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Photographer

Ed Woodson Photography

Posts: 2644

Savannah, Georgia, US

Mark G Bissell wrote:
It is very rare for good shots to be taken when the photographer and model can't trust each other.

This just about covers it.

Aug 20 11 05:13 pm Link

Photographer

ddtphoto

Posts: 2590

Chicago, Illinois, US

I always try to touch my models, male and female, adults and children. Anybody I am shooting I touch. I learned this when I used to assist for a quite famous photographer. To me it bridges the space between us and creates a certain degree of intimacy.

Even shooting corporate types, I'll adjust their tie, their collars, whatever. To be honest, when I do sense some discomfort about this, it is usually with these corporate types, and usually with men. They will tense at first. But it's something important that I am asserting with this. Photographing people has a lot to do with psychology.

I can't really ever recall a female model who's had a problem with it. I mean, it's not like I'm groping. But if I were photographing you, and I went to adjust your hair, and you told me you weren't comfortable with that, well, to me that seems kinda weird.

I mean, you are a model. People are going to touch you.

Aug 20 11 05:17 pm Link

Photographer

ddtphoto

Posts: 2590

Chicago, Illinois, US

veypurr wrote:
I am a designer so sometimes I have to touch the the model to make sure the fit is right. Otherwise I try to touch the model as little as possible.


A photog touching a model....why would they?

Why wouldn't they? I always go out of my way to touch my models at least once in a delicate way. That's just my style. I wouldn't be doing it if it didn't work. It's about psychology. It's about establishing trust in some cases, in others asserting a sort of passive dominance, as with corporate types.

Aug 20 11 05:21 pm Link

Photographer

Kaouthia

Posts: 3153

Wishaw, Scotland, United Kingdom

I was watching one of Joe McNally's videos on Kelby Training a few months ago and he does exactly the same thing.  His first bit of advice when dealing with a new subject was "fuss with them", pretend to take fluff off their shoulder, or rearrange a hair, etc..

You're not necessarily actually doing anything, but it gives the subject the feeling that you're trying to get the best images you can for them.

Now, this was in the instance of shooting a client and not a model, so perhaps models don't need that, but I've never had a model object when I've needed to move a few stray hairs or rearrange clothing or whatever.

I was shooting a model wearing a big fake fur coat (it's in my port if you care) and it took me a good few minutes to rearrange the hood so it wasn't sticking up at the back, while not changing how it looked at the front or messing up how her hair was coming out at the front of it, and she couldn't rearrange it because she couldn't see how the hood looked at the angle I was shooting from.

Aug 20 11 05:23 pm Link

Photographer

DazednConfused

Posts: 44

Los Angeles, California, US

I want to quit photography and open a petting zoo.

Aug 20 11 05:26 pm Link

Photographer

ddtphoto

Posts: 2590

Chicago, Illinois, US

RacerXPhoto wrote:

MM is the Bizarro version of the professional photography universe

That's so true lol.

I mean, some of the stuff around here... escorts, managers, no touching... just interchange that with escorts... pimps... no kissing. Some of the models on here act like modeling is a form of prostitution where you don't get banged.

Aug 20 11 05:26 pm Link

Photographer

Paul Bryson Photography

Posts: 48041

Hollywood, Florida, US

InnaDaVida wrote:
What is your policy on touching?

It's ok if they're hot and/or rich, but if they're ugly and broke they better not touch me.

Oh wait, that may not be what you meant. tongue

Uhh... work with folks who know the difference between sexual touching and doing what needs to be done to get the shot (applying oil, adjusting clothes, helping with a pose if needed, etc).

Aug 20 11 05:35 pm Link

Photographer

LIVING PIXELS

Posts: 216

Sydney, New South Wales, Australia

Your kidding right !!!! , fuck there is some dumb asses on here .....

Aug 20 11 05:41 pm Link

Photographer

HalfMoonColorado

Posts: 797

Murrells Inlet, South Carolina, US

There ARE some dumb asses . . .
Not IS.

Never mind, you proved your point.

Aug 20 11 05:46 pm Link

Photographer

Paul Bryson Photography

Posts: 48041

Hollywood, Florida, US

HalfMoonColorado wrote:
There ARE some dumb asses . . .
Not IS.

Never mind, you proved your point.

lol

Aug 20 11 05:55 pm Link

Photographer

Art of the nude

Posts: 12067

Grand Rapids, Michigan, US

Liquid Projects wrote:
I think for the most part.. if youre a guy.. it automatically screws you into having the model think that you just wanna see their goodies. Ive been doing this for two years now and its getting old quicker than anything.

I've been doing this for 3 1/2 years, and I've almost never dealt with that AT A SHOOT.  Some models I've talked with, certainly.  But, somehow, they pretty much get filtered out before the shoot.  Most models I shoot with do nudes, including some who don't usually shoot them  Most, nearly all, models who I shoot nude are fully comfortable being nude even when the camera isn't pointed at them that moment. 

As far as the OP; I've shot with models who I don't come within 6 feet of, but shooting bodyscapes with novices, some times the poses need minor adjustments, and with permission, I'll move a foot or arm to get the effect we need.  In general, I've found that young women are pretty good at making the distinction betwwn "good touching" and "bad touching."  Just talk to them.

Aug 20 11 06:02 pm Link

Photographer

La Zona Imagery

Posts: 319

Portland, Oregon, US

LIVING  PIXELS wrote:
Your kidding right !!!! , fuck there is some dumb asses on here .....

You must be speaking Australian English...

Aug 20 11 06:02 pm Link

Model

Okenya B

Posts: 2

Greensboro, North Carolina, US

PETER GEORGAS wrote:

+ 1 !!

Aug 20 11 06:19 pm Link

Photographer

Chris Wolf Photography

Posts: 906

Toledo, Ohio, US

DanK Photography wrote:
Why? Is there a photographer disease going around? Sometimes it is just easier for the photographer to move your hand to the correct spot or move some hair you can't see out of your face.

THIS^^ I'll be the first to admit I suck at giving directions sometimes. It's just easier to make adjustments myself. Of course, I ask all my models before we shoot if they have a problem with this. No one ever has.

Aug 20 11 06:19 pm Link

Photographer

Chris Wolf Photography

Posts: 906

Toledo, Ohio, US

Art of the nude wrote:
I've been doing this for 3 1/2 years, and I've almost never dealt with that AT A SHOOT.  Some models I've talked with, certainly.  But, somehow, they pretty much get filtered out before the shoot.  Most models I shoot with do nudes, including some who don't usually shoot them  Most, nearly all, models who I shoot nude are fully comfortable being nude even when the camera isn't pointed at them that moment.

That's been my experience, too. I always have a robe for my models, but most of the time they don't use them and just walk around starkers like it's nothing special, even the couple that were a little nervous about shooting nudes for the first time. I'm thinking the fact that we joke around and have a good time shooting probably has a lot to do with it.

Aug 20 11 06:22 pm Link

Photographer

Chris Wolf Photography

Posts: 906

Toledo, Ohio, US

Kaouthia wrote:
I was shooting a model wearing a big fake fur coat (it's in my port if you care)

I looked. You're right, there's no way she would have been able to adjust all that herself. It was worth the effort, great pic.

Aug 20 11 06:24 pm Link

Photographer

Art of the nude

Posts: 12067

Grand Rapids, Michigan, US

Rhiannon Davis wrote:
Unless I'm figure modeling, which is almost always nude. I don't let people touch me. However, this is pretty much the standard when it comes to figure/art modeling in class room and all other settings.

I don't know about in classrooms, but I often touch models while shooting "figure nudes."  As I mentioned, most of them are quite inexperienced, and they can't possibly see what the image will look like.  And, the way I shoot figure work and bodyscapes, moving even a couple inches can make a big difference.

Aug 20 11 06:32 pm Link

Retoucher

Sunrise Retouching

Posts: 79

Fort Lauderdale, Florida, US

InnaDaVida wrote:
I will let a MUA, stylist, wardrobe designer touch me during a shoot but never the photographer.

What is your policy on touching?

I would never touch a model for any reason,even if we were alone at a shoot.It's still considered a job even if it's a TF shoot.And it called sexual harassment,I don't care if there's a hair out of place I'd ask the model or a hair dresser to fix it.I've run into way to many models that don't want to be touched.So I respect there wishes,and stand clear of there little bubble

Aug 20 11 06:43 pm Link

Photographer

Art of the nude

Posts: 12067

Grand Rapids, Michigan, US

glamourglenn wrote:
Photographer A-hip, cool, young good looking dude=appropriate to touch the model


Photographer B-older, overweight, not cool man=not appropriate to touch the model.


Please memorize these distinctions and act accordingly.

I'm 54, bald, and a bit plump.  Plus, I'm 6'6" and kinda loud.  I touch models all the time, with permission and professional intentions.  No problems.  Your "distinctions" just don't add up.

Aug 20 11 06:45 pm Link

Photographer

Christopher Carter

Posts: 7777

Indianapolis, Indiana, US

Kaouthia wrote:
I was watching one of Joe McNally's videos on Kelby Training a few months ago and he does exactly the same thing.  His first bit of advice when dealing with a new subject was "fuss with them", pretend to take fluff off their shoulder, or rearrange a hair, etc..

You're not necessarily actually doing anything, but it gives the subject the feeling that you're trying to get the best images you can for them.

Now, this was in the instance of shooting a client and not a model, so perhaps models don't need that, but I've never had a model object when I've needed to move a few stray hairs or rearrange clothing or whatever.

I was shooting a model wearing a big fake fur coat (it's in my port if you care) and it took me a good few minutes to rearrange the hood so it wasn't sticking up at the back, while not changing how it looked at the front or messing up how her hair was coming out at the front of it, and she couldn't rearrange it because she couldn't see how the hood looked at the angle I was shooting from.

That's a trick McNally learned from an old photographer as well.

Aug 20 11 06:49 pm Link

Photographer

Mark G Bissell

Posts: 443

Jacksonville, North Carolina, US

Ed Woodson Photography wrote:
This just about covers it.

Pretty Much covers it all Trust or Don't Meet First would be wise but not always practical

Aug 20 11 06:54 pm Link

Photographer

UnikImagez

Posts: 96

Dallas, Texas, US

Interesting....

Aug 20 11 06:57 pm Link

Photographer

ontherocks

Posts: 23575

Salem, Oregon, US

yep. they'll stand next to you nekkid chatting away as though it's normal (which i guess it is for them). the robe is more for my comfort than theirs. lol.

Wolfstar Studio wrote:
That's been my experience, too. I always have a robe for my models, but most of the time they don't use them and just walk around starkers like it's nothing special, even the couple that were a little nervous about shooting nudes for the first time. I'm thinking the fact that we joke around and have a good time shooting probably has a lot to do with it.

Aug 20 11 06:59 pm Link

Photographer

Art of the nude

Posts: 12067

Grand Rapids, Michigan, US

EFT Digital Photography wrote:
I would never touch a model for any reason,even if we were alone at a shoot.It's still considered a job even if it's a TF shoot.And it called sexual harassment,I don't care if there's a hair out of place I'd ask the model or a hair dresser to fix it.I've run into way to many models that don't want to be touched.So I respect there wishes,and stand clear of there little bubble

It's "sexual harassment" if it's unwelcome sexual touching (or comments / etc).  NOT when it's an essential part of the project.

In most jobs, you can't insist the the person you're hiring be black, or blond, or 34C, or over 5'9", or all sorts of things that can be perfectly justified in model photography.

Aug 20 11 07:02 pm Link

Photographer

Chris Wolf Photography

Posts: 906

Toledo, Ohio, US

hartcons wrote:
yep. they'll stand next to you nekkid chatting away as though it's normal (which i guess it is for them). the robe is more for my comfort than theirs. lol.


It's because of these ladies I've come to a realization. The secret to nude photography is to act like you've got clothes on and this is no different than any other day.

The things we learn in this business . . . .

Aug 20 11 08:25 pm Link

Photographer

glamourglenn

Posts: 865

Lancaster, Pennsylvania, US

EFT Digital Photography wrote:
I would never touch a model for any reason,even if we were alone at a shoot.It's still considered a job even if it's a TF shoot.And it called sexual harassment

so any photographer who has ever touched a model during a photo shoot, for any reason, is a sexual harasser.

nice.

Aug 20 11 08:53 pm Link

Photographer

Lumigraphics

Posts: 32780

Detroit, Michigan, US

In honor of this thread, I'm touching a model the next chance I get.

Aug 20 11 08:54 pm Link

Photographer

ddtphoto

Posts: 2590

Chicago, Illinois, US

EFT Digital Photography wrote:
I would never touch a model for any reason,even if we were alone at a shoot.It's still considered a job even if it's a TF shoot.And it called sexual harassment

Bizarre.

It's not "considered sexual harassment". It's considered a photo shoot. We're not talking about you squeezing her boobs here, man.

Like I said. I ALWAYS touch my models, whether they be male, female, executives, dogs, cows, kids, you name it. It's called making a connection. It's called psychology.

Now everyone has their own approach. Maybe it works for you to be afraid to touch your talent. But to say that brushing the hair of your model aside, or adjusting a tie, or lifting a child up onto a platform is "sexual harassment" is just ridiculous.

Aug 20 11 09:10 pm Link

Photographer

Henri3

Posts: 7392

Minneapolis, Minnesota, US

Only 15% of replies were by models.....
About par for this kind of topic.

Aug 20 11 09:11 pm Link

Model

Nadeshiko Yamato

Posts: 1324

Portland, Oregon, US

MUAs tend to be pretty gentle with me and even though I'm a little tenderheaded, I don't mind the prodding and poking. I actually haven't had a stylist touch me but then again I haven't had issues with clothing that I couldn't get in or out of on my own. But hey, I can see why you allow them to touch because, if they can't touch you they can't do their job. Though if you absolutely never allow photographers to touch, even if they ask, that is a little iffy to me. It makes it appear that you aren't comfortable with them at all, and some photographers get affected by that.

'Ask and you shall recieve' really should be a mantra for photographers. Most photographers don't have the need to adjust me, and they tend to just give verbal cues instead of touching when they need to move me.
Almost everyone that touches me asks politely prior to doing so, so says that they need to brush back a stray hair that if I did it myself would possibly muck up the pose I was in.
I shouldn't say I do this, but sometimes I refuse to allow someone to touch me if I feel a certain way about them. Like if I think you could abuse that ability or try to get a quick grab, no touch for you. But then again there have been three times where even though I wanted to bite the photographer's hand, I allowed touching for the most part just to move the shoot along faster.
I mainly don't mind touching of my body if you just touch arms, lower legs, or adjusting head tilt. I don't like my hair being brushed back , but that's mainly because I don't like my neck being touched since it's so sensitive, and sometimes a poke to the neck really fucking hurts. >.

Aug 20 11 09:17 pm Link

Model

Nadeshiko Yamato

Posts: 1324

Portland, Oregon, US

Also, and this is where the pre shoot talk comes in handy, it depends on what the model knows about art. I'm an artist and I feel I have a much better handle on how a photograph will look compared to most. On a shoot a few months back, I incorporated a prop and had done an idea that the MUA (my friend) thought would have looked bad, but I went with it anyway and later showed in the photos what came through and went 'see? this is what I was talking about there was nothing to worry over'
I mean hey, I've seen photos photographers have uploaded of me that look so bad for all involved when I KNOW there are amazing photos that they could have uploaded instead. Luckily, this is a very rare occurance, but still.

I have been guilty of giving a look to a photographer when he asks for a pose that I know will just look stupid, because I know my body and what looks good for me, and I know what tends to look good in photos done in whatever similar style we are doing.

Aug 20 11 09:25 pm Link

Photographer

Chris Rifkin

Posts: 25581

Tampa, Florida, US

Looknsee Photography wrote:

I never touch models.  They have cooties.

I heard you get warts from touching models

Aug 20 11 09:32 pm Link

Photographer

ARTFORMS

Posts: 571

Greenville, South Carolina, US

GWC's , , , touch first. Ask questions and take pictures later. tongue

Aug 20 11 09:38 pm Link

Photographer

Mr Banner

Posts: 85322

Hayward, California, US

how am I supposed to tie you up without touching you?

Aug 20 11 10:15 pm Link

Makeup Artist

Alex Ariyeli

Posts: 53

South Pasadena, California, US

I'm tethered to the monitor or behind the photographer.  In my experience photographers just ask me to adjust the models if need be, so they don't have to move and then come back and find their exact spot again.

I prefer being at the shoot just so I can touch up anything as needed, because this is my work and reputation too!

Models often tell me I help them feel relaxed... I think it's just because I soften my tone of voice, tell them quickly very directly what I am doing.  (i.e. "I'm gonna touch up your hair."  "Let me check the inner corners of your eyes." "I'm fixing the tag.")  I focus on what I'm adjusting take a step back and take a quick look up and down, telling them I'm doing a last check.  If I need to look at a part of their body directly I tell then quickly.  i.e. "Let me check if your skirt got caught."  But it only takes a split second to check something so they don't suspect I'm checking them out.  Afterwards I tell them "Okay, perfect!" or something like that, then quickly walk away to express just the right amount of disinterest.

After a little while they trust me enough where I don't really need to say much when I step in to adjust them.  Like a Mommy haha.
Eventually they already know I'm doing them good and get bored of me telling them what I'm doing (most of the time).

(Btw I'm also female.  Not trying to trick anyone here.  But I've even had to touch up men's makeup as they were changing clothes and despite him trying to flirt with me, the they way I carried myself was very professional and focused, & made it quite "unexciting" if you know what I mean.)

Aug 20 11 10:32 pm Link

Photographer

Christopher Carter

Posts: 7777

Indianapolis, Indiana, US

I haven't seen it mentioned yet, so in order to be difficult I'm going to be the one to do it...


Terry Richardson.

Aug 20 11 10:35 pm Link

Photographer

gone for good

Posts: 184

Andover, England, United Kingdom

Randy Poe Photography wrote:
I will ask first and it has to be for a reason. Moving a draped shoulder material where I want it or something like that. It's not like I'm going purple nurple or anything here.

I ask before I touch, and I tell them why and what I am doing.  I prefer not to have to touch if I don't have too, but I also prefer the shot to come out, so if I need to move a hair so the model can hold a pose then I ask  and do so.

Aug 20 11 10:44 pm Link

Photographer

ddtphoto

Posts: 2590

Chicago, Illinois, US

Mnemosyne Photography wrote:
I haven't seen it mentioned yet, so in order to be difficult I'm going to be the one to do it...


Terry Richardson.

What's he supposed to have done?

Aug 20 11 10:45 pm Link

Photographer

Rob Sinkus Photography

Posts: 699

JOBSTOWN, New Jersey, US

I'm another one who works with his wife. The only real contact was when a model was leaving after a shoot. We were talking & she told us that we were fun to work with & she shook hands with us. Great model, business savy with a professional attitude. Hired her a couple more times.

Aug 20 11 10:47 pm Link

Photographer

Christopher Carter

Posts: 7777

Indianapolis, Indiana, US

ddtphoto wrote:

What's he supposed to have done?

Well, let's just say he touches.

Aug 20 11 11:00 pm Link