who has actually done this.

Jan 13 13 04:47 pm Link

Photographer

Leighsphotos

Posts: 3070

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

Yan Tan Tethera wrote:

twoharts wrote:
i shot my first wedding never having done one and never having even wanted to do one and never having assisted at one nor had i been to one in ages. absolutely the wrong way to get started i know but one of our boudoir clients was on the heavier side and felt we were respectful about that and got good pictures of her so she asked us to shoot her wedding (she knew we have never done one). fortunately i had done a lot of model and for-pay shoots so i knew my camera and had decent gear. plus i hired a 2nd who is one of the best wedding photographers i've ever seen (way better than me).

i think it's good to be challenged sometimes. you really need to bring your A game to these events, especially if you want to start charging lots of money for them. there's a lot involved and a lot at stake (although with 20 guests shooting everything i don't feel as much pressure. lol)

i'm a lazy studio guy shooting weddings. it is what it is.

[quotethe lonely photographer] Let the shooter decide if he's ready or not.

Thanks for sharing on a model site.

This is a model site?

Jan 13 13 04:50 pm Link

Photographer

Eric212Grapher

Posts: 3780

Saint Louis, Missouri, US

twoharts wrote:
shot a wedding last night and one of the guests noticed the wife's x-pro1 and showed off his new fuji x-e1 and then said his normal camera was a D-800 but he didn't feel like bringing that along. i asked him if he shot professionally and he said he did it just for fun. he didn't interfere or anything but it's hard to outgun the guests these days unless you have like  a D4. during the cake cutting there must have been 20 guests shooting although they did let me get my shots.

we did some shots with a Bel Air in the dark and the x-pro1 again outperformed my canon 5D MK II at ISO6400. and it's not even full-frame. fuji did something special in making that sensor.

just seems like within a few years if everyone is running around with X-E1 class cameras then they can get good shots in the dark, too. so a "pro" will have to distinguish themselves through other means than camera technology. but maybe that has always been the case.

I'm thinking the phrase "Your camera takes really good photos" applies here.

Back in the old film days, each camera body was nothing more than a film holder and a hole that opened and closed. It ain't the technology that distinguished the professionals.

Jan 13 13 05:02 pm Link

Photographer

Robbie Wolf Photography

Posts: 569

Phoenix, Arizona, US

Things Uncle Bob doesn't have:

Doing engagement and bridal portraits.
A paycheck.
Those big studio strobes to take those kick-ass formal shots.
Radio triggers to steal your light.
Three more speedlights to get cool reception shots.
Extra cameras and lenses.
Having studio experience with models and knowing how to light things quickly.
Permission to walk around the auditorium during the ceremony.
Getting to hang out with the bride and groom while they are getting ready.
Knowing how to put together a nice professional photo album.
Having fun while working your butt off to shoot non-stop for ten hours.
And a million other things.

A nice camera and lens doesn't make up for all of that. I dare Uncle Bob to keep up.

Jan 13 13 05:04 pm Link

Photographer

Herman Surkis

Posts: 10856

Victoria, British Columbia, Canada

fullmetalphotographer wrote:
My gear may not be the newest but is solid and reliable. But it my skills that set me apart from the others.

Pretty much sums up what any pro will say, and all they really need.

Jan 13 13 05:10 pm Link

Model

Abby Hawkins

Posts: 2004

Boston, Massachusetts, US

As someone on the other side of this situation (I was a bride whose uncle and father-in-law had roughly the same gear as the photographer and his assistant, minus the external flashes).  For me, I was happy that I was able to get photos from so many different paths.  I happily paid for my photographer, as, at the end of the day, it as his job to capture the moments, and capture them well, while my family members were under no such obligations.  But I loved that my family members were able to capture some high quality shots that might have gone unnoticed by the photographer.

Jan 13 13 05:14 pm Link

Photographer

Herman Surkis

Posts: 10856

Victoria, British Columbia, Canada

Luminos wrote:
I recall attending a wedding, and taking my camera (Hasselblad) at the invitation of the groom back about 30 years ago when I did shoot professionally.

The professional photographer hired by the bride's family (and was carrying a Yashicamat) and stopped me on the way in from the parking lot and attempted to tell me I couldn't have the camera at the wedding.   It infringed on "his exclusive right to shoot" the wedding.  The groom (a lawyer) was with me and reminded him he had no such right.

He then complained he'd be outshot by the Hasselblad.   All I could think was that this was one insecure photographer if he thinks its the camera that takes the pictures.

Since I wasn't there to shoot the wedding, but to shoot the guests at the reception, it was a moot point anyway.

Works both ways.   I showed up with my D300S at a recent reception at the request of the bride.   Then had a 23 year old secretary with a digital point-and-shoot get better shots of the cake cutting when the batteries in my SB-800 failed.

Yep.

Or the pro with the Yashicamat could have still out shot you.
Or.
Or.
Give Avedon a Box Brownie.
Give me a D4.
I wonder who will come out with the better images?
Ok, there are things that Avedon will not be able to do, but generally better images ...

Jan 13 13 05:19 pm Link

Photographer

Herman Surkis

Posts: 10856

Victoria, British Columbia, Canada

twoharts wrote:
also i can just see the chaos if twenty guests are doing the Tebow in the front of the church. it would look like a red carpet event with paparazzi's!

Been there, done that, and almost walked off the job.

Jan 13 13 05:24 pm Link

Photographer

redbanana

Posts: 779

Lexington, Kentucky, US

twoharts wrote:
you look you're going into battle but i guess in some ways you are. i can definitely see the advantage of wearing two bodies lensed up differently although once you add flash it can be a lot to have on you.

i have a single camera black rapid strap but it slips all around and drives me nuts so i don't use it much except when i'm doing 70-200 senior shots in the park.


I use Carry Speeds camera sling along with a thinktank lens changer 3, I also have the dual rig but for weddings it's to difficult to rock two bodies and the lens changer bag. I feel I've shot enough plus having gone over the wedding schedule with planners (or bride) I know how the day will play out. It allows me to know which lens I need right then p,us over the next few mins. It only takes 15 sec to changes lens so I'm not to worried if I am out of position.

Jan 13 13 05:37 pm Link

Photographer

Herman Surkis

Posts: 10856

Victoria, British Columbia, Canada

twoharts wrote:
i'm always amazed at someone who can work solo and nail all the shots. now that's something!

on a large event i think i'd like to even have a third person as assistant, gear-watcher and someone i could direct to take a few specific shots here and there.


Back in prehistoric times, I always worked solo.

Ok, sometimes I worked as second shooter for the top wedding studio in Toronto (actually made more $).

You did not have to shoot everything, unless requested, because they did not buy everything. You shot what was part of the package, plus some extras to upsell.

Jan 13 13 05:40 pm Link

Photographer

Herman Surkis

Posts: 10856

Victoria, British Columbia, Canada

Ted Wen wrote:

Our wedding was over 10 years ago, the photographer used a medium format film camera, manual film advance, manual focus. He shot over 300 photos all day. I don't think I would ever be able to do that.

He really took that many???

I have gone to a wedding with 10 rolls of 120film. How many shots is that?

Jan 13 13 05:45 pm Link

Photographer

Bluestill Photography

Posts: 1847

Yokohama, Kanagawa, Japan

Photosbycj wrote:
Wedding guest crack me up at times. I had one bust out a D4 on me and tried talking up his gear over mine while in front of the bride and groom. He was an uncle through marriage to the groom so I played nice with him even after he kept claiming how crappy the shots from my D700 would be. He even went as far as telling the brides mom not to buy an album because he would give them one free (from his amazing camera) as a wedding gift.

During our print order consultation they brought in the "wedding album" he gave them. Now I do not talk bad of anyone's work ... ever. I won't start today but I will say that thanks to his album I sold three of my own that day lol.

+ the current deficit!!!! They don't come any more rude than that.

Jan 13 13 05:54 pm Link

Photographer

Eric Lefebvre

Posts: 508

Gatineau, Quebec, Canada

twoharts wrote:
just seems like within a few years if everyone is running around with X-E1 class cameras then they can get good shots in the dark, too. so a "pro" will have to distinguish themselves through other means than camera technology. but maybe that has always been the case.

When a client hires me, they don;t hire my gear, the hire my skill with that gear and my style.

Jan 13 13 06:33 pm Link

Photographer

ontherocks

Posts: 23575

Salem, Oregon, US

that's the way i like to think about it. they are complementary. it's just that some of those guys can be really agressive and shadow you (or even box you out) to the point where you feel like "why am i here again?"

but for the most part i like knowing that even if i have a spasm there will probably be someone (maybe 20 somethings. lol) catching whatever moment i missed.

if i knew i was the only camera at the wedding and it was all on me i think my stress level would be high. i'm glad i taught the wife to shoot and got her the x-pro1 (she finally loves to shoot).

Abby Hawkins wrote:
But I loved that my family members were able to capture some high quality shots that might have gone unnoticed by the photographer.

Jan 13 13 07:03 pm Link

Photographer

ontherocks

Posts: 23575

Salem, Oregon, US

it's an event but i guess you can still have a style in terms of how you shoot and especially how you post-process. some guys are really into the HDR, oversharpened to bring out detail and fisheyed, super-saturated look. but i think anything like that can get old if you see it too much.

Eric Lefebvre wrote:
When a client hires me, they don;t hire my gear, the hire my skill with that gear and my style.

Jan 13 13 07:05 pm Link

Photographer

ontherocks

Posts: 23575

Salem, Oregon, US

it's not a dating site either but there are sure a lot of posts on that topic. i guess people like to talk about what interests them.

Illuminate wrote:
This is a model site?

Jan 13 13 07:07 pm Link

Photographer

Models inc

Posts: 41

Dayton, Ohio, US

Consider this, anyone can buy a hammer, but not everyone can build a house, I have been a professional photographer for 26 years, back then no one could shoot a high school football game at night unless they knew their stuff, times have changed which is why you have to offer something the amature can't.  Keep on doing what your doing, smile, and remember this, your the one that's making money living your dream.

Jan 13 13 07:20 pm Link

Photographer

Ted W

Posts: 63

Portland, Oregon, US

Herman Surkis wrote:

He really took that many???

I have gone to a wedding with 10 rolls of 120film. How many shots is that?

We had a Chinese ceremony at home and a church ceremony, then the reception and dance in the evening. In between there were some shots with guests. I don't know how many rolls of film, but I think he was running low near the end. Compare to that digital is easy, a card can hold hundreds if not thousands of images and changing a card does not need any rewinding. And he had to do all that and try to keep up with the events. We didn't do anything crazy, like fancy lighting, but it was a long day.

Jan 13 13 09:17 pm Link