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John Photography

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I'm sad..... So many people I loved growing up are total dicks in real life.


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Nov 14 14 11:18 pm Link

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kickfight

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Yeah... I've been following this for awhile and... all I can say is that it's just damn depressing. It's like finding out your beloved grandpa has a secret room full of Nazi memorabilia or something (only much, much worse)... hmm

BTW, in case anyone wants to hear/see the Hannibal Buress moment during his stand-up when he calls Cosby out, it's here.

Nov 14 14 11:30 pm Link

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Kent Art Photography

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John Photography wrote:
I'm sad..... So many people I loved growing up are total dicks in real life.


http://www.washingtonpost.com/postevery … -my-story/

He's been convicted already, then?

Nov 14 14 11:30 pm Link

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highStrangeness

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Kent Art Photography wrote:

He's been convicted already, then?

Only in the court of public opinion. 

But 13 accusations doesn't bode well for him.

Nov 14 14 11:37 pm Link

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Click Hamilton

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Kent Art Photography wrote:
He's been convicted already, then?

aspergianLens wrote:
Only in the court of public opinion. 

But 13 accusations doesn't bode well for him.

Innocent until proven guilty.

That's supposed to be the way it works around here.

Nov 15 14 12:37 am Link

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GK photo

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Click Hamilton wrote:
Innocent until proven guilty.

That's supposed to be the way it works around here.

these stories of him have been rehashed before. either he's really good at keeping these things silent, or it's a witch hunt.

YOU MAKE THE CALL!  tongue

looking for moral high ground out of celebrities/politicians/athletes is about as futile as finding moral high ground with most regular joes. some are moral, some aren't. the problem is, most celebs, etc, have pr machinery that can spin them towards whatever light they'd like you to see them in. regular joe can't.

all the media types seemed to have stood behind him before (and in his paternity case), but they appear to be cutting bait this time around.

Nov 15 14 12:59 am Link

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udor

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John Photography wrote:
I'm sad..... So many people I loved growing up are total dicks in real life.


http://www.washingtonpost.com/postevery … -my-story/

I've read a discussion of a social critic, forgot the name and context, but that person said America has loves to build heroes, and is obsessed with tearing them down.

Now, he's already convicted in Public Court of Opinion and to be presumed innocent until proven guilty (that's just a figure of speech anyway)... however... I've read a few descriptions by alleged victims and I have to say that, despite some appearing outrageous, I wouldn't be surprised if a few of those allegations might have some truth to it.

People in power and with influence...

Nov 15 14 01:28 am Link

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John Photography

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I know it's sad but I'd like to see this go to trial in a COURT ROOM and let the jury decide.....

But still sad if it is true.

Nov 15 14 01:33 am Link

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GDS Photos

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Accused is the word we should be focusing on here.  In the UK, we have had a plethora of cases against celebrities from the 70's and 80's.   Most are tosh and worryingly, some of the convictions are insane in my opinion.  Historic claims are difficult to defend agains.  The police look for patterns of behaviour and then they decide it is evidence.  Ultimately in most cases, it is one person's word against that of another.  Balance of probability now seems to be where the bar is set in these cases rather than beyond reasonable doubt.

Nov 15 14 02:15 am Link

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Jerry Nemeth

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This is a very interesting video talking about Bill Cosby.
It is long.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wPHLueEFfz0

Nov 15 14 02:32 am Link

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GK photo

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udor wrote:
I've read a discussion of a social critic, forgot the name and context, but that person said America has loves to build heroes, and is obsessed with tearing them down.

so this conspiray lasted 77 years? smile

hey (hey hey), he has had this shit brought up before. not to mention his other moral shortcomings. one could say "where there's smoke", too. i could see that if we were discussing a guy in his 20's, 30's, maybe even 40's. this could all be a comeuppance. who knows?

Nov 15 14 02:47 am Link

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GK photo

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GDS Photos wrote:
Accused is the word we should be focusing on here.  In the UK, we have had a plethora of cases against celebrities from the 70's and 80's.   Most are tosh and worryingly, some of the convictions are insane in my opinion.  Historic claims are difficult to defend agains.  The police look for patterns of behaviour and then they decide it is evidence.  Ultimately in most cases, it is one person's word against that of another.  Balance of probability now seems to be where the bar is set in these cases rather than beyond reasonable doubt.

these tales always seem to hinge on the players. i could take person a, and say that person b (the accuser) waited years to come forth with their specific claims. now, depending on whom person a, vs person b is, the court of public opinion usually sways to the side of the known entity.

sad, but simple human behavior, at its most base elements.

Nov 15 14 02:51 am Link

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John Photography

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GDS Photos wrote:
Accused is the word we should be focusing on here.  In the UK, we have had a plethora of cases against celebrities from the 70's and 80's.   Most are tosh and worryingly, some of the convictions are insane in my opinion.  Historic claims are difficult to defend agains.  The police look for patterns of behaviour and then they decide it is evidence.  Ultimately in most cases, it is one person's word against that of another.  Balance of probability now seems to be where the bar is set in these cases rather than beyond reasonable doubt.

The UK seems to have gone crazy on this stuff... What started it?

Nov 15 14 05:30 am Link

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Farenell Photography

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John Photography wrote:
The UK seems to have gone crazy on this stuff... What started it?

If I remember right, an investigation found that the BBC heads officially hushed up child rape & sex abuses charges from one of their long-time, popular hosts over a matter of 20+ years.

Nov 15 14 05:46 am Link

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Farenell Photography

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Click Hamilton wrote:
Innocent until proven guilty only in a court of law.

That's supposed to be the way it works around here.

Corrected.

Nov 15 14 05:48 am Link

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John Photography

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Farenell Photography wrote:

If I remember right, an investigation found that the BBC heads officially hushed up child rape & sex abuses charges from one of their long-time, popular hosts over a matter of 20+ years.

Oh you mean Operation Yewtree ah yeah..

But now it seems they are going after any and all celebrities with any hint of an allegation in the UK...  Some of those old rock bands better watch out.

Nov 15 14 05:51 am Link

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Evan Hiltunen

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John Photography wrote:
I'm sad..... So many people I loved growing up are total dicks in real life.


http://www.washingtonpost.com/postevery … -my-story/

So, after this allegedly happened, Bowman tells her agent, her friends, and even goes to a lawyer. Seems like she was telling a bunch of people that she was raped and no one believed her.

Of course, she didn't tell the police so we don't know if they would have listened to her or not.

Nov 15 14 05:56 am Link

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John Photography

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Evan Hiltunen wrote:
So, after this allegedly happened, Bowman tells her agent, her friends, and even goes to a lawyer. Seems like she was telling a bunch of people that she was raped and no one believed her.

Of course, she didn't tell the police so we don't know if they would have listened to her or not.

It's like the "hey dad scandal" victims ran to the TV tabloids, womens magazines, and anyone else other then the police. In fact the police were the last port of call...

But in the case of Robert Hughes the star of Hey Dad an aussie TV show accused of this kind of crime I think they did try the police but they were not taken seriously, and that is why they did it the long roundabout way they did.

Nov 15 14 06:00 am Link

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Farenell Photography

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What I find interesting & disgusting is the organized vitriol of Bill Cosby supporters attacking not the victim as I would expect but the victim supporters who have no proverbial dog in this hunt.

Nov 15 14 06:08 am Link

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Virtual Studio

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I'm very surprised that the first "victim" could just accept compensation and then drop the case.

In the UK they have the VERY good law that the crime is done against the Crown with the victim being just a party to the crime. So you cant "drop charges" - the Crown just presses on ahead with the prosecution if it's in the public interest (like rape cases almost always are).

Nov 15 14 06:35 am Link

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Virtual Studio

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GDS Photos wrote:
Accused is the word we should be focusing on here.  In the UK, we have had a plethora of cases against celebrities from the 70's and 80's.   Most are tosh and worryingly, some of the convictions are insane in my opinion.  Historic claims are difficult to defend agains.  The police look for patterns of behaviour and then they decide it is evidence.  Ultimately in most cases, it is one person's word against that of another.  Balance of probability now seems to be where the bar is set in these cases rather than beyond reasonable doubt.

One persons word against another is one thing. 57 peoples word all saying the same thing against another is something else entirely.

Rolf, DLT, Saville, all seem like deeply unpleasant characters - you really think they weren't abusers and child sex offenders? Gary Glitter is up for charges AGAIN - after being thrown out of Vietnam for fucking 11 year olds (and paying their family compensatin) and serving time for possession of child pron.  Far from being frivolous they are long overdue! How can you have sympathy for a man who fucks a 11 year old while in the same bed as her 10 year old sister ?

Nov 15 14 06:38 am Link

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Virtual Studio

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John Photography wrote:

Oh you mean Operation Yewtree ah yeah..

But now it seems they are going after any and all celebrities with any hint of an allegation in the UK...  Some of those old rock bands better watch out.

And rightly so - if you look at some of the misogynistic shit those guys used to perpetrate (making a girl insert a live fish into her vagina??) then it's good to see them being held accountable.

Nov 15 14 06:42 am Link

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Virtual Studio

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John Photography wrote:
The UK seems to have gone crazy on this stuff... What started it?

Jimmy Saville - a very well know TV and Radio celebrity used to collect money for kids with spinal injuries, basically he built a hospital wing for them. Sadly of a night he would roam the hospital and fuck those same helpless crippled kids while staff turned a blind eye.

Kinda served as a wake up call that there was a huge problem with men in power fucking children. So the UK started doing something about it.

I suspect that (same as BSE) the UK sees a problem and does something - so it's seen as a UK problem - while the rest of the world ignores that they have the self same huge problem (academy awards to convicted child rapist and sodomizer Roman Polanski for example?).

Nov 15 14 06:51 am Link

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L O C U T U S

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John Photography wrote:
I'm sad..... So many people I loved growing up are total dicks in real life.


http://www.washingtonpost.com/postevery … -my-story/

I refuse to convict someone without real proof.

Nov 15 14 07:11 am Link

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Nov 15 14 07:17 am Link

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Click Hamilton

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Don't forget that yellow journalism is a beast of it's own incentives and self-serving rewards.

Don't forget that prospecting lawyers form a huge, greedy and profit-driven industry of their own at great and destructive expense to anyone who is targeted for the money they have to take away fighting false or unfair accusations.

Don't forget that we live in a culture of growing numbers of people who want to glom onto trendy drama and who want to claim to be victims of something as a matter of cause célèbre, personal identity and self worth.

Seek truth. Seek understanding of reality. Seek freedom from manipulation. Seek justice.

Nov 15 14 07:30 am Link

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Stephen Fletcher

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That is an old story and he has never been charged with it.

Nov 15 14 07:38 am Link

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Fleming Design

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Of course stories like this one need people like John Photography to keep spreading them.  John you don't seem to do much except bring tabloid stories to MM on a daily basis.

Nov 15 14 09:56 am Link

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ontherocks

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i think you first have to rule out that someone is lying/exaggerating/remorseful/angry/vengeful/money-hungry, etc. before jumping to any conclusions.

if it's in fact proven true that he drugged women in order to rape them well there's really no excuse for that.

but if all it takes to bring someone down is an allegation then we're back to the salem witch trial mentality which is truly a frightening thought.

Nov 15 14 10:12 am Link

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Connor Photography

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John Photography wrote:
I'm sad..... So many people I loved growing up are total dicks in real life.


http://www.washingtonpost.com/postevery … -my-story/

Not sure if the is true or not.  But this happened a lot more than you think in the rich and famous especially in the entertainment industry.  When the little head takes over for the lust, nothing matters.

Nov 15 14 11:04 am Link

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Nov 15 14 05:51 pm Link

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Brooklyn Bridge Images

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udor wrote:
People in power and with influence...

Like Terry Richardson ??

Nov 15 14 05:53 pm Link

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John Photography

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Brooklyn Bridge Images wrote:

Like Terry Richardson ??

But isn't the shit he does consensual?

Nov 15 14 06:30 pm Link

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Brooklyn Bridge Images

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John Photography wrote:

But isn't the shit he does consensual?

Not forceable, from the accounts I have read
But Coerced is questionable ?
and the issue of Power and Influence over people is a valid point

Nov 15 14 07:09 pm Link

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ontherocks

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based on what i've read i think some models would argue that they were coerced. maybe the law needs to better define the point at which talking someone into something becomes illegal use of force.

John Photography wrote:
But isn't the shit he does consensual?

Nov 15 14 07:12 pm Link

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Lovely Day Media

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It's just my opinion, but I'll treat this case the same way I treated the rest of them: if he did it, I hope he goes to jail or otherwise gets what he deserves. If he didn't do it, I hope he gets off and everyone will leave him alone.

For me, it doesn't matter who the perp is, what they're accused of, how much money they have, where they did it or why. There is always the possibility they didn't do it no matter how much evidence is in the media or how many people said they did. 99% of the time, true perps get caught. There is the 1% that don't (like the cops in LA beating Rodney King on video but found not guilty, anyway). 

Even if he's accused of being the most heinous of child molesters/rapists, he still deserves his day in court. To deny him, IMO, is saying "you're accused of a crime that is far too heinous to go to trial so you're going to jail without one and all because you're accused of this heinous act". Sounds like a Salem witch trial to me. Someone is accused of being a witch so they are either drowned or burned to death. In this case, he'd just be going to jail because someone accused him.

I'm not buying or feeding into media hype so they can sell newspapers and advertising space. Even if he did exactly what they said he did, my life won't be affected one iota.

Nov 15 14 07:26 pm Link

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Al Lock Photography

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Farenell Photography wrote:

Corrected.

Drop the "only" and you'd have the correction right...

Nov 16 14 03:50 am Link

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Virtual Studio

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ontherocks wrote:
based on what i've read i think some models would argue that they were coerced. maybe the law needs to better define the point at which talking someone into something becomes illegal use of force.


There is a pretty good test already.

If you consented of your own free will at the time of the event then it's not rape.

Regrets it afterwards not rape.
Was talked into it not rape.
Was paid for it not rape.

If at any point during the act it becomes "I dont want to do this (anymore...) and it carries on" then it's rape.

While I'm all for protecting the vulnerable in society i'm also in favor of people taking responsibility for their own actions. If everyone who had ever talked (or manipulated) someone else into bed were a criminal then this entire site (and all of all of out friends family and neighbors) would be in gaol.

Nov 16 14 08:48 am Link

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Yves Duchamp - Femme

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John Photography wrote:
I'm sad..... So many people I loved growing up are total dicks in real life.


http://www.washingtonpost.com/postevery … -my-story/

I've hated Bill Cosby for some time now. From his internalized racism to his respectability politics. And now these rape accusations just further that hatred. He's garbage.

Nov 16 14 12:15 pm Link

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J O H N A L L A N

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Shon D.- Femme wrote:

I've hated Bill Cosby for some time now. From his internalized racism to his respectability politics. And now these rape accusations just further that hatred. He's garbage.

All rightee then.

Nov 16 14 12:25 pm Link