Photographer

Patrick Walberg

Posts: 45198

San Juan Bautista, California, US

Extreme Body Art wrote:
Not really, an escort is NEVER needed.. it's only wanted.

There are no truer words!  I'm good with people, and have a good understanding of what makes us "tick."   So I'll casually ask why someone wants to bring a certain person.  The answers I get are quite revealing!  wink

Like I've said before, I wish we could change the words from "escort" to "invited or uninvited" guests.  It might make a difference?  "Invited guests" as in people who are there for some other purpose other than to "protect" the model from some perceived threat are welcomed at my photo shoots.

Mar 26 11 11:55 am Link

Artist/Painter

aquarelle

Posts: 2056

Chicago, Illinois, US

If people are so tired of escort threads, why do they always get so many responses?

Mar 26 11 11:56 am Link

Photographer

Art of the nude

Posts: 12067

Grand Rapids, Michigan, US

SPFOTOLA wrote:
Im happy that someone finally is willing to talk about this issue.  I constantly see photographers and models alike skirting this very sensitive issue.  I say the HELL with it...lets get it out here in the open and finally deal with it.

Nice.

To answer the OP; I don't do escorts.  I encourage models to hire a MUA / stylist, and I welcome it if they bring a second suitable model.  People not contributing to the shoot aren't allowed, for a variety of reasons.

Mar 26 11 12:35 pm Link

Photographer

Abbitt Photography

Posts: 13564

Washington, Utah, US

aquarelle wrote:
If people are so tired of escort threads, why do they always get so many responses?

And if they are so tired of a topic they can't offer anything helpful,  why do they then participate in it instead of ignoring it?

Mar 26 11 12:38 pm Link

Photographer

Art of the nude

Posts: 12067

Grand Rapids, Michigan, US

punkuate wrote:
Aww stop being mean to the newb. Basically, some people don't mind them, some people hate them. Both sides usually feel pretty strongly on the subject, but if you don't want escorts, don't accept them.

Morgan Barbour wrote:
Well said.
I'm a photographer as well; I don't deal with escorts.
I also don't bring an escort with me as a model. I do my homework and asses the situation to make sure it is safe. Having a friend there will not make a dangerous situation safe, it simply allows more than one person to be in danger.

But, what if the photographer was old, and male, and big, and from out of town, and you were going to be ALONE WITH HIM!!!!  Isn't that like, scary and all? 

Or, are you perhaps an intelligent, mature professional?

Mar 26 11 12:39 pm Link

Photographer

Isaiah Brink

Posts: 2328

Charlotte, North Carolina, US

Just Photoz wrote:
Fellow photographers how do you feel about models bringing escorts to shoots?

I had no problem with it but after two bad experiences im against it now.  I think its hard when a photographer and a model gets into a zone for the other person to be included in that zone and they wind up messin it up.  Just my personal opinion.  Would you bring an escort to your day job?

Escorts, only if they are under 18.  Other than that, I may allow for an assistant.  If they claim it's for safetly, I pass completely.

Mar 26 11 01:14 pm Link

Photographer

Isaiah Brink

Posts: 2328

Charlotte, North Carolina, US

aquarelle wrote:
If people are so tired of escort threads, why do they always get so many responses?

I agree.  Plus, if escorts were such a necesity, then why isn't there a section for them here, there's an area for models, photographers, mua's, wardrobe stylists, photoshop wizzards, etc, but no escorts, funny huh?

Mar 26 11 01:17 pm Link

Photographer

Christopher Carter

Posts: 7777

Indianapolis, Indiana, US

Isaiah Brink wrote:

I agree.  Plus, if escorts were such a necesity, then why isn't there a section for them here, there's an area for models, photographers, mua's, wardrobe stylists, photoshop wizzards, etc, but no escorts, funny huh?

Would you write a stranger on a modeling site for a TFE shoot? No one would ask a complete stranger to be an escort smile

Mar 26 11 02:26 pm Link

Photographer

Rich Davis

Posts: 3136

Gulf Breeze, Florida, US

Is there nothing new under the sun?

Mar 26 11 02:33 pm Link

Photographer

Christopher Carter

Posts: 7777

Indianapolis, Indiana, US

Rich Davis wrote:
Is there nothing new under the sun?

Umm, technically no. See life is a circle, it just keeps going around. So there really is nothing new, just new iterations of what's already been done.

Hakuna Matata! big_smile

Mar 26 11 02:42 pm Link

Photographer

D M E C K E R T

Posts: 4786

Las Vegas, Nevada, US

just have them hold a giant reflector in such a way that they have no clue what's happening on set...if they try to look, insist that they must hold it exactly how you told them or the shots will be ruined.

problem solved.

Mar 26 11 02:59 pm Link

Photographer

Monito -- Alan

Posts: 16524

Halifax, Nova Scotia, Canada

Mnemosyne Photography wrote:
Would you write a stranger on a modeling site for a TFE shoot? No one would ask a complete stranger to be an escort smile

Ah, I see.  Trade for Escort.  Interesting concept.

Rich Davis wrote:
Is there nothing new under the sun?

Trade for Escort is a new concept to me.  Probably though you are familiar with it and I'm just a little behind the trend.

Mar 26 11 03:19 pm Link

Photographer

alessandro2009

Posts: 8091

Florence, Toscana, Italy

Please ... take a look at the infinite topics about escorts ... before open another topic about the same argument ...

Mar 26 11 03:22 pm Link

Photographer

JTSBlack

Posts: 74

Los Angeles, California, US

Honest question here. Why is this such a huge issue?

Mar 26 11 03:24 pm Link

Photographer

TR Foto

Posts: 81

South Lake Tahoe, California, US

As long as the escort is willing to get naked, brings beer and knows how to load film (a rare talent these days!) I think they're great.

Mar 26 11 03:32 pm Link

Photographer

Art of the nude

Posts: 12067

Grand Rapids, Michigan, US

Isaiah Brink wrote:
I agree.  Plus, if escorts were such a necesity, then why isn't there a section for them here, there's an area for models, photographers, mua's, wardrobe stylists, photoshop wizzards, etc, but no escorts, funny huh?

Mnemosyne Photography wrote:
Would you write a stranger on a modeling site for a TFE shoot? No one would ask a complete stranger to be an escort smile

Actually, there was a thread a while ago; the model was so scared of a photographer (not for any reason relating to him in particular) that she picked up some guy in a bar to be her escort.  A few days later she was convinced that it had been a bad idea.

Mar 26 11 03:41 pm Link

Photographer

Jessica-Dee

Posts: 1351

Chester, England, United Kingdom

Can I just throw this out there, I know everyone always tells people to do a forum search to make sure the issue hasn't been already covered which is fine, it makes sence..

but my forum search doesn't and has never worked, so if I'm paying like a whole £4 (breaking the bank) a month to use this site I'm gonna ask questions I want to know the answer too whether it's been covered previously or not.

If you find it boring just don't read it, then you can't get bored :]

Back to the escort thing, I get why people don't like them but I don't mind them as long as it's within reason, for example, a 15 yr old model's dad coming along is fine, but a boyfriend coming along to watch his girlfriend modeling with another guy may just be awkward.
I'm only 20 so whenever I meet models I always make sure I'm in a public place just in case. You can never be too careful.

That said I don't know how I'd feel inviting an escort into my home, I've only ever shot on location and in uni studio's before.

Mar 26 11 03:47 pm Link

Photographer

Monito -- Alan

Posts: 16524

Halifax, Nova Scotia, Canada

Jessica-Dee wrote:
my forum search doesn't and has never worked,

Forum search for MM works extremely well if you follow the links from the search link and take them to Google and to Sendu.

Mar 26 11 03:49 pm Link

Photographer

J Sharp

Posts: 3437

Sacramento, California, US

JTSBlack wrote:
Honest question here. Why is this such a huge issue?

Eventually you'll get someone who claims that anyone who does not allow escorts is up to no good and that models should fear all photographers.  Claims will be made that photographers that do not allow escorts are raging rapists....  That will piss people off and the fireworks will begin.

I don't dig escorts.  My gf is a model and I only drop her off to shoots if she asks me to, and that's usually only because its a long ways away and we like to spend time together.  The only time I ever sat thru a shoot with her was because the photographer asked her to call me and ask if I would come back and help him with lighting and ideas (I was already at Hooters with my laptop and beer).  I made a good photographer friend that day.

Mar 26 11 03:51 pm Link

Photographer

Jay Farrell

Posts: 13408

Nashville, Tennessee, US

You are well within your right not to allow them.....they aren't always bad but the risks certainly escalate with them present......not only to you, but to the outcome of the shoot. I don't allow them. The models who insist on them are also free to decline shooting with me, but most of them worth shooting do not require them.

Reasons I don't allow them here. http://blog.jayfarrellphotography.com/2 … otoshoots/

Mar 26 11 03:53 pm Link

Photographer

Kayamii123

Posts: 139

Upper Fraser, British Columbia, Canada

well you have to think about the situation in the model's point of view. Meeting a photographer whom they have met on internet is pretty dangerous. If I was a model(lol) I'll be scared shitless. If you don't want a model, a great way to imply that excorts are not necessary is to have a "meeting" with them in public. Just meet together and have a discussion about the photoshoot. It's also a great opportuniy for you to study the model if you have never met them before. Also if clothing designers or make-up artists are involved, you shuld invite them to so that everybody can kinda know who they'll be working with, what they should prepare, study wach other(make-up artists can study the complexion of the model and so on). Plus if you guys have met at least once, the atmosphere of the photoshoot will be less tense.

Mar 26 11 04:42 pm Link

Photographer

Jay Farrell

Posts: 13408

Nashville, Tennessee, US

Kayamii123 wrote:
well you have to think about the situation in the model's point of view. Meeting a photographer whom they have met on internet is pretty dangerous. If I was a model(lol) I'll be scared shitless. If you don't want a model, a great way to imply that excorts are not necessary is to have a "meeting" with them in public. Just meet together and have a discussion about the photoshoot. It's also a great opportuniy for you to study the model if you have never met them before. Also if clothing designers or make-up artists are involved, you shuld invite them to so that everybody can kinda know who they'll be working with, what they should prepare, study wach other(make-up artists can study the complexion of the model and so on). Plus if you guys have met at least once, the atmosphere of the photoshoot will be less tense.

Models have ways to verify the photographers' reputations, photographers usually do not have a way to verify escorts. There is also such a thing as instinct and gut feeling, judging from the person's manner, tone, work itself etc. That's what they need to use, or else modeling may not be for them. Pre shoot meetings are an added waste of time. The whole safety thing is a double standard, considering many who go on shoots walk to their cars alone, walk across parking lots, attend parties with drunk people, go to clubs around drunk people, talk on the phone or text while driving.....all of which is more dangerous than shooting with a photographer with a verifiable reputation.

Mar 26 11 04:48 pm Link

Photographer

Happy Guy Photos

Posts: 1271

Upland, California, US

I don't accept escorts. I used to require escorts a few years ago but soon there were models who couldn't find an escort for 4-6 hour shoots so I allowed them to come on their own. When that happened I quickly noticed a big difference between models who came with escorts and those who didn't.

Here are some of the differences:

1) Models who brought escorts were more likely to be late than models who came alone.
2) Models who brought escorts often were distracted by the escorts by looking at him/her for approval, or talking, l while I was actually shooting
3) Models who brought escorts would take 20-30 minutes to change into an outfit whereas the models who came alone would take about 5-7 minutes.
4) Models who brought escorts would take approx. twice as many restrooms breaks as the model who came alone.
5) Escorts would frequently start involving themselves in the shoot by making recommendations, or negative comments, about how I was shooting his girlfriend who was doing the modeling eventhough the model promised the escort wouldn't interfere.
6) Models who came by themselves demonstrated more maturity, self-esteem, and professionalism through their behavior.
7) I would find myself doing repeat shoots with models who came by themselves because the shoots were more productive.

Now that I shoot at my house, there's no way I'm going to allow another person (escort/mua/agent) to come along with the model and wander around the house while I'm shooting. I would only have myself to blame if I found my stuff missing.

These are the reasons why I don't shoot with models who want, or require, an escort.


Gabby

Mar 26 11 05:37 pm Link

Photographer

Jay Farrell

Posts: 13408

Nashville, Tennessee, US

Happy Guy Photos wrote:
I don't accept escorts. I used to require escorts a few years ago but soon there were models who couldn't find an escort for 4-6 hour shoots so I allowed them to come on their own. When that happened I quickly noticed a big difference between models who came with escorts and those who didn't.

Here are some of the differences:

1) Models who brought escorts were more likely to be late than models who came alone.
2) Models who brought escorts often were distracted by the escorts by looking at him/her for approval, or talking, l while I was actually shooting
3) Models who brought escorts would take 20-30 minutes to change into an outfit whereas the models who came alone would take about 5-7 minutes.
4) Models who brought escorts would take approx. twice as many restrooms breaks as the model who came alone.
5) Escorts would frequently start involving themselves in the shoot by making recommendations, or negative comments, about how I was shooting his girlfriend who was doing the modeling eventhough the model promised the escort wouldn't interfere.
6) Models who came by themselves demonstrated more maturity, self-esteem, and professionalism through their behavior.
7) I would find myself doing repeat shoots with models who came by themselves because the shoots were more productive.

Now that I shoot at my house, there's no way I'm going to allow another person (escort/mua/agent) to come along with the model and wander around the house while I'm shooting. I would only have myself to blame if I found my stuff missing.

These are the reasons why I don't shoot with models who want, or require, an escort.


Gabby

That and if the escort can't come, you doubled the risk of cancellation.

Mar 26 11 05:51 pm Link

Photographer

Herb Way

Posts: 1506

Black Mountain, North Carolina, US

Abbitt Photography wrote:
I don't have a policy against escorts.  My experiences with them have been mixed.

Overall though, I don't like them for the following reasons:

1. More liability exposure for me.
2. More crowding in my small home studio
3. Greatly increased risk of theft.
4. They often feel they need to give their opinions to the detriment of the shoot
5. There are now 2 people instead of one that need to stick to their commitment for the shoot to happen, so the risk of the model bailing is increased.
6. If a model feels I'm a threat to her, I'd rather not work with her at all.
7.  With nude shoots, while a newer model might like the idea of not being alone with the photographer, when actually at the shoot, a bystander may make the model less comfortable.

I totally agree with all of your reasons. Here's what I say in my profile about escorts:

"Every model that I've worked with will tell you that you don't need one with me, and I really prefer that you not bring one, but if you feel that you must bring an escort to a shoot, be advised that I only tolerate the kind who sit SILENTLY in a corner (NOT within sight of the model) with their iPod and book or something else to occupy themselves."

More than 90% of the models that I've done nude shoots with have come to their sessions alone and I've never met any of them before they've arrived for the shoot. I think it's all about what they see in your work and the vibration that they get from your communication prior to the shoot.

Mar 26 11 07:01 pm Link

Photographer

Thom Bone

Posts: 582

Shoreline, Washington, US

Jay Farrell wrote:
Models have ways to verify the photographers' reputations, photographers usually do not have a way to verify escorts.

B I N G O !

Absolutely!

And there's no way I'm going to do a shoot (especially in my home studio) having to watch an escort out of one corner of my eye to see if they are stealing my stuff.

Mar 26 11 07:11 pm Link

Photographer

Beyond the Physical

Posts: 912

HOLMDEL, New Jersey, US

After dealing with a few "escorts" I refuse to have them any more, especially after I had a few $2k + lenses come up missing.

Now my rule is this simple … if you want an escort they better be licensed, bonded and carry the same amount of insurance that I carry

Mar 26 11 07:21 pm Link

Photographer

Sam Photoes

Posts: 299

Gurnee, Illinois, US

I worked with three models that brought escorts. The escorts were cool and one even bought me food and washed the dishes. Lmao! However, I will now pass on escorts...I have too much gear now.

Mar 27 11 01:51 am Link

Photographer

Abbitt Photography

Posts: 13564

Washington, Utah, US

Just had a model today inform me she can't make any of the proposed shoot times because her friend (escort) isn't free then.  Scheduling shoots is complicated enough.  Escorts make it even more complicated and add another factor which may make the shoot fall through.

Mar 27 11 08:11 am Link