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I'm thinking about quitting my modeling dreams.
Sad, but I am not getting any opportunities. Nov 25 14 11:46 am Link Have you tried intitiating contact with photographers with whom interest you? Are you willing to travel? What sort of content are you open to doing? Not trying to be harsh but there's a common misconception that modeling is easy. All the work you do in front of the camera, multiply that by 100 (the styling, working out to keep your lovely figure, spending time answering emails...to name just a few). Nov 25 14 12:07 pm Link im willing to travel and do anything except nude. I knew it wasnt going to be easy, just thought i'd be somewhere after 3 years. i work out every day. by the way. im super fit. Nov 25 14 12:15 pm Link Elyse Nicole Craft wrote: What do you feel is lacking? It looks like you've built a solid portfolio, worked successfully with a lot of photographers... Nov 25 14 12:19 pm Link If your marketing efforts are at a ten on a scale from one to ten, and you're not getting the results you want, you have two choices: 1. Figure out what you're doing wrong in the area of marketing. 2. Quit. Nov 25 14 12:23 pm Link Elyse, at 5'4" it will always be very difficult for a clothes only model to make money. Even one as pretty as you. Traveling may help but their are plenty of models willing to do non nude TF. You are even short for commercial work but I see you're signed. What does your agency say? Despite what some members claim that they make hundreds a hour at 5'4" and get paid to travel around the world. Height, location and the kind of images models are willing to do all make a difference. Designers would have a hard time using you and again while I see you are signed I know its difficult to get booked for fashion when you are under 5'8". Do this because you enjoy it. If you can make money along the way then great but if not why stop doing something you clearly enjoy. Nov 25 14 12:28 pm Link Viator Defessus Photos wrote: My goals are to be able to travel the world and model everywhere. Nov 25 14 12:33 pm Link Majority of the aspiring models fail to reach their dreams. That's just a reality. Too many people/talents chasing for so few opportunities. Nov 25 14 12:34 pm Link Chuckarelei wrote: thank you for your honesty. Nov 25 14 12:40 pm Link Elyse Nicole Craft wrote: Let's be honest- that is a VERY lofty goal even for strong models (or any creative) in a major market. Nov 25 14 01:06 pm Link If you are interested in getting established in "the industry" you are looking in the wrong place, also, you don't fit the criteria for being an industry model. You are gorgeous, but Model Mayhem is not going to give you those kind of results. My work is exemplary of the kind of jobs you would be offered here. I am an artist, and, most often, hire a model one time, and move on to the next, and I don't pay thousands of dollars to do a photo shoot for my art. -Don Nov 25 14 01:19 pm Link For what this is worth, despite the fact your profile says you are "friendly and goofy", the rest of your profile comes off as very short, "I" focused, snooty and standoffish, at least to my eye's "ear". The written word is a horrible medium for establishing mood, intent and personality. It takes time and effort and editing to create something that reads well to everyone. Perhaps if you were to read your profile to yourself, out loud, several time, with several different emotions attached to your voice, it would help you with a re-write. IMHO, reduce the use of the word "I" at the beginning of every sentence, and try to make it read a little softer. Height you can't fix. No nudes really limits your opportunity for paid hobbyist gigs, but people should respect that choice, and it is yours to make. The one thing you can fix is the impression you give in your profile. I don't know how many people read it when considering a model to work with, but I have read every word of every profile of every model I've ever sent a request to. You've got the physical tools, maybe this could help... but then again, waddoIno? I tend to be wordy and I know most people are not. Maybe I'm the only one with that opinion, and it's not worth the time it took to write. Regardless, best of luck if you stick with it. Nov 25 14 01:19 pm Link What you might want to do is to focus on your career in a week by week way. Instead of giving yourself such a huge goal, focus on working every week to get closer to success and set smaller goals for yourself so that one day you can finally reach your overall dream. It will put less stress on yourself and also make your goal seem more realistic and in your reach. Nov 25 14 01:25 pm Link Life is not a fairy tale. Not all dreams come true. Nov 25 14 01:27 pm Link If you were open to shooting erotic nudes then your options for world travel would be much wider. Nov 25 14 01:28 pm Link Elyse Nicole Craft wrote: I "quit" twice a year. And each time something great happens that changes my mind. But sadly it's a temporary feeling and I'm back to wanting to quit again. Nov 25 14 01:29 pm Link Danielle Reid wrote: Nov 25 14 01:32 pm Link Caitie Elizabeth Photo wrote: This would be my immediate suggestion. Nov 25 14 01:34 pm Link Quitting is something you do because you have better things to do with your time. Otherwise, you should spend your time figuring out other ways to make your dreams happen. Nov 25 14 01:39 pm Link I think you're stunning. As was said before, there are a lot of people who want to do what you want to do and limited opportunities. I think your look would fit well in lifestyle work. I think you could be great in video/commercials as well. You have a very wholesome look, a girl next door type of beauty that I think you can capitalize on in combination with your marketable ethnicity. More than anything I would try finding the right niche for your look. Nov 25 14 01:40 pm Link Elyse Nicole Craft wrote: I guess you are aware that you have some implieds in your credited photos? Nov 25 14 07:28 pm Link dreams do come true, just make sure you stay focused on your dreams. Do whatever it takes, as I've learned "there is no second place." Nov 25 14 07:32 pm Link Elyse Nicole Craft wrote: Okay. Nov 25 14 07:38 pm Link Personally, MM wise I would say be as active as you can. Use the fora and connect with as many people as possible. You do limit yourself in THIS community by not shooting nudes; but that should not stop you. You are also limited based on height which you can do nothing about. Do not give up and keep putting yourself and name out there... especially in the fora here, it does really help. Nov 25 14 07:46 pm Link Well, it's already been said in various ways from those who have replied to your OP. So here is my 2¢ worth. The problem certainly is not your looks. You are strikingly beautiful. My opinion, along with many others responding is that you need to broaden your horizons. As already mentioned, you drew the "short" straw, so your clothed opportunities are going to be limited. By limiting yourself to clothed only, you are severely limiting your marketability. In today's world, posing for tasteful nudes isn't a "stigma". I hire traveling models for my artistic and glamor nudes, short or tall, doesn't matter to me. Should you decide to accept assignments for nude shoots, check the photographers work and his references and models who have worked with him/her. But, try to avoid the no escort, no shoot ultimatum that many newbies seem to get hung up on. Best wishes in having your dream of being a traveling model come true. If you are headed my way, give me some advance notice. I would love to shoot with you. Nov 25 14 07:57 pm Link Elyse Nicole Craft wrote: Very sorry to say this, but at 5'4" that's a bit unrealistic. It is even unrealistic for 99% of the 5'8" and taller, 16 year old, agency models. Nov 25 14 08:00 pm Link Its a tough industry to break into and make money, especially when you don't fit into the mold you need to. If you enjoy it, perhaps keep it as a hobby. Nov 25 14 08:12 pm Link I'd love to be a professional athlete, but I wasn't fast enough. I still play sports because I love to. I'd love to be a professional photographer, but I'm not quite at that standard. I still love shooting. You're aspiring to do something that millions would love to do and very few can. If you enjoy modeling for what it is, continue because you're beautiful and enjoy it. If you don't love it, find a career that will allow you to travel the world and go for your goals a different way. There's my 2 cents, that are worth half that. Nov 25 14 08:35 pm Link Moderator Note!
FYI, the model also posted in critique. I am leaving both threads so that she can get the gamut of advise offered in both. https://www.modelmayhem.com/po.php?thread_id=936607 Nov 25 14 09:01 pm Link TheVisionHarry wrote: Op did not ask for critique here. Unsolicited critique is not permitted here in this section. Nov 25 14 10:10 pm Link Elyse Nicole Craft wrote: Have you tried travel on your own expenses and looking for opportunities on your way? Nov 26 14 01:45 am Link Caitie Elizabeth Photo wrote: +1 Light and Lens Studio wrote: +1 Nov 26 14 03:48 am Link Consider aiming lower, enjoy modelling as a past time for the experiences and pocket money for a while and see where it takes you. Hope you enjoy which ever path you end up taking. Nov 26 14 11:08 am Link Elyse Nicole Craft wrote: Nude work makes up probably 80% of the income-earning opportunities you will find online. That's just a guess, and honestly, I might still be being too generous in my estimate. The modeling opportunities you will find OFF the internet are geared toward fashion and editorial models, who are close to six feet tall. Nov 26 14 11:27 am Link Elyse Nicole Craft wrote: Nov 26 14 01:00 pm Link Elyse Nicole Craft wrote: Elyse there are options which will allow this... primarily the path is to become a promotional model, a spokesperson, better known as a brand ambassador for an international entity... this requires a radiant smile, effervescent personality, sparkly and cheerful to the extreme... while your height is less important it still may be limiting... but not nearly as much owing to your Asian ethnicity... even top agencies lower height requirements for Asian models... Nov 26 14 01:51 pm Link Elyse Nicole Craft wrote: If you truly wish to pursue your dream... Nov 26 14 09:00 pm Link You're lovely, but you don't have the height or stats for fashion, and if you don't do nudes, you're not likely it get many paid offers. Why not model as a hobby if you still enjoy it? Nov 26 14 09:08 pm Link
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