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Model

InnaDaVida

Posts: 41

Westfield, New Jersey, US

I will let a MUA, stylist, wardrobe designer touch me during a shoot but never the photographer.

What is your policy on touching?

Aug 20 11 09:18 am Link

Model

liindsay ann

Posts: 1861

Cleveland, Ohio, US

Doesn't matter, as long as it's professional and necessary..

Aug 20 11 09:19 am Link

Photographer

Dan K Photography

Posts: 5581

STATEN ISLAND, New York, US

InnaDaVida wrote:
I will let a MUA, stylist, wardrobe designer touch me during a shoot but never the photographer.

What is your policy on touching?

Why? Is there a photographer disease going around? Sometimes it is just easier for the photographer to move your hand to the correct spot or move some hair you can't see out of your face.

Aug 20 11 09:21 am Link

Clothing Designer

veypurr

Posts: 464

Albuquerque, New Mexico, US

I am a designer so sometimes I have to touch the the model to make sure the fit is right. Otherwise I try to touch the model as little as possible.


A photog touching a model....why would they?

Aug 20 11 09:23 am Link

Photographer

ontherocks

Posts: 23575

Salem, Oregon, US

the wife and i shoot together and models don't seem to mind if she touches them. if i need to touch (like to brush hair away after they're settled into a pose) i ask permission first.

Aug 20 11 09:24 am Link

Photographer

B R U N E S C I

Posts: 25319

Bath, England, United Kingdom

InnaDaVida wrote:
I will let a MUA, stylist, wardrobe designer touch me during a shoot but never the photographer.

What if there's nobody else on set and something needs adjusting that you can't do yourself? If the photographer politely asks if he/she can do it will you still refuse?

Part of the business of being a model is getting used to being pushed, prodded, tweaked and adjusted like a mannequin in a window by pretty much all and sundry. If you have an objection to being touched or in some way feel that a photographer who needs to adjust something is automatically a pervert or creep then perhaps you should reconsider whether you're really cut out to be a model?



Just my $0.02

Ciao
Stefano

www.stefanobrunesci.com

Aug 20 11 09:26 am Link

Photographer

PETER GEORGAS

Posts: 1183

Burnaby, British Columbia, Canada

liindsay ann wrote:
Doesn't matter, as long as it's professional and necessary..

+ 1 !!

Aug 20 11 09:28 am Link

Photographer

Randy Poe

Posts: 1639

Green Cove Springs, Florida, US

I will ask first and it has to be for a reason. Moving a draped shoulder material where I want it or something like that. It's not like I'm going purple nurple or anything here.

Aug 20 11 09:30 am Link

Photographer

Image Works Photography

Posts: 2890

Orlando, Florida, US

Funny you asked- I always tell the model about her hair being out of place. The other weeks she told me I could touch her hair but only with permission. I see it as an invasion of space but hair being out of place can ruin an otherwise great shot and it has happen before. I now ask the model to at least bring a hair brush.

Aug 20 11 09:30 am Link

Photographer

PANHEAD PHOTOGRAPHY

Posts: 1648

San Francisco, California, US

InnaDaVida wrote:
I will let a MUA, stylist, wardrobe designer touch me during a shoot but never the photographer.

What is your policy on touching?

You've worked with a MUA, stylistic, wardrobe designer
Really ? Come on you're jiviing us right?

Sorry found it offensive that you think photographers
Have cuddies

Aug 20 11 09:32 am Link

Photographer

J Welborn

Posts: 2552

Clarksville, Tennessee, US

Some models care some don't I respect the wishes of the model . Models who have a force field around them usually have very shot sessions .
Just to be clear I ask first . The worst ones to deal with are the ones who bring a girl friend to make adjustments . 1% actually do it right the other 99% get to leave with the model smile

Aug 20 11 09:32 am Link

Photographer

Shane Noir

Posts: 2332

Los Angeles, California, US

Image Works 123 wrote:
Funny you asked- I always tell the model about her hair being out of place. The other weeks she told me I could touch her hair but only with permission. I see it as an invasion of space but hair being out of place can ruin an otherwise great shot and it has happen before. I now ask the model to at least bring a hair brush.

Yeah.... 2 seconds of getting hair out of the way saves 30 minutes of work in photoshop-- per strand!

Aug 20 11 09:33 am Link

Photographer

J T Smith

Posts: 1688

Pittsfield, Illinois, US

Did you ever think the mua, designer or stylist gets more of a thrill than a photographer might! Just because they can!

A photographer on set might have to be the stylist. Did you ever think of that?

However, I am lazy..and I love assistance to do the dirty work. After all, I got pictures to take...

Bottom line is photographers need better communication skills instead of using the excuse of touching someone to get the shot!

J T

Aug 20 11 09:36 am Link

Photographer

Liquid Projects

Posts: 410

Boston, Massachusetts, US

Maybe you shouldnt be in the business then.. models get touched by everybody in the real world to get the job done. Personally I dont touch anybody without permission as Im sure others would do the same. When youre a model in the real world, you get pushed and pulled in every direction..

Aug 20 11 09:36 am Link

Photographer

J Welborn

Posts: 2552

Clarksville, Tennessee, US

Image Works 123 wrote:
Funny you asked- I always tell the model about her hair being out of place. The other weeks she told me I could touch her hair but only with permission. I see it as an invasion of space but hair being out of place can ruin an otherwise great shot and it has happen before. I now ask the model to at least bring a hair brush.

I have a real problem with hair out of place too and the girls I do not like are the ones who do not let some one else fix it for them . You get them just right and they want to go to the make up mirror or they cringe when you try to do it your self .

I do a few shots and then I am done ---next

All I want is good results --not a date

Aug 20 11 09:37 am Link

Photographer

Creative Studio One

Posts: 213

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

simply offensive!
I would ask any model who brings that kind of attitude to the shoot to leave immediately.
My set my rules.
That being said, I have never touched any model. its that attitude that I have issues with.

Aug 20 11 09:38 am Link

Photographer

J Welborn

Posts: 2552

Clarksville, Tennessee, US

Creative Studio One wrote:
simply offensive!
I would ask any model who brings that kind of attitude to the shoot to leave immediately.
My set my rules.
That being said, I have never touched any model. its that attitude that I have issues with.

Yes a good attitude goes a long way toward getting good results.

Aug 20 11 09:40 am Link

Photographer

Abbitt Photography

Posts: 13564

Washington, Utah, US

If it's something the model can correct, I'll just tell her.  If it's something that's easier for me to correct, I'll ask first and then make the adjustment.  I've never once had a model say no when I've asked.

Some jobs either require or are easier with some contact.  I really don't see why it should be a big deal.  I also really don't see why it should matter if the person who touches is there primarily as a MUA or photographer.  Either way someone is accomplishing what ever it is that aids the shoot.

Aug 20 11 09:41 am Link

Photographer

DEP E510

Posts: 2046

Miramar, Florida, US

PANHEAD PHOTOGRAPHY  wrote:

You've worked with a MUA, stylistic, wardrobe designer
Really ? Come on you're jiviing us right?

Sorry found it offensive that you think photographers
Have cuddies

cuddies, or "cooties"?

smile

Aug 20 11 09:41 am Link

Photographer

Matt Schmidt Photo

Posts: 3709

Charlotte, North Carolina, US

I touch, hair, hands, face, shift here, shift there and I always ask first . . . we have to do what it takes to get the job done.  Beyond this . . . you're fooling yourself.

Aug 20 11 09:41 am Link

Photographer

Digitoxin

Posts: 13456

Denver, Colorado, US

InnaDaVida wrote:
I will let a MUA, stylist, wardrobe designer touch me during a shoot but never the photographer.

What is your policy on touching?

My policy on touching is simple:  if something needs to be fixed and you can't do it yourself (or try and get it wrong), I will touch you to fix it.  There is a big difference between touching appropriately and inappropriately.  If you can't understand the difference, you need to find another hobby.

Aug 20 11 09:43 am Link

Photographer

ontherocks

Posts: 23575

Salem, Oregon, US

well i think some of this comes up with the nude models who are shooting with guys they presume to be GWCs who are really only interested in seeing them naked and may even try to cop a feel or two if they can get away with it. but it's unfortunate if they let that spill over into all their shoots. hair out of place is one of the biggest time sucks in post and something i'm vigilant about. and if i have them brush it away sometimes it wrecks a pose we've put effort into creating. or maybe i need to adjust their hand position in a way they can't do very well on their own. photography is a lot in the details at higher levels.

Liquid Projects wrote:
Maybe you shouldnt be in the business then.. models get touched by everybody in the real world to get the job done. Personally I dont touch anybody without permission as Im sure others would do the same. When youre a model in the real world, you get pushed and pulled in every direction..

Aug 20 11 09:44 am Link

Photographer

Wysiwyg Photography

Posts: 6326

Salt Lake City, Utah, US

InnaDaVida wrote:
I will let a MUA, stylist, wardrobe designer touch me during a shoot but never the photographer.

What is your policy on touching?

I never touch the model... never had a need... and when I want a pose that I cannot explain... I do the pose the best I can myself for a "visual" wink

Aug 20 11 09:46 am Link

Photographer

R L P

Posts: 1971

Las Vegas, Nevada, US

Stefano Brunesci wrote:

What if there's nobody else on set and something needs adjusting that you can't do yourself? If the photographer politely asks if he/she can do it will you still refuse?

Part of the business of being a model is getting used to being pushed, prodded, tweaked and adjusted like a mannequin in a window by pretty much all and sundry. If you have an objection to being touched or in some way feel that a photographer who needs to adjust something is automatically a pervert or creep then perhaps you should reconsider whether you're really cut out to be a model?



Just my $0.02

Ciao
Stefano

www.stefanobrunesci.com

+$0.01

Aug 20 11 09:48 am Link

Model

Krystal Cole

Posts: 32

Gloucester, England, United Kingdom

Dont have a problem as long as they ask so I know theres a reason

Aug 20 11 09:49 am Link

Photographer

Liquid Projects

Posts: 410

Boston, Massachusetts, US

hartcons wrote:
well i think some of this comes up with the nude models who are shooting with guys they presume to be GWCs who are really only interested in seeing them naked and may try to cop a feel or two if they can get away with it. but it's unfortunate if they let that spill over into all their shoots. hair out of place is one of the biggest time sucks in post and something i'm vigilant about. and if i have them brush it away sometimes it wrecks a pose we've put effort into creating. or maybe i need to adjust their hand position in a way they can't do very well on their own. photography is a lot in the details at higher levels.


I think for the most part.. if youre a guy.. it automatically screws you into having the model think that you just wanna see their goodies. Ive been doing this for two years now and its getting old quicker than anything. That and the I only do paid shoots but you look at their port and you vomit in your mouth a little or start laughing out loud and have to show whoever is in the same room and ask "is she/he serious??".. but getting back on track...

MODELS... DO A BACKGROUND CHECK! If it makes you feel any better, beenverified.com has a FREE iphone app that gives you one free credit to check out the person youre shooting with or anybody else. If you feel weird about anything.. just do it.. so it doesnt show in your shoot.

Aug 20 11 09:52 am Link

Photographer

Looknsee Photography

Posts: 26342

Portland, Oregon, US

InnaDaVida wrote:
I will let a MUA, stylist, wardrobe designer touch me during a shoot but never the photographer.

What is your policy on touching?

I never touch models.  They have cooties.

Aug 20 11 09:52 am Link

Photographer

Fashion Photographer

Posts: 14388

London, England, United Kingdom

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Aug 20 11 09:54 am Link

Photographer

Christopher Carter

Posts: 7777

Indianapolis, Indiana, US

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Aug 20 11 09:54 am Link

Photographer

ontherocks

Posts: 23575

Salem, Oregon, US

lol. i accidentally brushed a model's bottom while reaching to adjust a light. it was quite toned. fortunately we were all able to have a good laugh about it.

Mnemosyne Photography wrote:

Aug 20 11 09:56 am Link

Photographer

HDphotographer

Posts: 176

Murrieta, California, US

PANHEAD PHOTOGRAPHY  wrote:
You've worked with a MUA, stylistic, wardrobe designer
Really ? Come on you're jiviing us right? ....

+1

Aug 20 11 09:57 am Link

Model

BeatnikDiva

Posts: 14859

Fayetteville, Arkansas, US

I liken it to a visit to the doctor.  It's business.  If the photographer needs to adjust something on me, or whatever, it's no big deal, as long as he or she says that needs to happen.  I have never not had it be otherwise.

Aug 20 11 09:59 am Link

Photographer

Steve Korn

Posts: 390

Seattle, Washington, US

The great Alfred Stieglitz...I'll wait while you Google him.




Anyway, he always made a point of touching his subjects.  Removing a piece of lint, moving a strand of hair, because he thought it showed he is interested in making his subject look their best.  He cared.  There's a bit of good psychology there.

I always ask the model if I can touch before doing so and I say which part I plan to touch and why.  "Is it ok for me to touch your hair, you have a few loose strands?" "Is it ok for me to touch your shoulder so I can show you where I want it?" etc.

As for inappropriate touching, well, it's inappropriate and the model should react from there.  If you're not sure but suspect some touching is inappropriate,  excessive or unnecessary, speak up.  You don't have to fly off the handle, in a nice way, let whoever is touching you know your limits.  If it persists you should feel free to walk.

Aug 20 11 10:03 am Link

Photographer

Fiddlers Green Photo

Posts: 1350

Edmonds, Washington, US

My policy is to never ever work with a crazy person, if it can be helped.
Crazy people think that everyday kind of personal contact is some sort of sexual assault. It isn't.

The model culture as it is reflected on MM is pretty alien to the one I know.

Appropriate contact is appropriate and most mature adults understand this. I am just glad that most models are fairly sane happy people who are not waiting for a chance to display senseless histrionics.

Aug 20 11 10:04 am Link

Model

pamela mars

Posts: 1719

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

on professional sets, the crew is not allowed to touch the model/actor. mua or stylist only.
there are events where the photographer does come into contact with the talent, but it's usually by consent.

Aug 20 11 10:07 am Link

Photographer

BTHPhoto

Posts: 6985

Fairbanks, Alaska, US

If I see a need to touch a model, which rarely happens, I always tell them what I intend to do and why, and I expect they'll tolerate what's necessary to get the shot.  After all, that's what we're there for.

Aug 20 11 10:07 am Link

Photographer

Dawn Gray Photography

Posts: 96

Stuart, Florida, US

If I do not have an MUA on set I will do it myself. I always ask first and let them know exactly what I am doing and where I need to touch. If it is in a spot they can do themselves I ask them to do it.

Aug 20 11 10:11 am Link

Model

cameryn coxxx

Posts: 369

Delray Beach, Florida, US

liindsay ann wrote:
Doesn't matter, as long as it's professional and necessary..

Ditto

Aug 20 11 10:13 am Link

Photographer

Grafanovitchi

Posts: 573

San Marcos, California, US

Would the OP have a problem with a female photographer touching her?

Aug 20 11 10:20 am Link

Model

Sweet Surrender

Posts: 576

Nashville, Tennessee, US

Depends...if I'm nude, regardless I have my assistant with me and he or she will usually assist the photographer with that sort of thing, unless I know the photographer outside of shooting.  If it's still necessary (which in one case involving the placement of certain liquids/paints, it was), as long as the photographer asks before touching I'm fine as long as they have maintained a professional attitude the entire time.  For non nude shoots, again, as long as they maintain a professional attitude the whole time and ask my permission (say, position a prop, wig, wardrobe, foot, hand, whatever) I'm fine with it.

Aug 20 11 10:21 am Link