Forums > Photography Talk > Do you have to like the models you photograph?

Photographer

Derek Ridgers

Posts: 1625

London, England, United Kingdom

I photographed a model last week who had the strangest personality.

She was completely wrapped up in herself and it was almost like I was working for her rather than vice-versa. 

Her attitude towards me throughout was that she was taking a step down working with me.

She insisted on wearing a very bad and very obvious wig which looked totally unnatural and she had to keep pushing into place.

She spoke constantly about these other photographers and how much she knew about photography herself.

One of the last things she said to me was (in precis) I’ve only given you 50%, you don’t get 100% out of me until we’ve worked together a lot more.

The funny thing is, she was a fantastic model. 

She’s got one of the best portfolios I’ve ever seen, she has worked with a lot of extremely good photographers and there is a real consistency there - which suggests to me that the common denominator there is her.

I can honestly say I learnt a lot.  What decent photographer doesn't learn from working with a model that’s worked with great photographers?

But… I didn’t like her at all and I don’t think she liked me much.

Is it necessary to like the models you shoot? 

I don’t think so. 

I’d shoot this one again in a heartbeat.


n.b. She’s not on Model Mayhem.

Jul 26 15 01:22 am Link

Photographer

Herman Surkis

Posts: 10856

Victoria, British Columbia, Canada

Nope.

But you have to like working with them.

Jul 26 15 02:13 am Link

Photographer

Jerry Nemeth

Posts: 33355

Dearborn, Michigan, US

It is easier for me to shoot with a model that I like.

Jul 26 15 03:01 am Link

Photographer

Frozen Moments

Posts: 1680

San Antonio, Texas, US

I guess I could set my butt hurt aside after being told I only got 50%, and being looked down upon, if I managed to get some great images.

Liking the model helps me with my comfort level, which I believe can only help with the results.

Jul 26 15 04:48 am Link

Photographer

Mark Salo

Posts: 11732

Olney, Maryland, US

I don't have to like the model but I can't work with someone whom I dislike.  It's fun to work with someone who is pleasant but respectful and business-like can work.

Her attitude and the wig by themselves are bad enough but the 50% thing is totally unacceptable.  I'm too old and I respect myself too much to put up with such nonsense.

Jul 26 15 05:33 am Link

Photographer

martin b

Posts: 2770

Manila, National Capital Region, Philippines

There were only a few I didn't like.  When I would assist another photographer, many of the models pretty much wouldn't even bother talking to me.  When I became my own photographer i think I had such low expectations of models I would be surprised if there was someone I liked.  Saying that, I rarely found one I didn't like.

Jul 26 15 05:35 am Link

Photographer

JQuest

Posts: 2460

Syracuse, New York, US

Not if I'm being paid to do it, however if it's for personal portfolio or projects then yes, I wouldn't shoot a model I didn't enjoy working with.

Jul 26 15 05:36 am Link

Photographer

Laura Elizabeth Photo

Posts: 2253

Rochester, New York, US

It really depends for me but sometimes a bad attitude can throw me off or make me rush through things.  I've had some shoots with people I really didn't mesh well with that went amazing because everyone was still pulling their weight and committed to getting good photos and we were on the same page about what we wanted.  I've had other shoots with people who will act like the photoshoot is a total inconvenience to them and they don't even wanna be there and that's really what I have trouble dealing with because I don't like feeling like I'm annoying people so I don't push them as hard to get a good photo.

Jul 26 15 06:55 am Link

Photographer

GER Photography

Posts: 8463

Imperial, California, US

Like them, no. Be attracted to them/intrigued by their look, yes.

Jul 26 15 07:25 am Link

Photographer

Jerry Nemeth

Posts: 33355

Dearborn, Michigan, US

GER Photography wrote:
Like them, no. Be attracted to them/intrigued by their look, yes.

I am attracted to a model by both her look and personality.

Jul 26 15 07:29 am Link

Photographer

Looknsee Photography

Posts: 26342

Portland, Oregon, US

At my age, I'm older than most model's parents, and in some cases, I'm as old as their grandparents -- we are not likely to become fast friends who hang out on the weekends.  However, my goal for every photo session is that at the end of the session, all participants leave feeling respected & appreciated -- nothing else matters to me.  If the pictures suck, I'm still happy when/if we treat each other well.

To be honest, I sometimes have more difficulty working with models I really, really like.  I need a little distance.

Jul 26 15 08:19 am Link

Model

Shei P

Posts: 540

Brooklyn, New York, US

Derek Ridgers wrote:
I photographed a model last week who had the strangest personality.

She was completely wrapped up in herself and it was almost like I was working for her rather than vice-versa. 

Her attitude towards me throughout was that she was taking a step down working with me.

She insisted on wearing a very bad and very obvious wig which looked totally unnatural and she had to keep pushing into place.

She spoke constantly about these other photographers and how much she knew about photography herself.

One of the last things she said to me was (in precis) I’ve only given you 50%, you don’t get 100% out of me until we’ve worked together a lot more.

The funny thing is, she was a fantastic model. 

She’s got one of the best portfolios I’ve ever seen, she has worked with a lot of extremely good photographers and there is a real consistency there - which suggests to me that the common denominator there is her.

I can honestly say I learnt a lot.  What decent photographer doesn't learn from working with a model that’s worked with great photographers?

But… I didn’t like her at all and I don’t think she liked me much.

Is it necessary to like the models you shoot? 

I don’t think so. 

I’d shoot this one again in a heartbeat.


n.b. She’s not on Model Mayhem.

Now you know how us models feel when dealing with the all too many pretentious, arrogant photographers.

https://instagram.com/shei_p/

Jul 26 15 08:34 am Link

Photographer

Laubenheimer

Posts: 9317

New York, New York, US

Derek Ridgers wrote:
I photographed a model last week who had the strangest personality.

She was completely wrapped up in herself and it was almost like I was working for her rather than vice-versa. 

Her attitude towards me throughout was that she was taking a step down working with me.

She insisted on wearing a very bad and very obvious wig which looked totally unnatural and she had to keep pushing into place.

She spoke constantly about these other photographers and how much she knew about photography herself.

One of the last things she said to me was (in precis) I’ve only given you 50%, you don’t get 100% out of me until we’ve worked together a lot more.

The funny thing is, she was a fantastic model. 

She’s got one of the best portfolios I’ve ever seen, she has worked with a lot of extremely good photographers and there is a real consistency there - which suggests to me that the common denominator there is her.

I can honestly say I learnt a lot.  What decent photographer doesn't learn from working with a model that’s worked with great photographers?

But… I didn’t like her at all and I don’t think she liked me much.

Is it necessary to like the models you shoot? 

I don’t think so. 

I’d shoot this one again in a heartbeat.


n.b. She’s not on Model Mayhem.

what type of photos were these?

Jul 26 15 08:38 am Link

Photographer

Derek Ridgers

Posts: 1625

London, England, United Kingdom

Mark Laubenheimer wrote:
what type of photos were these?

The shoot was of the genre some describe - including my model - as art nude.

She also does 'erotic' but it was made quite clear that that option was reserved for photographers she has a bit more respect for.

This is fair enough IMHO. 

I probably got what I deserved, maybe more.

Jul 26 15 09:42 am Link

Photographer

Peter House

Posts: 888

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

Chemistry is great, but at the bare minimum some mutual respect is needed.

I've worked with models where we just click and work in sync. Other times, not so much. But there is always a professional respect and we both do our best to churn out respectable results, as professionals.

As soon as I get a diva attitude....I'm done. Don't care how great the model is. Had one recently in fact. She was a perfect fit for a campaign but right off the bat she was making demands and suggestions such that I knew she would not be pleasant to work with. Sadly, this cost her the campaign.

Jul 26 15 09:43 am Link

Photographer

Derek Ridgers

Posts: 1625

London, England, United Kingdom

Shei  P wrote:
Now you know how us models feel when dealing with the all too many pretentious, arrogant photographers.
https://instagram.com/shei_p/

Not really, no. 

In 40 years I’ve shot a lot of models/subjects/people and one is always liable to have to deal with arrogance and pretention, that’s just part of the job.

But a model that knowingly holds so much back and yet still, with all that, manages to do a great job is a new one on me.

Hence my contemplation expressed here.

Jul 26 15 09:52 am Link

Model

Isis22

Posts: 3557

Muncie, Indiana, US

Derek Ridgers wrote:

Not really, no. 

In 40 years I’ve shot a lot of models/subjects/people and one is always liable to have to deal with arrogance and pretention, that’s just part of the job.

But a model that knowingly holds so much back and yet still, with all that, manages to do a great job is a new one on me.

Hence my contemplation expressed here.

Just because she said she gave just 50% doesn't make it so. Just a thought.

Jul 26 15 10:17 am Link

Photographer

Vector One Photography

Posts: 3722

Fort Lauderdale, Florida, US

Depends on how mature you are..... and how professional you are.  Personally I've always thought that liking a model and the model liking you makes the shoot easier and the results better. But... if she's such a great model and the results are more than you could have hoped for, then you have to decide if you're going to be grown up, suck it up and plow through to get the shots, that would be the mature and professional thing to do. 

Maybe I'm wrong, maybe you have to be a whore for the pictures.  You smile at them, kiss their ass, put up with their BS just to get what you want. 

Either way, you decide if the trauma and drama is worth it. Personally, I'd do almost anything to get the photo I want, until a certain point, then I just explode.

Jul 26 15 10:36 am Link

Photographer

ontherocks

Posts: 23575

Salem, Oregon, US

i think some people would be a lot more likable if they kept their mouths shut!

if the goal is to make good pictures then it sounds like you achieved that goal. mission accomplished.

but i imagine if you had to work with that person every day you might want to whack them with a tripod.

Jul 26 15 11:44 am Link

Photographer

J O H N A L L A N

Posts: 12221

Los Angeles, California, US

There's a difference between personally liking another and them being sufficiently professional to get the job done in a pleasant way.
However, it's very rare that I haven't liked a model, as virtually all the models I've worked with have been a real joy and really personable and nice. May have something to do with how I source models however.

Jul 26 15 11:56 am Link

Photographer

Shadow Dancer

Posts: 9781

Bellingham, Washington, US

The 50% comment can either be off-putting or an opportunity.

If you shoot again tell her if she is only bringing 50% then you will only pay half her fee.

I would say that to a mechanic, painter, dentist, etc.

Except the truth is I would never hire them if they admitted something like that.

If she is not going to bring it, neither will I. Everybody has better things to do.

Deliver the goods, bill accordingly.

Jul 26 15 12:28 pm Link

Photographer

Mark Salo

Posts: 11732

Olney, Maryland, US

Derek Ridgers wrote:
One of the last things she said to me was (in precis) I’ve only given you 50%, you don’t get 100% out of me until we’ve worked together a lot more.

I hope that you gave her only 50% of her fee.

Jul 26 15 12:50 pm Link

Photographer

Top Gun Digital

Posts: 1528

Las Vegas, Nevada, US

Although it's not necessary, I think it's helpful if you have some sort of rapport with the model.  When both parties are comfortable it's more likely you'll get good images. 

I guess it's a question of how much drama you're willing to endure in your quest for good images.  If I think a model is weird I won't work with her again.  There are plenty of highly skilled, down to earth professional models out there so there is no point in dealing with weirdos.  Her comment about only giving 50% would really put me off from working with her again.

Jul 26 15 01:04 pm Link

Photographer

Ken Marcus Studios

Posts: 9421

Las Vegas, Nevada, US

I spent three weeks in the desert shooting a model for playboy, who was a foul-mouthed bigoted, angry young woman.

My job was to be there and create photos . . . it's not a popularity contest . . . nobody looking at the photos will ever know what an uncomfortable time my crew had in dealing with her.

I was sent to take photos suitable for publishing . . . and thats exactly what we did.

Nothing more, nothing less . . . .

If you get too rapped up in things, and take other peoples bullshit to heart, you have only yourself to blame for your misery.

KM

Jul 26 15 01:59 pm Link

Photographer

KungPaoChic

Posts: 4221

West Palm Beach, Florida, US

No but I usually do.

If I was just shooting for my book or for an editorial I probably would not book someone I did not like for a second time if I did not like working with them.

I think I have only actively disliked a few clients (two were not models), I felt onemodel just was kind of cocky without reason and we just did not gel and then I had a model steal wardrobe.

That was a drag. But most models I have worked with have been total sweethearts.

Jul 26 15 02:04 pm Link

Photographer

Blonde Pony Photography

Posts: 203

Los Angeles, California, US

While I think it's better, in general, if you do like the model, I also think it depends on the situation. As Ken Marcus put so succinctly, if you are there for a job, then it shouldn't really make a difference. In my case, where I am shooting strictly for my enjoyment and hopefully for something both of us can use in our portfolios, then it makes a bit more of a difference if I don't like the model. If I don't like them, it usually means that I didn't enjoy the experience, in which case, I would not shoot with that model again. Part of me liking them would be a reflection of how much or little I enjoyed the experience as a whole.

Jul 26 15 02:24 pm Link

Photographer

Carle Photography

Posts: 9271

Oakland, California, US

If I'm collaborating with friends, then yes I enjoy working with them.
I also enjoy many of my paying clients.
At the end of the day, I have a job to do & rent to pay.

I care more about paying my bills then being friends with a collaborator.
It is a job, I know that acting like we all want to go out and do this again tomorrow is part of the job.

I don't need to like you to be able to model for you, or photograph you.
I just need to get the shot done so I can get paid.

Jul 26 15 03:39 pm Link

Photographer

Carle Photography

Posts: 9271

Oakland, California, US

Blonde Pony Photography wrote:
While I think it's better, in general, if you do like the model, I also think it depends on the situation. As Ken Marcus put so succinctly, if you are there for a job, then it shouldn't really make a difference. In my case, where I am shooting strictly for my enjoyment and hopefully for something both of us can use in our portfolios, then it makes a bit more of a difference if I don't like the model. If I don't like them, it usually means that I didn't enjoy the experience, in which case, I would not shoot with that model again. Part of me liking them would be a reflection of how much or little I enjoyed the experience as a whole.

Models KNOW this, this is why GREAT models are able to turn on the charm and let you think we love working with you.
WE can pretty much get along with anyone & their half crackled ideas for an afternoon.

Jul 26 15 03:41 pm Link

Photographer

Herman Surkis

Posts: 10856

Victoria, British Columbia, Canada

Looknsee Photography wrote:
At my age, I'm older than most model's parents, and in some cases, I'm as old as their grandparents -- we are not likely to become fast friends who hang out on the weekends.  However, my goal for every photo session is that at the end of the session, all participants leave feeling respected & appreciated -- nothing else matters to me.  If the pictures suck, I'm still happy when/if we treat each other well.

To be honest, I sometimes have more difficulty working with models I really, really like.  I need a little distance.

Me too.

Jul 26 15 06:24 pm Link

Photographer

Herman Surkis

Posts: 10856

Victoria, British Columbia, Canada

Shei  P wrote:

Now you know how us models feel when dealing with the all too many pretentious, arrogant photographers.

https://instagram.com/shei_p/

There is such a thing as pretentious, arrogant photographers?

Jul 26 15 06:26 pm Link

Photographer

Herman Surkis

Posts: 10856

Victoria, British Columbia, Canada

Ken Marcus Studios wrote:
I spent three weeks in the desert shooting a model for playboy, who was a foul-mouthed bigoted, angry young woman.

My job was to be there and create photos . . . it's not a popularity contest . . . nobody looking at the photos will ever know what an uncomfortable time my crew had in dealing with her.

I was sent to take photos suitable for publishing . . . and thats exactly what we did.

Nothing more, nothing less . . . .

If you get too rapped up in things, and take other peoples bullshit to heart, you have only yourself to blame for your misery.

KM

If I am being paid, then i would take your attitude, and I have done.

But since now I shoot for fun, and I generally do trade and occasionally pay, then *fuck that noise*, she is gone in a heart beat. "There's the door, please don't let it hit you in the ass on the way out" And I have done that as well, although very rarely.

Jul 26 15 06:33 pm Link

Photographer

GianCarlo Images

Posts: 2427

Brooklyn, New York, US

I guess if you feel you have learned something, then at least that's something.

But...if you are paying a model you should have a plan and a good idea of what you want. I'm talking theme, poses, setting, and lighting. The model should not be insisting on a wig you don't want in your photograph; you must direct.

And then, you never know, sometimes after people get to know each other with a little time, respect and at least a professional friendship develops and things start to click much better.

Most of the models I have worked with have been pleasant, and some fabulous. I don't run across anything as extreme as what you describe here but I have had a few that were difficult. I find I don't enjoy or want to view the photographs of those unpleasant models afterwards, even if they turned out well. I rather admire the images of the nicer people.

Jul 26 15 08:09 pm Link

Photographer

Zack Zoll

Posts: 6895

Glens Falls, New York, US

At one point, I was working on a series of photographs of people I didn't want to photograph. Exes, guys I fought with in high school,and so on.

I got some good images out of it, but not good enough to continue working on it when I got rid of my studio. It was hard enough convincing those people to come to the studio - I'd never get them to come to my house.

Jul 26 15 08:49 pm Link

Photographer

Good Egg Productions

Posts: 16713

Orlando, Florida, US

The longer I do this, the more it matters to me how I feel about the shoot and less about the images.

It's possible that I've improved about as much as I'm going to improve technically and now I'm just in it for the social interaction and the charity of it.  This is not to say I'm amazing and my images can't be better, just that I think I've reached a plateau and I don't get the joy of learning a new technique or set that invigorates me as an artist. 

The fun of this is now shooting new people who are really pleasant and appreciate of me and what I can do.  So, to answer your question, if I don't like the person, I see no point in shooting them.  Clearly, once being paid to do something is in the mix, then the question changes dramatically.  Still then, if I don't like the person, I think the job would suffer at some level.


I've probably only had about 10 shoots total where there was just a total dislike for the person and I couldn't end the shoot soon enough.  But in the last year or two, if I don't like you, we don't shoot.

Jul 26 15 11:06 pm Link

Photographer

Rob Photosby

Posts: 4810

Brisbane, Queensland, Australia

Derek Ridgers wrote:
Is it necessary to like the models you shoot?

In total, I have had only a handful of models whom I have not liked, but none were sufficiently talented to warrant working with a second time, so your question has never arisen, but I doubt that I would waste time on a model who insisted on wearing an inappropriate wig or who exhibited some of the other behaviours that you describe.

Jul 27 15 05:35 am Link

Photographer

Farenell Photography

Posts: 18832

Albany, New York, US

Thankfully because photography is my creative outlet & not my primary source of income, I don't have to - nor am I willing to work with ANY model who makes me feel like I'm wasting either their time or mine.

Jul 27 15 05:48 am Link

Photographer

Jerry Nemeth

Posts: 33355

Dearborn, Michigan, US

Carle Photography wrote:

Models KNOW this, this is why GREAT models are able to turn on the charm and let you think we love working with you.
WE can pretty much get along with anyone & their half crackled ideas for an afternoon.

You were great!  I never realized it.  The photos also turned out great.  One of them in my portfolio has had 10,955 views.    smile

Jul 27 15 06:51 am Link

Photographer

Al Green XM

Posts: 383

Townsville, Queensland, Australia

Without the model's buy in my conceptual work fails miserably. So I really respect  the models who can nail the concept that, until the shoot, exists only in my weird  imagination - I've been lucky  in that respect. This is why  I tend to work long term with the same 4-5 models who I respect, like and relate to.

Jul 27 15 07:18 am Link

Photographer

ValHig

Posts: 495

London, England, United Kingdom

I don't think you need to like people to produce something good together. But I don't want to spend my hobby and free time around people I can't stand so I'd prefer to get along with the team.

Jul 27 15 09:29 am Link

Photographer

Alien LiFe

Posts: 934

San Jose, California, US

Shei  P wrote:
Now you know how us models feel when dealing with the all too many pretentious, arrogant photographers.

Lol ... so true, models have to put up with photographers more often then vise versa.

This thread reallly put in some good retrospect ...


I shoot because I really enjoy photography so I'd rather work with nice people/models regardless of the outcome.
At the end of the shoot, my wish is that everybody involved are enjoying the shoot.

Jul 27 15 09:59 am Link