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Model

HeyCarrot

Posts: 42

Bartlesville, Oklahoma, US

agreed I can't see myself I rely on the photographer to help me out with a little tweeking..

Sep 27 11 08:00 pm Link

Model

HeyCarrot

Posts: 42

Bartlesville, Oklahoma, US

Artemis Bare wrote:
Don't touch me!!!

You don't know where I've been....

lol gross

Sep 27 11 08:02 pm Link

Photographer

Jason Haven

Posts: 38381

Washington, District of Columbia, US

Everyone has their own comfort zones, I don't understand what the big deal is.

Sep 27 11 08:06 pm Link

Photographer

Efan Bruder

Posts: 640

Vermillion, South Dakota, US

I usually try to give direction, but occasionally I'll quickly ask "Permission to touch?" and on an affirmative make the adjustments needed. There really are times when picking a model up and moving her are a lot easier than saying "move x to y and a to b while keeping m at n."

Sep 27 11 08:09 pm Link

Photographer

Coarse Art

Posts: 3729

Lexington, Ohio, US

I remember seeing in a profile here something along the lines of "Yes, those are my hands in the photos. If you don't like being groped then please don't contact me.". IIRC he wasn't short of takers.

Different strokes ...

Sep 27 11 08:13 pm Link

Photographer

gone for good

Posts: 184

Andover, England, United Kingdom

I seldom touch the models during a shoot, but when I need to I always ask them 1st, and every time, before I touch them... even if they have given me permission to do so just a minute or two before.

I don't see a problem with touching them if needs be, for the shoot, but if the model has had a bad experience in the past then I say respect her wishes.. or shoot with a different model and skip her.

Sep 27 11 08:16 pm Link

Photographer

ChanStudio

Posts: 9219

Alpharetta, Georgia, US

Put on glove and use a long stick so that if you do need to adjust anything (hair, move the arm around, etc. on the model, use the stick to pin point.. smile

  Some model would definitely find this insulting but if they insisted on no touching policy, then the stick is the best alternative.

Anyway, always ask make up artist/hair stylist to do the adjustment.  Avoid any physical contact with model is the best policy. smile

Sep 27 11 08:17 pm Link

Photographer

Rob Sinkus Photography

Posts: 699

JOBSTOWN, New Jersey, US

hartcons wrote:
i'm guessing some of these models are getting touched for more than just adjustments. probably a case of a few horndogs making a mess for everyone else.

i let the wife do most of the touching (to the extent it's necessary which sometimes it is). and if the customer/model husband is on set he's allowed to touch.

Yup, I with you here. My wife adjusts when needed. The only time I've touched a model was when they shake my hand after the shoot.

Sep 27 11 08:26 pm Link

Photographer

Wilde One

Posts: 2373

Santa Monica, California, US

Shiva Photo wrote:
" I will not tolerate HANDS ON PHOTOGRAPHERS " This appears in a recent model portfolio

Reluctance of a model to be touched by the photographer even for adjustment of a pose for best angle or lighting is counter productive to getting the best shots. Review of You tube videos and DVDS show that the best photographers in the field adjust the models face and body. It appears to be an accepted practice.

Models who are absolutely " touch me not"  must think twice about a serious career in modeling.

Photographers and Models opinions are welcome. A touchy subject no doubt.

Yes, this is a problem for blind photographers.

Sep 27 11 08:30 pm Link

Photographer

Shutterbug5269

Posts: 16084

Herkimer, New York, US

AJScalzitti wrote:
Well its one thing for a Internet model to say that, but in truth that really doesn't work in a lot of areas of professional modeling like runway.  Its not being touched its more like being manhandled - granted none of this is from photographers but dang they put up with a lot.

I am sure the models that post it here have had bad experiences with hobby shooters or even out right GWCs.

First, thank you for drawing a distinction between Hobbyists and GWC's.

Second, I have only found it necessary in only the rarest of occasions to actually make an adjustment on a model myself.  Generally when it was something that I could see that the model could not.  Most of the models I work with nowadays are pretty good at posing themselves.

Sep 27 11 08:41 pm Link

Photographer

Images by mhiser

Posts: 135

Virginia Beach, Virginia, US

- serious photographers don't "touch" their models, but adjust the “subject”

Sep 27 11 08:46 pm Link

Model

Leah Kate Ellis

Posts: 98

Palmdale, California, US

If a model isn't comfortable with the photographer posing her, she shouldn't be shooting with that photographer. It is necessary at times, I agree.

Sep 27 11 08:48 pm Link

Photographer

Art of the nude

Posts: 12067

Grand Rapids, Michigan, US

Artemis Bare wrote:
Don't touch me!!!

You don't know where I've been....

I work with a lot of novices, and for bodyscape and figure work especially, it's much easier for everyone to just make the adjustment.  Naturally, I ask first.

Of course, you know what you're doing, and I don't think I came within 30 feet of you other than to drive us from place to place.  big_smile

Sep 27 11 09:00 pm Link

Photographer

Lijo

Posts: 330

San Diego, California, US

so hence a mud or hairstylist shouldn't touch as well, seriously, i been doing this for a living for 23yrs. if i need to adjust something i will tel the model, or after a few times of saying, left, no up down etc, i just say hold on and adjust head hand or leg, and no no groping or any other crap aside form getting the desired feel  for the shot. that is the deference of a professional and amateurs, but that being said, in general i think if the model can't get it ,then it is okay for some one on set or the photographer them self to adjust.of course some models. have a the feeling that they know aqll they ere angeles and to a degree they do but still there isn't  a moment that they still need some adjustment as well. its basically called professionalism.

Sep 27 11 09:14 pm Link

Photographer

Glamour by Glenn

Posts: 1033

Chattanooga, Tennessee, US

I just use a cattle prod.

Sep 27 11 09:15 pm Link

Photographer

Art of the nude

Posts: 12067

Grand Rapids, Michigan, US

Glenn WC wrote:
I just use a cattle prod.

You shoot models with big knives; I assume you behave:
https://photos.modelmayhem.com/avatars/8/0/6/1/8/8/4e68f4574725a_t.jpg

Sep 27 11 09:17 pm Link

Photographer

PETER GEORGAS

Posts: 1183

Burnaby, British Columbia, Canada

Artemis Bare wrote:
Don't touch me!!!

You don't know where I've been....

.....NEXT !

Sep 27 11 09:20 pm Link

Artist/Painter

aquarelle

Posts: 2056

Chicago, Illinois, US

I wouldn't touch a model without asking first, of course.  I have noticed lately that it's usually the model's foot that needs moving.  I wonder why that is.  I've found myself saying "May I move your foot?" quite a lot.

But then after all this not touching, sometimes when I go to help her off the posing stand, a model will jump naked into my arms.  It really made a difference when I elevated the stand a couple of feet.

Sep 27 11 09:31 pm Link

Photographer

afplcc

Posts: 6020

Fairfax, Virginia, US

1.  I have a lot of ways I can pose a model.  Most of them don't involve touching the model.  I do what works.  If the model either has made it clear "hands free zone here" or we haven't worked together before and she's probably still wondering if I'm a dirty old man, I make it a point to keep my distance.

2.  Most of the time I don't think touching is necessary.   There are a couple of models I work with you have made it clear that they don't mind if I position them with my hands when I feel it necessary.  Just did a shoot with one of them--I don't think I adjusted a hair or moved a foot once--but we both agreed that option was there I felt I needed it.  However we were both in-sync, my instructions and examples were clear and there was just no need.

3.  Frankly, some photographers rely on touching b/c they can't communicate clearly enough (i.e.: not so good with the words) and/or the model isn't so good with getting verbal instruction or translating the example (such as a photo or drawing).

4.  And yes, there are plenty of models who feel compelled to put up such caveats b/c they have been groped (and I"m sure the photographer then replied "don't be so paranoid--I was just positioning you!"). 

Ed

Sep 27 11 09:34 pm Link

Photographer

Stalking Moon

Posts: 168

Kansas City, Missouri, US

Shiva Photo wrote:
" I will not tolerate HANDS ON PHOTOGRAPHERS " This appears in a recent model portfolio

Reluctance of a model to be touched by the photographer even for adjustment of a pose for best angle or lighting is counter productive to getting the best shots. Review of You tube videos and DVDS show that the best photographers in the field adjust the models face and body. It appears to be an accepted practice.

Models who are absolutely " touch me not"  must think twice about a serious career in modeling.

Photographers and Models opinions are welcome. A touchy subject no doubt.

Agree...

Sep 27 11 09:42 pm Link

Model

Alabaster Crowley

Posts: 8283

Tucson, Arizona, US

I don't think it's appropriate if the photographer just walks over and touches the model. But if s/he tells the model how they should be posing, and the model can't get it herself, the photographer can ask if they can help and adjust the model themselves. The model should generally be fine with that.

I don't want *anyone* just touching me without asking though, not just photographers.

There's times you're in a complicated pose, and moving to adjust your hair/bra strap/etc will just mess up a different part of the pose. I'd rather hold the pose and have the photographer adjust something. A MUA/hair or wardrobe stylists is good for that if they're present, too.

I had a photographer tell me to NEVER let a photographer touch me, even if I didn't understand the pose and they asked me if they could help. I thought that was a little extreme. Especially because he was giving me strange posing advice that wasn't making much sense to me, and instead of helping, he'd just give up.

Sep 28 11 12:49 am Link

Photographer

Neil Snape

Posts: 9474

Paris, Île-de-France, France

There are MM models, internet models, and agency models.

Not that many really cross the lines, yet it's likely that some photographers do.

Hence their mention of such crazy actions.

I rarely shoot other than agency models so I may too be offending the rare MM model when I shoot.

Yet frankly I couldn't give a shit. I'm in it to make pictures, and good ones. If I have to physically insist it's for a reason. That reason is surely my lack of verbal communication. Mea culpa. Yet everyone wants strong pictures, so if it is such a blockage then shoot with those who are afraid to do so, or communicate better.

Edit, forgot, agencies models will never ever say something if you help pose them. Yet there lies the reality of being professional on all sides.

Sep 28 11 01:03 am Link

Model

Alabaster Crowley

Posts: 8283

Tucson, Arizona, US

Neil Snape wrote:
Edit, forgot, agencies models will never ever say something if you help pose them. Yet there lies the reality of being professional on all sides.

I don't think part of being a professional includes letting people touch you without asking. That's a personal thing.

Sep 28 11 01:23 am Link

Photographer

-Photographer X-

Posts: 101

Salt Lake City, Utah, US

Shiva Photo wrote:
" I will not tolerate HANDS ON PHOTOGRAPHERS " This appears in a recent model portfolio

Reluctance of a model to be touched by the photographer even for adjustment of a pose for best angle or lighting is counter productive to getting the best shots. Review of You tube videos and DVDS show that the best photographers in the field adjust the models face and body. It appears to be an accepted practice.

Models who are absolutely " touch me not"  must think twice about a serious career in modeling.

Photographers and Models opinions are welcome. A touchy subject no doubt.

It's all about what your intentions are.

Asking permission goes a LONG way...

99% of the time I personally can pose and give a visual of what I want but there is that 1% of the time where I don't want them to move and a strand of hair is in the wrong spot... ASKING to move the hair (so she is prepared for 'invasion of personal bubble") well do wonders for your professionalism.

It's not like we are asking to grab your boob or touch your butt...

but basically, it's about permissions vs just assuming.

Sep 28 11 01:30 am Link

Photographer

Adain At

Posts: 361

Los Angeles, California, US

Modelmayhem has a lot of pervs who are really good at taking photos, and love to use that skill to touch girls coochies.

Sep 28 11 01:30 am Link

Photographer

-Photographer X-

Posts: 101

Salt Lake City, Utah, US

Augustine York wrote:
I can't recall a single time in modeling where someone had to put a hand on me to show me how to pose or to adjust a piece of clothing for me. Usually a quick "move your bra strap" or "to the left" or "look up" does the trick.

If a model is so inept at following direction, or a photographer is so inept at giving it, that the photographer needs to be physically touching the model to get her to move the way he wants her to... then someone is doing something wrong.

And yes, I know there are some exceptions where someone is in such a complicated pose they can't even reach their own panties to adjust them, but seriously, how often do those scenarios happen?

Gross... I don't touch underwear a model is wearing (Sorry.. personal thing here, don't care if other people will or do)..

If that 0.000000000001% of a chance comes up that I have to touch a model on the boob or adjust her panties FOR her or whatever... unless we are going out.. I will just give up on that pose and try a new one.

Sep 28 11 01:39 am Link

Photographer

Kenny Flash Photography

Posts: 3

New York, New York, US

I just simply refuse to work with anyone who has issues. Its always best to avoid a bad shoot, a real waste of time.

Sep 28 11 01:40 am Link

Photographer

Stan Freedman

Posts: 26

Ellicott City, Maryland, US

I have 3 rules when shooting.

1.  Do not touch the models.
2.  Do not touch the models.
3.  Do not touch the models.

I agree that there my be times when it is necessary, like getting up from an awkward pose, but always ask first before you offer assistance.


Case closed.

Sep 28 11 01:41 am Link

Photographer

Stan Freedman

Posts: 26

Ellicott City, Maryland, US

Wysiwyg-NN wrote:
Gross... I don't touch underwear a model is wearing (Sorry.. personal thing here, don't care if other people will or do)..

If that 0.000000000001% of a chance comes up that I have to touch a model on the boob or adjust her panties FOR her or whatever... unless we are going out.. I will just give up on that pose and try a new one.

Sep 28 11 01:44 am Link

Photographer

Neil Snape

Posts: 9474

Paris, Île-de-France, France

Alabaster True wrote:

I don't think part of being a professional includes letting people touch you without asking. That's a personal thing.

It is not like someone is going to walk right up and bend you into shape. When working on a shot there is dialogue, everyone is trying to get somewhere, and there is always direction given before ever touching a model.

The difference between professional models is the ones who are really working in real agencies would never have a problem with this, yet professional because some GWCs pay internet models is another type of professional, that this old guy has a hard time getting used to.

Sep 28 11 01:45 am Link

Photographer

Paul Tirado Photography

Posts: 4363

New York, New York, US

Artemis Bare wrote:
Don't touch me!!!

You don't know where I've been....

and she is a Navy vet so she has been to exotic ports. tongue

Sep 28 11 01:50 am Link

Photographer

RKD Photographic

Posts: 3265

Iserlohn, North Rhine-Westphalia, Germany

I usually work with a very good female MUA and she does the adjusting more often than not - her eye for that sort of thing is almost as good as mine.

Sometimes a quick adjustment by me is required, though as many have pointed out, announcing your intention beforehand usually prevents any misunderstandings:
"I'm going to touch your face; there's a stray hair across your eye..."
"I'm going to adjust your dress/clothing here and here..."

etc. etc.

Models who object to being touched under any circumstances are possibly in the wrong line of work...

Sep 28 11 01:51 am Link

Model

Tansy Blue

Posts: 318

Brighton, England, United Kingdom

I strongly disagree with the OP. Some people (people, not models) just don't like being touched under any circumstances. It would be counter-productive to touch one of these people; if the model's uncomfortable the shots will be bad.

Personally I think it's very rude to touch anyone without permission under any circumstances. I extend my hand and wait for it to be shaken, I don't just grab other people's hands willy nilly. "Permission" can be very subtle and isn't always verbal, but it still must be given.

I would react very badly to a photographer coming up and adjusting my hair or clothing without asking first. I react very badly if my MUM adjusts my clothing without giving me any warning whatsoever. Just taking 2 seconds to ask is courteous IMO, and is part of treating a model like a person rather than a walking clotheshorse.

Sep 28 11 01:51 am Link

Photographer

RKD Photographic

Posts: 3265

Iserlohn, North Rhine-Westphalia, Germany

Tansy Blue wrote:
I strongly disagree with the OP. Some people (people, not models) just don't like being touched under any circumstances. It would be counter-productive to touch one of these people; if the model's uncomfortable the shots will be bad.

Personally I think it's very rude to touch anyone without permission under any circumstances. I extend my hand and wait for it to be shaken, I don't just grab other people's hands willy nilly. "Permission" can be very subtle and isn't always verbal, but it still must be given.

I would react very badly to a photographer coming up and adjusting my hair or clothing without asking first. I react very badly if my MUM adjusts my clothing without giving me any warning whatsoever. Just taking 2 seconds to ask is courteous IMO, and is part of treating a model like a person rather than a walking clotheshorse.

Like I said: maybe time for a change of career...

Sep 28 11 01:54 am Link

Photographer

New Kidd Imagery

Posts: 1909

South Salt Lake, Utah, US

Tansy Blue wrote:
I strongly disagree with the OP. Some people (people, not models) just don't like being touched under any circumstances. It would be counter-productive to touch one of these people; if the model's uncomfortable the shots will be bad.

Personally I think it's very rude to touch anyone without permission under any circumstances. I extend my hand and wait for it to be shaken, I don't just grab other people's hands willy nilly. "Permission" can be very subtle and isn't always verbal, but it still must be given.

I would react very badly to a photographer coming up and adjusting my hair or clothing without asking first. I react very badly if my MUM adjusts my clothing without giving me any warning whatsoever. Just taking 2 seconds to ask is courteous IMO, and is part of treating a model like a person rather than a walking clotheshorse.

RKD Photographic wrote:
Like I said: maybe time for a change of career...

Is it wrong that she want's to be asked before a photographer touches her?

hmm

Sep 28 11 02:00 am Link

Photographer

RKD Photographic

Posts: 3265

Iserlohn, North Rhine-Westphalia, Germany

Fiera Photography wrote:

Tansy Blue wrote:
I strongly disagree with the OP. Some people (people, not models) just don't like being touched under any circumstances. It would be counter-productive to touch one of these people; if the model's uncomfortable the shots will be bad.

Personally I think it's very rude to touch anyone without permission under any circumstances. I extend my hand and wait for it to be shaken, I don't just grab other people's hands willy nilly. "Permission" can be very subtle and isn't always verbal, but it still must be given.

I would react very badly to a photographer coming up and adjusting my hair or clothing without asking first. I react very badly if my MUM adjusts my clothing without giving me any warning whatsoever. Just taking 2 seconds to ask is courteous IMO, and is part of treating a model like a person rather than a walking clotheshorse.

Is it wrong that she want's to be asked before a photographer touches her?

hmm

It was the 'under any circumstances' bit I was referring to...and to the walking clothes-horse bit: fashion models in particular are just that and very little more until they become 'known faces'...as evidenced by the very high turnover in the industry.

Sep 28 11 02:02 am Link

Model

Tansy Blue

Posts: 318

Brighton, England, United Kingdom

Meh, I'm not a fashion model. I am wrong in every single way for fashion modelling.

Internet modelling and agency modelling are different beasts. Accepted standards of practice are different between the two. How many serious fashion models book the majority of their client work on the internet...?

I still don't think it's okay to touch someone (so invade their personal space) without getting permission first. But that isn't a modelling thing; it's a general courtesy I would extend (and expect to be extended) to all people.

I don't think touching is wrong under any circumstances; I think that touching without permission (can I say non-consensual touch?) is never okay. Permission can be very subtle and isn't always verbal, but it must be given. (Personally I would argue that it's better to get explicit verbal permission, but failing that just giving the model 2 seconds warning - so that she's got a chance to object - suffices.

Sep 28 11 02:15 am Link

Photographer

RKD Photographic

Posts: 3265

Iserlohn, North Rhine-Westphalia, Germany

Tansy Blue wrote:
Meh, I'm not a fashion model. I am wrong in every single way for fashion modelling.

Internet modelling and agency modelling are different beasts. Accepted standards of practice are different between the two. How many serious fashion models book the majority of their client work on the internet...?

I still don't think it's okay to touch someone (so invade their personal space) without getting permission first. But that isn't a modelling thing; it's a general courtesy I would extend (and expect to be extended) to all people.

I don't think touching is wrong under any circumstances; I think that touching without permission (can I say non-consensual touch?) is never okay. Permission can be very subtle and isn't always verbal, but it must be given. (Personally I would argue that it's better to get explicit verbal permission, but failing that just giving the model 2 seconds warning - so that she's got a chance to object - suffices.

OK we're on the same page then... big_smile

Sep 28 11 02:23 am Link

Model

Tansy Blue

Posts: 318

Brighton, England, United Kingdom

RKD Photographic wrote:
OK we're on the same page then... big_smile

Agreeing on things high-five! big_smile

Sep 28 11 02:27 am Link

Photographer

Star

Posts: 17966

Los Angeles, California, US

I have to ask, why does anyone need to touch the model using both hands and without asking? The very few times I guide by touch I use two fingers and tell the model before touching them that I need to touch them to adjust the pose slightly.

I think handsy photographers give the whole industry a bad rep. I am not saying the op is handsy, but I also think the op misunderstood the models bio statement. There is a lot of "show me on the doll" touching that happens and she is trying to head the pervs off at the pass.

Sep 28 11 02:32 am Link