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Model

Sharifa Sparks

Posts: 32

Emeryville, California, US

Soooo I participated in a forum whereas every1 shouted out their Facebook, Twitter etc pages... I got one photographer to participate in "LIKE" of my fan page, but shortly after accused me of un-liking their Facebook fan page... and I really didn't... However today I noticed he un-liked my page....

With all that being said... Whats the deal? I am a Bay Area Model & Business woman and don't understand the concept of this... Yes everyone wants "TONS" of likes but why the games??

Sum1 help! I am confused sad

Feb 15 13 09:15 pm Link

Photographer

Hi_Spade Photography

Posts: 897

Darlington, South Carolina, US

Keep your "friends" close and your "enamies" closer wink.

Feb 15 13 09:24 pm Link

Photographer

JAE

Posts: 2145

West Chester, Pennsylvania, US

I would slap him with a large trout.

Feb 15 13 09:24 pm Link

Model

Sharifa Sparks

Posts: 32

Emeryville, California, US

Hi_Spade Photography wrote:
Keep your "friends" close and your "enamies" closer wink.

Thanks! Def classic & great advice smile
I wasn't sure if it was a MM thing or what! LOL

Feb 15 13 09:25 pm Link

Model

Sharifa Sparks

Posts: 32

Emeryville, California, US

JAE Photography PA wrote:
I would slap him with a large trout.

Hahaha Sounds tempting...

Feb 15 13 09:26 pm Link

Photographer

Jackson frontier photos

Posts: 531

Joplin, Missouri, US

Sounds like a lot of jumping to conclusions going on.  No telling why they did what they did, doesn't equal some unifying theory of human behavior.

Feb 15 13 09:42 pm Link

Photographer

Albertex Photography

Posts: 15419

Mansfield, Texas, US

JAE Photography PA wrote:
I would slap him with a large trout.

Here is how to do it Monty Python style: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IhJQp-q1Y1s

Feb 15 13 10:03 pm Link

Photographer

F O R B E S

Posts: 441

New York, New York, US

you're hot

Feb 15 13 10:06 pm Link

Photographer

Images by MR

Posts: 7779

Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada

Sharifa Sparks wrote:
I am confused sad

Agreed smile

Feb 15 13 10:09 pm Link

Photographer

Paolo Diavolo

Posts: 8810

Martinez, California, US

so someone thought you didn't like their page, so they unliked your page cause they felt they weren't being reciprocated (mistakenly or not).

whats confusing about that?

its immature internet shenanigans.

Feb 15 13 10:57 pm Link

Photographer

Velvet Paper Photo

Posts: 468

Lexington, Kentucky, US

Paolo Diavolo wrote:
so someone thought you didn't like their page, so they unliked your page cause they felt they weren't being reciprocated (mistakenly or not).

whats confusing about that?

its immature internet shenanigans.

Yep.  Happens all the time.  Just ignore him & move on.  Facebook has been messing up fan pages for a while.

Feb 15 13 11:59 pm Link

Photographer

Drew Smith Photography

Posts: 5210

Nottingham, England, United Kingdom

Sharifa Sparks wrote:
Soooo I participated in a forum whereas every1 shouted out their Facebook, Twitter etc pages... I got one photographer to participate in "LIKE" of my fan page, but shortly after accused me of un-liking their Facebook fan page... and I really didn't... However today I noticed he un-liked my page....

With all that being said... Whats the deal? I am a Bay Area Model & Business woman and don't understand the concept of this... Yes everyone wants "TONS" of likes but why the games??

Sum1 help! I am confused sad

And you're starting a Forum thread about somebody 'un-liking' you on facebook?

Feb 16 13 05:50 am Link

Photographer

B R U N E S C I

Posts: 25319

Bath, England, United Kingdom

So am I.






Just my $0.02

Ciao
Stefano

www.stefanobrunesci.com

Feb 16 13 06:07 am Link

Photographer

Art of the nude

Posts: 11892

Olivet, Michigan, US

Sharifa Sparks wrote:
Soooo I participated in a forum whereas every1 shouted out their Facebook, Twitter etc pages... I got one photographer to participate in "LIKE" of my fan page, but shortly after accused me of un-liking their Facebook fan page... and I really didn't... However today I noticed he un-liked my page....

With all that being said... Whats the deal? I am a Bay Area Model & Business woman and don't understand the concept of this... Yes everyone wants "TONS" of likes but why the games??

Sum1 help! I am confused sad

When I start getting paid based on my FB "likes", I'll worry about it.  I'm pleased if someone likes my work, but I don't play games with it.

Feb 16 13 06:22 am Link

Photographer

Wojciech Beria

Posts: 6

Gdańsk, Pomorskie, Poland

"I noticed he un-liked my page.... "
People are just pathetic from time to time big_smile  big_smile  take care wink

Feb 16 13 06:58 am Link

Photographer

Art of the nude

Posts: 11892

Olivet, Michigan, US

Paolo Diavolo wrote:
so someone thought you didn't like their page, so they unliked your page cause they felt they weren't being reciprocated (mistakenly or not).

whats confusing about that?

its immature internet shenanigans.

I'm almost certain that I'd never notice if someone "unliked" my FB page.

Feb 16 13 07:11 am Link

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Rays Fine Art

Posts: 6329

New York, New York, US

Not sure but the whole matter may simply be a banner ad that's been popping up recently on MM saying essentially "Someone unfriended you today.  Click here to find out who."  The idea being that you'd click the ad and sign up for their "service".

Unless it's really important to you, in which case all you can do is try to contact the person and see if you can fix the relationship, I'd say just ignore it.  The "friends" and "likes" we see in the social networks generally mean nothing at all.

All IMHO as always, of course.

Feb 16 13 07:13 am Link

Photographer

Aaron Lewis Photography

Posts: 5083

Catskill, New York, US

I don't understand the problem? This isn't Facebook. Maybe he stopped liking you, who cares?

Feb 16 13 02:23 pm Link

Photographer

Fotographia Fantastique

Posts: 17326

Lebanon, New Hampshire, US

What difference does it make? I'm sure people like and un-like me every day.

Feb 16 13 02:37 pm Link

Photographer

Kent Art Photography

Posts: 2929

Ashford, England, United Kingdom

A very good reason why we should never have a 'Like' button on MM.

That and IB would probably mess up the code for it, of course.

Feb 16 13 03:28 pm Link

Photographer

Photo Bill

Posts: 275

Baltimore, Maryland, US

Hi_Spade Photography wrote:
Keep your "friends" close and your "enamies" closer wink.

+1 (but I would spell it enemies")

Feb 16 13 04:29 pm Link

Photographer

M Pandolfo Photography

Posts: 12116

Tampa, Florida, US

Photo Bill wrote:
+1 (but I would spell it enemies")

Hi_Spade Photography wrote:
Keep your "friends" close and your "enamies" closer wink.

Maybe they meant to say "enemas."

Or as Aquaman would say, "keep your friends close and your anemone's closer."

Feb 16 13 04:39 pm Link

Photographer

MichaelClements

Posts: 1739

Adelaide, South Australia, Australia

Sounds like a lot of worry over very little!

I get messages all the time 'I liked your page' 'I liked your site, could you please like mine' erm No!

Feb 16 13 04:46 pm Link

Photographer

Mark Salo

Posts: 8388

Olney, Maryland, US

I don't Facebook or Twitter but then we aren't local to each other.

Feb 16 13 04:54 pm Link

Photographer

Mark Salo

Posts: 8388

Olney, Maryland, US

enamies, enemies, enemas  LOL

ETA I forgot """"""

Feb 16 13 07:49 pm Link

Photographer

Bravo Magic Images

Posts: 765

Temple City, California, US

The only thing i keep close to other than my friend or my enimies is my money all the rest can go to hell

Feb 16 13 07:58 pm Link

Photographer

Anthony Yuen

Posts: 139

Calgary, Alberta, Canada

I wouldn't notice if someone unfriended my FB profile or unliked my FB page.

How would I?  It's not like I print out the list of names or anything.  :p

Feb 16 13 10:17 pm Link

Model

V Laroche

Posts: 2746

New Orleans, Louisiana, US

I am confused, too. I can't understand what you wrote.

Feb 16 13 10:24 pm Link

Photographer

T H Taylor

Posts: 6756

Milwaukee, Wisconsin, US

Moderator Note!

Drew Smith Photography wrote:

And you're starting a Forum thread about somebody 'un-liking' you on facebook?

Take it easy...
I don't think her posting this hurt you.
You can always ignore it... right?


wink

Feb 16 13 10:40 pm Link

Photographer

Drew Smith Photography

Posts: 5210

Nottingham, England, United Kingdom

T H Taylor wrote:
Take it easy...
I don't think her posting this hurt you.
You can always ignore it... right?


wink

Dear T H Taylor

Thank you, you've made me see the error of my ways. I'm not sure what came over me when I wrote that response. On reflection it was possibly the result of the momentary hilarity I found swelling in my bosom at the thought of a 'real' business woman taking the time out of her busy 'business' schedule to post a thread to total strangers on a website about being 'unliked' on facebook.

I apologise, I have my sense of perspective totally upside down and back to front. You are of course again correct - I should have just ignored it. I'm sorry.

Feb 17 13 12:15 am Link

Photographer

Shot By Adam

Posts: 5962

Las Vegas, Nevada, US

Sharifa Sparks wrote:
Soooo I participated in a forum whereas every1 shouted out their Facebook, Twitter etc pages... I got one photographer to participate in "LIKE" of my fan page, but shortly after accused me of un-liking their Facebook fan page... and I really didn't... However today I noticed he un-liked my page....

With all that being said... Whats the deal? I am a Bay Area Model & Business woman and don't understand the concept of this... Yes everyone wants "TONS" of likes but why the games??

Sum1 help! I am confused sad

You're 32 years old and this high school petty stuff is of concern to you?

Feb 17 13 07:03 am Link

Photographer

Velvet Paper Photo

Posts: 468

Lexington, Kentucky, US

Drew Smith Photography wrote:

Dear T H Taylor

Thank you, you've made me see the error of my ways. I'm not sure what came over me when I wrote that response. On reflection it was possibly the result of the momentary hilarity I found swelling in my bosom at the thought of a 'real' business woman taking the time out of her busy 'business' schedule to post a thread to total strangers on a website about being 'unliked' on facebook.

I apologise, I have my sense of perspective totally upside down and back to front. You are of course again correct - I should have just ignored it. I'm sorry.

What is your problem?

Feb 18 13 03:36 pm Link

Photographer

M Pandolfo Photography

Posts: 12116

Tampa, Florida, US

Drew Smith Photography wrote:
Dear T H Taylor

Thank you, you've made me see the error of my ways. I'm not sure what came over me when I wrote that response. On reflection it was possibly the result of the momentary hilarity I found swelling in my bosom at the thought of a 'real' business woman taking the time out of her busy 'business' schedule to post a thread to total strangers on a website about being 'unliked' on facebook.

I apologise, I have my sense of perspective totally upside down and back to front. You are of course again correct - I should have just ignored it. I'm sorry.

Velvet Paper Photo wrote:
What is your problem?

Oh, it's GO TIME!

Feb 18 13 03:39 pm Link

Model

- Aina -

Posts: 747

Redlands, California, US

Dear Gentlemen,

The rules are as follows:
There will be no grappling below the belt permitted!
You must lift your pinky when sipping tea!
That is all.

*sounds the bell and dives out of the wrong (Mod powers kick ass, don't wanna get blinded)*

Feb 18 13 07:34 pm Link

Photographer

Art of the nude

Posts: 11892

Olivet, Michigan, US

Aina Nudes wrote:
Dear Gentlemen,

The rules are as follows:
There will be no grappling below the belt permitted!
You must lift your pinky when sipping tea!
That is all.

*sounds the bell and dives out of the wrong (Mod powers kick ass, don't wanna get blinded)*

Like!!!!

Feb 18 13 08:18 pm Link

Photographer

Drew Smith Photography

Posts: 5210

Nottingham, England, United Kingdom

Michael Pandolfo wrote:

Oh, it's GO TIME!

Hehehe. smile  Lets leave it in the playground.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_RNL2hfe5Is

Feb 19 13 12:54 am Link

Photographer

Tim Media

Posts: 95

Columbia, Missouri, US

I"ve noticed that sometimes Facebook will not show a like, comment, or friend accept even after you see that it was actually completed.  It will look like the person unliked, uncommitted, ect.  Then miraculously, it will register again.  Tricky Facebook.....

Feb 19 13 01:06 am Link

Photographer

Jenn Reeves

Posts: 11

Lloydminster, Alberta, Canada

Paolo Diavolo wrote:
so someone thought you didn't like their page, so they unliked your page cause they felt they weren't being reciprocated (mistakenly or not).

whats confusing about that?

its immature internet shenanigans.

My thoughts exactly lol.

Feb 19 13 01:11 am Link

Model

Aylin Marie

Posts: 79

Gold Coast, Queensland, Australia

Don't worry too much about it, let them lose sleep not you smile
It's rather annoying when people are always pushing for likes. Let your work speak for itself and not be over baring.
Was he a photg in your area you'd work with? If not *shrugs*

Feb 19 13 01:45 am Link