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Extreme Body Art wrote: There are no truer words! I'm good with people, and have a good understanding of what makes us "tick." So I'll casually ask why someone wants to bring a certain person. The answers I get are quite revealing! Mar 26 11 11:55 am Link If people are so tired of escort threads, why do they always get so many responses? Mar 26 11 11:56 am Link SPFOTOLA wrote: Nice. Mar 26 11 12:35 pm Link aquarelle wrote: And if they are so tired of a topic they can't offer anything helpful, why do they then participate in it instead of ignoring it? Mar 26 11 12:38 pm Link punkuate wrote: Morgan Barbour wrote: But, what if the photographer was old, and male, and big, and from out of town, and you were going to be ALONE WITH HIM!!!! Isn't that like, scary and all? Mar 26 11 12:39 pm Link Just Photoz wrote: Escorts, only if they are under 18. Other than that, I may allow for an assistant. If they claim it's for safetly, I pass completely. Mar 26 11 01:14 pm Link aquarelle wrote: I agree. Plus, if escorts were such a necesity, then why isn't there a section for them here, there's an area for models, photographers, mua's, wardrobe stylists, photoshop wizzards, etc, but no escorts, funny huh? Mar 26 11 01:17 pm Link Isaiah Brink wrote: Would you write a stranger on a modeling site for a TFE shoot? No one would ask a complete stranger to be an escort Mar 26 11 02:26 pm Link Is there nothing new under the sun? Mar 26 11 02:33 pm Link Rich Davis wrote: Umm, technically no. See life is a circle, it just keeps going around. So there really is nothing new, just new iterations of what's already been done. Mar 26 11 02:42 pm Link just have them hold a giant reflector in such a way that they have no clue what's happening on set...if they try to look, insist that they must hold it exactly how you told them or the shots will be ruined. problem solved. Mar 26 11 02:59 pm Link Mnemosyne Photography wrote: Ah, I see. Trade for Escort. Interesting concept. Rich Davis wrote: Trade for Escort is a new concept to me. Probably though you are familiar with it and I'm just a little behind the trend. Mar 26 11 03:19 pm Link Please ... take a look at the infinite topics about escorts ... before open another topic about the same argument ... Mar 26 11 03:22 pm Link Honest question here. Why is this such a huge issue? Mar 26 11 03:24 pm Link As long as the escort is willing to get naked, brings beer and knows how to load film (a rare talent these days!) I think they're great. Mar 26 11 03:32 pm Link Isaiah Brink wrote: Mnemosyne Photography wrote: Actually, there was a thread a while ago; the model was so scared of a photographer (not for any reason relating to him in particular) that she picked up some guy in a bar to be her escort. A few days later she was convinced that it had been a bad idea. Mar 26 11 03:41 pm Link Can I just throw this out there, I know everyone always tells people to do a forum search to make sure the issue hasn't been already covered which is fine, it makes sence.. but my forum search doesn't and has never worked, so if I'm paying like a whole £4 (breaking the bank) a month to use this site I'm gonna ask questions I want to know the answer too whether it's been covered previously or not. If you find it boring just don't read it, then you can't get bored :] Back to the escort thing, I get why people don't like them but I don't mind them as long as it's within reason, for example, a 15 yr old model's dad coming along is fine, but a boyfriend coming along to watch his girlfriend modeling with another guy may just be awkward. I'm only 20 so whenever I meet models I always make sure I'm in a public place just in case. You can never be too careful. That said I don't know how I'd feel inviting an escort into my home, I've only ever shot on location and in uni studio's before. Mar 26 11 03:47 pm Link Jessica-Dee wrote: Forum search for MM works extremely well if you follow the links from the search link and take them to Google and to Sendu. Mar 26 11 03:49 pm Link JTSBlack wrote: Eventually you'll get someone who claims that anyone who does not allow escorts is up to no good and that models should fear all photographers. Claims will be made that photographers that do not allow escorts are raging rapists.... That will piss people off and the fireworks will begin. Mar 26 11 03:51 pm Link You are well within your right not to allow them.....they aren't always bad but the risks certainly escalate with them present......not only to you, but to the outcome of the shoot. I don't allow them. The models who insist on them are also free to decline shooting with me, but most of them worth shooting do not require them. Reasons I don't allow them here. http://blog.jayfarrellphotography.com/2 … otoshoots/ Mar 26 11 03:53 pm Link well you have to think about the situation in the model's point of view. Meeting a photographer whom they have met on internet is pretty dangerous. If I was a model(lol) I'll be scared shitless. If you don't want a model, a great way to imply that excorts are not necessary is to have a "meeting" with them in public. Just meet together and have a discussion about the photoshoot. It's also a great opportuniy for you to study the model if you have never met them before. Also if clothing designers or make-up artists are involved, you shuld invite them to so that everybody can kinda know who they'll be working with, what they should prepare, study wach other(make-up artists can study the complexion of the model and so on). Plus if you guys have met at least once, the atmosphere of the photoshoot will be less tense. Mar 26 11 04:42 pm Link Kayamii123 wrote: Models have ways to verify the photographers' reputations, photographers usually do not have a way to verify escorts. There is also such a thing as instinct and gut feeling, judging from the person's manner, tone, work itself etc. That's what they need to use, or else modeling may not be for them. Pre shoot meetings are an added waste of time. The whole safety thing is a double standard, considering many who go on shoots walk to their cars alone, walk across parking lots, attend parties with drunk people, go to clubs around drunk people, talk on the phone or text while driving.....all of which is more dangerous than shooting with a photographer with a verifiable reputation. Mar 26 11 04:48 pm Link I don't accept escorts. I used to require escorts a few years ago but soon there were models who couldn't find an escort for 4-6 hour shoots so I allowed them to come on their own. When that happened I quickly noticed a big difference between models who came with escorts and those who didn't. Here are some of the differences: 1) Models who brought escorts were more likely to be late than models who came alone. 2) Models who brought escorts often were distracted by the escorts by looking at him/her for approval, or talking, l while I was actually shooting 3) Models who brought escorts would take 20-30 minutes to change into an outfit whereas the models who came alone would take about 5-7 minutes. 4) Models who brought escorts would take approx. twice as many restrooms breaks as the model who came alone. 5) Escorts would frequently start involving themselves in the shoot by making recommendations, or negative comments, about how I was shooting his girlfriend who was doing the modeling eventhough the model promised the escort wouldn't interfere. 6) Models who came by themselves demonstrated more maturity, self-esteem, and professionalism through their behavior. 7) I would find myself doing repeat shoots with models who came by themselves because the shoots were more productive. Now that I shoot at my house, there's no way I'm going to allow another person (escort/mua/agent) to come along with the model and wander around the house while I'm shooting. I would only have myself to blame if I found my stuff missing. These are the reasons why I don't shoot with models who want, or require, an escort. Gabby Mar 26 11 05:37 pm Link Happy Guy Photos wrote: That and if the escort can't come, you doubled the risk of cancellation. Mar 26 11 05:51 pm Link Abbitt Photography wrote: I totally agree with all of your reasons. Here's what I say in my profile about escorts: Mar 26 11 07:01 pm Link Jay Farrell wrote: B I N G O ! Mar 26 11 07:11 pm Link After dealing with a few "escorts" I refuse to have them any more, especially after I had a few $2k + lenses come up missing. Now my rule is this simple … if you want an escort they better be licensed, bonded and carry the same amount of insurance that I carry Mar 26 11 07:21 pm Link I worked with three models that brought escorts. The escorts were cool and one even bought me food and washed the dishes. Lmao! However, I will now pass on escorts...I have too much gear now. Mar 27 11 01:51 am Link Just had a model today inform me she can't make any of the proposed shoot times because her friend (escort) isn't free then. Scheduling shoots is complicated enough. Escorts make it even more complicated and add another factor which may make the shoot fall through. Mar 27 11 08:11 am Link |