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P I X I E wrote: that works both ways. prepubescent boys have higher voices. and smaller genitals. you prefer that in a guy too? Dec 11 12 11:38 am Link Do what you want to do, feel like doing and let the other people work around that. Any debate further than that makes me raise questions sometimes, like how do people even come up with such thoughts. lol Waxing is the best method all around unless you got funds for laser and it does get less painful with each time you do it. Dec 11 12 11:47 am Link S W I N S K E Y wrote: Kens Lens wrote: I think everyone would be in agreement that a man that shaves his face, does appear younger...not prepubescent, but younger.. Good point Doug, I agree with you there. Dec 11 12 11:51 am Link Anna Adrielle wrote: Quite being all logical - this is a Model Mayhem forum there are rules about posting this kind of thing. Dec 11 12 12:01 pm Link I have never waxed. I prefer to be shaved. Sometimes I trim. I have tried a full on bush and that is, as someone else said, too much like 70s porn. My boyfriends have had preferences but they take what they get or they don't get it;) If a photographer has a clear preference I take that into consideration. Dec 11 12 12:02 pm Link Shaved.. All gone.. Anything more than that gets caugt in your teeth and feels rough on the tongue.. But for photography, a little hair keeps down the glare ha ha.. Dec 11 12 12:11 pm Link I shave entirely because... 1. My pubic hair is like cactus spikes. It goes through any kind of fabric and is just... not nice to touch. 2. My boyfriend prefers I shave. Dec 11 12 12:44 pm Link I'm a little older (Mid-40's) and I like a bit of a trimmed triangle above. Or, at least a little landing strip. Thanks. https://www.modelmayhem.com/portfolio/pic/24478052 18+ https://www.modelmayhem.com/contests/po … view/57994 18+ But, it's so much more about the shape and the curves below. The "frame" IS important, but not as important as the "picture". Each is beautiful in it's own way. IDiivil wrote: LOL! What's a flower without a few thorns? Dec 11 12 12:53 pm Link Megan Camille wrote: I personally shave my legs, arms (under and full), and personal areas. I also Nair or wax to be certain it is all gone. Dec 11 12 02:24 pm Link Megan Camille wrote: I had a bf that preferred no shaving, not even trimming for the same reason your bf mentioned, but I think there was a bit of "control freak" and "that way you can't sleep around" thing to it...he was insane, I have the restraining order to prove it. Haha. Dec 11 12 04:36 pm Link Anna Adrielle wrote: Then you're missing out on the whole package! LOL! Dec 11 12 04:55 pm Link Black Sunshine wrote: It's not my cup of furball-tea either! Dec 11 12 05:00 pm Link nicely trimmed hair is so sensual! also more photogenic! cheers ears lloyd. Dec 11 12 05:00 pm Link Shaved !!! I don't like to floss while I'm eating. Dec 11 12 05:02 pm Link +1 for the landing strip. Dec 11 12 05:05 pm Link Charger Photography wrote: LOL Dec 11 12 05:06 pm Link I do shave. For one I am not really hairy anyway, so nothing plus one bush would be a little odd. So I go bare, and my husband prefers it. Dec 11 12 05:08 pm Link I shave mine completely. I have never been a fan of body hair (on myself) - nothing makes me feel less attractive than when I have fur (cuz that's what it feels like to me!). I've never had a boyfriend or girllover who had a problem with my shaving, or request that I change that. I feel more sensual when my skin is smooth, and I think that shows. If I were to let hair grow out, I would not feel comfortable having anyone see me, let alone romp around in between the sheets or be immortalized with a camera. I've thought about waxing, but having to let it all grow out again in between waxes? I don't think I could do it. And my wallet agrees. ^_^ And in the years that I've been doing artnudes, I've only had one shutterbug request that I grow it out (and he wanted a full bush)! I declined the shoot! It's worked out for me so far. *shrugs* It's a personal preference. I do what makes me most comfortable, and people pick up on that vibe and don't complain. Dec 11 12 05:53 pm Link I used to have a "full bush" and I loved it. But on me a full bush is not that thick and the hair does not go up very far (just a couple inches, and stops well below my belly button). Since then I have gone back to shaving the labia and leaving the top natural, or for a while I had a heart on top or a wide strip/patch. Works out for my personal life and I get to have my pubic hair to play with (which I like). I did shave it all off for a while. I did not mind it as much as I thought I would. I kind of felt indifferent to it whereas I like having pubic hair. Several people told me I would book more work shaved but I did not. The only thing I did not like was that it did something to my body lines so that I looked a bit... chubby in my lower belly area at times and certain angles. Also... I was having to use a brand new razor each time and that stuff grows fast on me, so it was a razor a week and I would have stubble for about half that time, plus some razor burn and some bleeding occasionally (little spots of it). If I know I have an art type shoot coming up, or sometimes for self portraits, I will actually let the hair grow on the labia as well for a few days and it blends a bit better than the fully shaved labia. Yes... this is a science to me ^_~ Dec 11 12 06:08 pm Link This is part of the information that I provide to models in advance of artistic nude shoots: "If you don't have a Brazilian bikini wax, your pubic area should be neatly trimmed with hair not extending out toward your thighs or up toward your navel." I definitely prefer bare, waxed instead of shaved. Trimmed hair that closely resembles the natural lines is OK, but I think the landing strip looks kind of silly. Dec 11 12 06:41 pm Link Personally, I like it every which way so I'm easy to to please - well maybe not that easy..... but at least as far as this decision goes I'm eclectic..... for photographic art (where it is an aesthetic choice of mine) and fashion work (where I may not want to show too much detail through sheer knickers) my preference is for very nicely groomed..... Dec 11 12 06:52 pm Link Kens Lens wrote: Totally agree at all points. I love it when my wife is smooth; sometimes I shave her and at other times, she goes to a pro and waxes. For myself I stick to shaving. TMI? Dec 11 12 06:53 pm Link In my opinion, natural body hair (on both males and females) that is neatly trimmed, is most attractive. But then again, I find shaving very unpleasant, so maybe I'm biased. Dec 11 12 07:17 pm Link I go half and half- I shave my legs, between my legs and under my arms- but keep my full bush of awesomeness. :Borat: Dec 11 12 07:20 pm Link Nothing like a freshly smoothed surface. Dec 11 12 08:00 pm Link Megan Camille wrote: I don't understand him. Dec 11 12 08:03 pm Link No hair is my preference. Dec 11 12 08:06 pm Link I like it all... all except stubble. it burns my face! So grow it... shave it... wax it... zap it... trim it... it all works for me! My wife currently goes with the grown in trimmed look. Dec 11 12 08:14 pm Link Megan Camille wrote: I like shaven Dec 11 12 08:18 pm Link Personally.. I shave myself clean. Why? Because I hate hair down there. Emphasis on "I".. I say.. Stop giving 2 fucks about him and what he thinks and let HIM start going through all kinds of bull shit to please you instead. Nuff said There's my 2 sense. Carry on :p Dec 11 12 08:26 pm Link Megan Camille wrote: it's YOUR body - what do YOU say? Dec 11 12 08:35 pm Link Megan Camille wrote: Personally, I'm totally with your boyfriend. To each his/her own but for me I'd never make a good pedophile. I prefer my partners and llamas with at least some hair. Make's them look mature. Just saying. Dec 11 12 08:37 pm Link Women letting men dictate their trim jobs? Say it isn't so... Poon is poon, I'll enjoy my lady no matter the haircut. If you've got a man who is finnicky about this, he just doesn't like pussy enough. That's it. He's whiney. What else doesn't he like? Uh huh, thought so. Find a man that loves your pussy, it's important ladies. Don't settle for that bullshit. DTMFA! Dec 12 12 12:01 am Link Matt Forma wrote: It works both ways . I love my partner, that doesn't mean I don't have certain preferences regarding his look downunder. Would I break up with him if he didn't take my preference into consideration? ofcourse not. Do I prefer it and do I find him even more attractive when he does? Yes. Dec 12 12 12:50 am Link Best - neatly trimmed Map of Tasmania 2nd best - forest demolished by lasers 2nd worst - razor burn or feminine 5 o'clock shadow Worst - landing strips, because they look too much like Adolf Hitler's facial decoration! Dec 12 12 07:39 am Link It's a bit freaky...men that will confuse their women with children if they're fully shaven, I'm quite sure there's many other things that set aside a woman from a child. My psych degree is trying to break loose here, and Freud is definitely spinning in his grave, lol. Anywho...it's your vjj, do with it what YOU please. Bf doesn't like your choice, then ask him to WAX his pubic area for you, and let's see how willing he is to appease you. Dec 12 12 07:57 am Link Jojo West wrote: +1000 Dec 12 12 08:58 am Link my man doesn't like hair at all, i shave Dec 12 12 09:07 am Link Matt Forma wrote: This is pretty much my opinion too. wrote: I just had to re-quote this, because it is so awesome. Dec 12 12 09:10 am Link What you want would seem to be the important thing. Dec 12 12 09:13 am Link |