Forums > Model Colloquy > MODELS, are you lurking & not postin here? WHY?

Photographer

Drew Smith Photography

Posts: 5214

Nottingham, England, United Kingdom

ASYLUM - Photo wrote:
I'm of the opinion that the specific forums should be limited to the profile types. So, models only posting in the model forum, but still have it readable by members. That way Photographers can *learn* from model discussions, and vice versa. Keep General Industry for topics that pertain to all profile types.

I'd love to see that implemented - if only for a few weeks. smile

Now I accept that photographers love posting everywhere and will jump right in to a model's post in the model forum (I too am guilty of this on occasion) but....

.... it cracks me up when models post something in there that really only should be answered by other models but about 5 posts down there's the first (male) photographer giving his advice on HOW TO DEAL WITH PERIOD PAINS. smile

Edit: TOTP Ma  jen

Jul 27 13 01:12 am Link

Photographer

Revenge Photography

Posts: 1905

Horsham, Victoria, Australia

Nick record wrote:

Same. Usually when I start a thread I don't get a reply for a few hours and no more than 3 people comment in it but others start threads and they get pages of replies.....

Yes, happens all the time smile

What you need to do is start a thread about escorts, creepy photographers or flakey models. Its pretty much guaranteed to bring out all the regular combatants, run hot for a week with multiple briggings and eventually get locked.

You don't even have to post a reply to anyone, the majority will be so involved in their personal crusade they won't notice. Just sit back and watch the fun.

Jul 27 13 02:11 am Link

Photographer

Revenge Photography

Posts: 1905

Horsham, Victoria, Australia

Drew Smith Photography wrote:
.... it cracks me up when models post something in there that really only should be answered by other models but about 5 posts down there's the first (male) photographer giving his advice on HOW TO DEAL WITH PERIOD PAINS. smile

In fairness, I'd like to point out that over the years I suffered far more than my wife did at the time of the month. She made sure of it smile

Jul 27 13 02:14 am Link

Photographer

Revenge Photography

Posts: 1905

Horsham, Victoria, Australia

Theresa Manchester wrote:
Been on here since 2007 and only 80 some posts. Apparently my portfolio is well circulated "enough" lol but you're totally right, now I'm trying to get more exposure for when I hit the road again. smile Taking my first "break" since being basically a full time traveler for 3 years!! Plenty of time to promote, am i right?

Select Models wrote:
You're RIGHT... and guess what?... you've been here SIX years and this is the first time I've ever viewed your MM port... guess it pays to post in forums huh... wink... great work by the way... borat

I looked too after Select Models posted .... so thats 2 of us.

Love your sleeve by the way smile

Jul 27 13 02:18 am Link

Photographer

Herman Surkis

Posts: 10856

Victoria, British Columbia, Canada

Laura UnBound wrote:

lol





More people on MM dont use the forums than do. By posting here youre only advertising to people who happen to use the forums. Very very very very VERY FEW of my shoots have been booked because someone saw me posting something here, and I post a lot.




I dont use the forums to get noticed, I use them to dick around and occasionally share/gain some useful info.

I post in here and general a lot less these days because most people arent interested in actually getting their questions answered.

+1

Jul 27 13 02:55 am Link

Photographer

Herman Surkis

Posts: 10856

Victoria, British Columbia, Canada

Select Models wrote:

Actually this is NOT incorrect.  Over a dozen of the bashers currently in the brig are there for crass, insulting, rude and boorish behavior.  Checkit out and see for yourself... wink

https://www.modelmayhem.com/probationlog.php

What am I doing wrong?
I have never been brigged, got a warning once.
Some of my fav. posters are getting brigged left right and centre.

Back to the main topic.
Some of the newb bashing would be reduced if they were made to read some of the info. that is already posted, specifically for them. (Model and Photographer)
Those who say that photographers are *always* coming in here and bashing models, are full of it. And likewise those who say it does not happen are equally full of it.
It happens, just not rampant.

And when models and photographers complain about xyz, and when someone comes in to explain why xyz is happening, then a lot of noses get out of joint and a shit storm happens.

Models complain about GWC's swarming over them and making them uncomfortable.
Photographer starts a thread trying to point out what they (general they) might be doing wrong that attracts unwanted attention. The photographer gets ripped a new one.

Photographers complains about all the flakes etc. Someone starts a thread pointing out the errors that may be creating the situation. Guess what happens?
Yep, they get ripped a new one.

So basically the safest procedure is to not try to help anybody. Unsolicited critique being a no-no I can see. But it appears that unsolicited help/advice is also a no-no.

Jul 27 13 03:29 am Link

Photographer

Herman Surkis

Posts: 10856

Victoria, British Columbia, Canada

VikyL wrote:
Here's an excellent example: https://www.modelmayhem.com/po.php?thre … 719&page=1

3 pages and counting of photographers telling a model she is being too sensitive for being offended about another photographer using a racist term.  Most admit they are unfamiliar with the term, but instead of taking 2 seconds to google (1st hit wikipedia, yup it's racist!), they just decided they knew better.

Perhaps a better example might be a good choice..
Many of those telling her she was too sensitive were MODELS. I wonder how that little fact got missed?
And many pointed out that the term although it could be strictly defined as racist, was not likely used in a racist manner.
Perhaps others should also look at the link and make up there own minds.
To me, insensitive yes, racist no.

Jul 27 13 03:43 am Link

Model

Victoria Elle

Posts: 688

New York, New York, US

Herman Surkis wrote:

Perhaps a better example might be a good choice..
Many of those telling her she was too sensitive were MODELS. I wonder how that little fact got missed?
And many pointed out that the term although it could be strictly defined as racist, was not likely used in a racist manner.
Perhaps others should also look at the link and make up there own minds.
To me, insensitive yes, racist no.

At the time of my post: 3 models in 3 pages of comments.  3.  You consider 3 many?  Okay.

Jul 27 13 08:28 am Link

Model

90s sub pop records

Posts: 609

Livermore, California, US

VikyL wrote:

At the time of my post: 3 models in 3 pages of comments.  3.  You consider 3 many?  Okay.

It was mainly just photographers telling me I'm too insensitive for the first 2 pages.
I personally don't see how I'm sensitive. Sensitive to racial slurs, yes.

Jul 27 13 10:54 am Link

Photographer

Worlds Of Water

Posts: 37732

Rancho Cucamonga, California, US

Herman Surkis wrote:
But it appears that unsolicited help/advice is also a no-no.

If you think your advice could 'raise some eyebrows and possess the potential to come off as alittle misguided'... sent that person a PM... wink

Jul 27 13 11:21 am Link

Model

umami___

Posts: 1528

Tacoma, Washington, US

A post about why newbies don't want to post is full of reasons why newbies don't want to post.

OP asks for reasons why people may not want to post or continue to post, people reply with honest answers, OP argues their reasons.

Case in point.

Jul 27 13 05:43 pm Link

Model

V Laroche

Posts: 2746

Khowmeyn, Markazī, Iran

I'm sure the models who could benefit this are totally reading the forums right now. Maybe you should take a chill pill and concentrate on your OWN business.

Jul 27 13 06:37 pm Link

Photographer

Christopher Carter

Posts: 7777

Indianapolis, Indiana, US

Select Models wrote:
ATTENTION MODELS!... have you just been lurking out there and not participating in this forum?... and if so... WHY?  Do you not realize just how much more exposure your MM port and bio page can receive if you just jump in here (or on any other forum) once in awhile and say HI?

I know we'll see loads of 'the regulars' posting their reasons why the newbies or some of the 'long timers' don't or won't participate... and I'd like to hear those reasons... BUT... I'm rolling out the red carpet for first time model posters here.  If you've never chimed in before... LET'S HEAR FROM YA!  Hoping to see some shiney new faces here on this thread!... borat

Judging by the amount of uppity rants from photographers in the model forum, I'm not surprised they're only lurking. If you see sharks in a feeding frenzy in the ocean, why would you go for a swim because the water's nice?

Jul 28 13 01:12 am Link

Photographer

Worlds Of Water

Posts: 37732

Rancho Cucamonga, California, US

Mnemosyne Photography wrote:
Judging by the amount of uppity rants from photographers in the model forum, I'm not surprised they're only lurking. If you see sharks in a feeding frenzy in the ocean, why would you go for a swim because the water's nice?

Oh no doubt... 'uppity rants from photographers'... 'sharks on a feeding frenzy'... huge similarity fur sure huh... lol... paleeeeeeeeeze... roll  One can be taken with a grain of salt... the other is a death sentence... wink

Jul 28 13 01:17 am Link

Model

RAHAT ALI SHAH

Posts: 2

Birmingham, England, United Kingdom

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Jul 28 13 02:00 am Link

Photographer

Amul La La

Posts: 885

London, England, United Kingdom

Seriously...

Jul 28 13 02:02 am Link

Model

RAHAT ALI SHAH

Posts: 2

Birmingham, England, United Kingdom

Welcome to our creative world....Hi everyone...

Jul 28 13 02:06 am Link

Photographer

Herman Surkis

Posts: 10856

Victoria, British Columbia, Canada

Select Models wrote:

If you think your advice could 'raise some eyebrows and possess the potential to come off as alittle misguided'... sent that person a PM... wink

Been there, done that.

However I never think my advice could come off as misguided, or I would not give it. I, as everyone else, have been wrong at times.

But even advice that is not aimed at any one person gets shot down.

And it also happens in the photography forum. Only less so, since many of the threads are of a technical nature. However if you want to have fun, start a Nikon vs Canon thread. Or artificial vs available light, or what the terms even mean.

Jul 28 13 03:42 am Link

Photographer

Herman Surkis

Posts: 10856

Victoria, British Columbia, Canada

Jolly Rauncher wrote:
A post about why newbies don't want to post is full of reasons why newbies don't want to post.

OP asks for reasons why people may not want to post or continue to post, people reply with honest answers, OP argues their reasons.

Case in point.

+1

Jul 28 13 03:43 am Link

Photographer

LA StarShooter

Posts: 2731

Los Angeles, California, US

Your thread is good for you in that it promotes you and you can talk about cruises. You advocate using the forums so a model can promote herself or himself but quite a few of the photograpers who visit the forums don't like to pay models at all and can be very vocal about it. So, imagine, you're a model and you participate in a forum and you try and promote yourself by advocating that one should use a professional model's services. If you make a mistake you will feel scorned. Photographers can be brutal with other photographer's. They often don't pull punches with models. I can be tough. And photographers can be quick to mock.  Here, as models have informed you photographers do start threads complaining about models not doing this or that or not having this or that in their portfolio.

I enjoy the following forums: photography talk, the retouching forum, critique, and general industry. I sometimes read the Makeup forum. I consider Model colloquoy really for models. Most of the times they want questions answered by other models.

As for promoting myself: my interests are commercial and fashion. You don't really as photographer have many opportunities to score gigs in that field here, but facebook, wow!

I think you'll find most models prefer to make an announcement on MM rather than post in the forums when it comes to self-promotion but above all prefer facebook for exposure. I could be wrong but one model I know who I worked with, when I was building my portfolio,  I think has spent about a half hour per day acquiring friends on facebook.

Jul 28 13 04:25 am Link

Model

Amber West

Posts: 299

Dumfries, Scotland, United Kingdom

I don't post much (been here for quite a few years) as other for the LOLs, I don't like Internet forums and don't feel that confident expressing myself on them.

I'm also just very busy so simply don't have time. I'd rather devote myself to Twitter, Tumblr and my site when it comes to social networking.

Also, I do believe the majority of the contributors to MM forums are not UK based so that is unlikely to help me in regards to booking shoots.

Jul 28 13 04:38 am Link

Model

BlackSilkMagick

Posts: 200

California, Maryland, US

Uncomfortable mostly for reasons stated above and others even began rumors simply for attempting to boost a few sad models' confidence.

Jul 28 13 04:50 am Link

Model

AnnAdB

Posts: 202

Amsterdam, Noord-Holland, Netherlands

I only answer when I have actually something to say, or when I would like critique. Some still need to learn that for themselves.

Jul 28 13 06:01 am Link

Model

P I X I E

Posts: 35440

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

Cool story bro.

Jul 28 13 08:56 am Link

Photographer

Worlds Of Water

Posts: 37732

Rancho Cucamonga, California, US

Amber West wrote:
Also, I do believe the majority of the contributors to MM forums are not UK based so that is unlikely to help me in regards to booking shoots.

This is true as most forum posters are stateside... BUT... if you checkout the 'Outside US' section of the 'Events Forum' you'll find a fair amount of events transpiring in the UK... borat

For the record... checked out your port... something I wouldn't have seen had you not posted here... nice stuff... like the 'behind the scenes shot' with the assistant holding the 'California Sunbounce'... a reflector I also use... borat

Jul 28 13 09:28 am Link

Photographer

Herman Surkis

Posts: 10856

Victoria, British Columbia, Canada

AnnemiekdenB wrote:
I only answer when I have actually something to say, or when I would like critique. Some still need to learn that for themselves.

Holy crap!!!

You are cool!

Jul 28 13 12:10 pm Link

Photographer

Worlds Of Water

Posts: 37732

Rancho Cucamonga, California, US

Herman Surkis wrote:

Holy crap!!!

You are cool!

+1... wink

Jul 28 13 01:38 pm Link

Model

K Joan

Posts: 220

Orlando, Florida, US

VikyL wrote:
I post infrequently because a lot of the threads just devolve into the same handful of photographers bashing models (whom they always define only as young women) in one way or another and there's very little point in trying to get a word in between their diatribes.

+1

I don't post here very often because there seem to be more photographers posting in the modeling forum than models. If a question pertains to a photographer, makeup artist, stylist, and so on I completely understand wanting to jump in to give perspective. However, I've noticed many times that isn't the case. Also, there have been multiple times where OPs have specifically asked for models opinion on a subject and gotten the exact opposite response within the first page of comments.

Jul 30 13 09:59 am Link

Model

Olivia Martin

Posts: 227

Mount Dora, Florida, US

Good Egg Productions wrote:
And if you DO post, be sure to accompany it with a large photo every time.  JUST wide enough to not mess up MM's forum alignment, but big and colorful.  Even if it only vaguely has anything to do with the forum topic.

I hear it really works.

I know exactly what you are talking about.  hehe

Jul 30 13 10:20 am Link

Photographer

Risen Phoenix Photo

Posts: 3779

Minneapolis, Minnesota, US

Herman Surkis wrote:

Perhaps a better example might be a good choice..
Many of those telling her she was too sensitive were MODELS. I wonder how that little fact got missed?
And many pointed out that the term although it could be strictly defined as racist, was not likely used in a racist manner.
Perhaps others should also look at the link and make up there own minds.
To me, insensitive yes, racist no.

IDK... As an Italian  Chef Boyardee is a racist image .  Its so easy to get offended in this politically correct nation we live in .... What ever happened to "sticks and stone.........."

Jul 30 13 10:27 am Link

Photographer

Risen Phoenix Photo

Posts: 3779

Minneapolis, Minnesota, US

WithAmour  wrote:

+1

I don't post here very often because there seem to be more photographers posting in the modeling forum than models. If a question pertains to a photographer, makeup artist, stylist, and so on I completely understand wanting to jump in to give perspective. However, I've noticed many times that isn't the case. Also, there have been multiple times where OPs have specifically asked for models opinion on a subject and gotten the exact opposite response within the first page of comments.

True that....but so what?  I like hearing all perspectives especially from models in the photographers forum smile

Jul 30 13 10:29 am Link

Model

Olivia Martin

Posts: 227

Mount Dora, Florida, US

I have to again say.  Model Mahem and the professionals I have met have been wonderful to me.  I have learned so much and continue to have great experiences building my portfolio. 

As far as not posting as much.  I have tended to sit back and watch and learn from others before stepping my big mouth into subject matters that I know little about. 

Live and Learn - Now... GO LOOK AT MY PICS DANG IT ALL and teach me how to do it better!  big_smile

http://www.facebook.com/OliviaAshtonModel?ref=hl - "Like" me and I will "like" yours.

Jul 30 13 10:31 am Link

Photographer

PhotographybyT

Posts: 7947

Monterey, California, US

Olivia Ashton wrote:
...Now... GO LOOK AT MY PICS DANG IT ALL ....

I just did - cute dimples! tongue

Jul 30 13 01:50 pm Link

Model

Janelle Kane

Posts: 208

Los Angeles, California, US

WithAmour  wrote:

+1

I don't post here very often because there seem to be more photographers posting in the modeling forum than models. If a question pertains to a photographer, makeup artist, stylist, and so on I completely understand wanting to jump in to give perspective. However, I've noticed many times that isn't the case. Also, there have been multiple times where OPs have specifically asked for models opinion on a subject and gotten the exact opposite response within the first page of comments.

+2

Jul 30 13 02:40 pm Link

Model

Layla_B

Posts: 411

Eindhoven, Noord-Brabant, Netherlands

For me, I'm also more of a reader than writer on the forums. I think mainly because I feel I have nothing to add to the conversation. Or maybe 'afraid' I can't express myself the right way since English is not my motherlanguage.
As for 'publicity'; I don' think it the benefits for me would reach beyond more pageviews and an occasional comment or tag if I'm lucky. Because most of the people here in the forums are from other continents and countries.
The Dutch people are a bit underrepresented here wink tongue

Jul 30 13 03:09 pm Link

Model

Skyler Bleu

Posts: 527

San Jose, California, US

Only a tiny bit of experience with the lurking scenario:)

Aug 08 13 09:56 pm Link

Photographer

kevin bellanger

Posts: 465

Albany, New York, US

Select Models wrote:
ATTENTION MODELS!... have you just been lurking out there and not participating in this forum?... and if so... WHY?  Do you not realize just how much more exposure your MM port and bio page can receive if you just jump in here (or on any other forum) once in awhile and say HI?

I know we'll see loads of 'the regulars' posting their reasons why the newbies or some of the 'long timers' don't or won't participate... and I'd like to hear those reasons... BUT... I'm rolling out the red carpet for first time model posters here.  If you've never chimed in before... LET'S HEAR FROM YA!  Hoping to see some shiney new faces here on this thread!... borat

......ghost protocol

Aug 08 13 09:59 pm Link

Model

Danish delight

Posts: 691

Marina del Rey, California, US

sometimes its better to just " shut up"

Ive learned that wink

Aug 08 13 10:06 pm Link

Photographer

Untitled Photographer

Posts: 1227

Dallas, Texas, US

Jolly Rauncher wrote:
A post about why newbies don't want to post is full of reasons why newbies don't want to post.

OP asks for reasons why people may not want to post or continue to post, people reply with honest answers, OP argues their reasons.

Case in point.

This. And people wonder why so many models want to bring an escort.

Aug 09 13 04:16 pm Link

Photographer

Chicchowmein

Posts: 14585

Palm Beach, Florida, US

VikyL wrote:
I post infrequently because a lot of the threads just devolve into the same handful of photographers bashing models (whom they always define only as young women) in one way or another and there's very little point in trying to get a word in between their diatribes.

You are gorgeous

Great portfolio.

Aug 11 13 03:13 am Link