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DOUGLASFOTOS
Posts: 10604
Los Angeles, California, US
Shoot nudes: Yes Old Guys With Cameras: Yes OP...You been here since Nov. 2013. It happens...let it roll off your back. It is just the nature of this internet craze! lol ...and It might help you in the long run not having I love being naked..and sex thing...It just brings out the beast in these old men with cameras...but your safe with me...I don't like Fish! lol
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Toto Photo
Posts: 3757
Belmont, California, US
Welcome to MM! Loved your welcome post to the newbie from Maui! I'm not sure how we could gather the statistics to answer your question empirically. We'd probably need to conduct a survey. From the looks of early posts from newbies, I take it they are often inundated with offers of nude shoots. I can answer for me. I think I'd qualify as older (60), which I believe is about 98% of many models' definition of creepy. And, I enjoy shooting nudes and am a man. So I suppose I do fit your stereotype. But, again, don't know how we'd determine "mostly". One could peruse 100 random profiles perhaps, not sure that'd be statistically significant though. Best
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salvatori.
Posts: 4288
Amundsen-Scott - permanent station of the US, Unclaimed Sector, Antarctica
Caena MacKenzie wrote: Emm, I have nothing against nudity. Heck, I love being naked, love sex..blah blah. But it seems like every shout out is from a photographer touting the nudes he shot. And I have received a few messages so far..most want me topless or more. I get it. I have boobs. People sometimes want to see them. But is MM mostly a bunch of older creepy men looking to just shoot cute naked girlies or something? I am new..so..be kind with your responses please! I'll be kind, even though you were insulting. So I'm older and I photograph young women nude. Guess I'm creepy. You profile says you do nudes, but evidently, the person shooting them has to pass your creep-meter in order to work with you. Sorry if I come off as angry, but your stereotyping bothered me. Best of luck.
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DollhouseDiamondscom
Posts: 289
Memphis, Tennessee, US
Caena MacKenzie wrote: Emm, I have nothing against nudity. Heck, I love being naked, love sex..blah blah. But it seems like every shout out is from a photographer touting the nudes he shot. And I have received a few messages so far..most want me topless or more. I get it. I have boobs. People sometimes want to see them. But is MM mostly a bunch of older creepy men looking to just shoot cute naked girlies or something? I am new..so..be kind with your responses please! Are you referring to the home page shoutout's? it ranges from day to day and from hour to hour on what you will see. sometimes it will be a lot of nude models, photographers that shoot nudes etc. most models on here are below as they say fashion standard high and in general it's kind of hard to mess up a nude shoot compared to composing any other type of image. Also everyone wets there feet a little in nude work but, not everyone does a good job at shooting nudes or posing nude.
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Orca Bay Images
Posts: 33877
Arcata, California, US
Caena MacKenzie wrote: Emm, I have nothing against nudity. Heck, I love being naked, love sex..blah blah. But it seems like every shout out is from a photographer touting the nudes he shot. And I have received a few messages so far..most want me topless or more. I get it. I have boobs. People sometimes want to see them. But is MM mostly a bunch of older creepy men looking to just shoot cute naked girlies or something? I am new..so..be kind with your responses please! Loved the insulting stereotyping and the bad statistical method. A few porny messages and we're all older creepies? Get over yourself. If you persist with this attitude, you'll make sure that the only photographer who will request your participation are the older creepies. The true creepies. Who else would put up with that attitude?
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Grady Richardson
Posts: 278
Houston, Texas, US
As yet another old, creepy guy, I'd point out that your profile says you do nudes. Many (I'm sure most, but I'm not going to do a research project on it for this post) models on MM do not. So it stands to reason that you'll get a lot of requests for nude modeling. If you like to cut it down, say no to nudity on your profile. From what I hear from models on MM, that won't stop the requests, but it should thin them down a bit.
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dead and goneeeeeeeeee
Posts: 161
Aniak, Alaska, US
Speaking from experience, if you shoot nude, that's all you will be asked to do. You have to work hard to not get pigeon-holed. Such is life. People love boobs! (People of all ages!)
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Toto Photo
Posts: 3757
Belmont, California, US
Caena MacKenzie wrote: If all they are shooting is nude/erotic work, I would have thought a different site would be more appropriate (possibly?)..or at least..I would have expected less of an avalanche of "hey, look at the hot naked chicks" in the shoutouts and portfolios I have scanned. Simple as that. Guess I am mistaken. Sheesh, picky crowd. *retreats to hole* If I may be unscientific for a moment, I believe there are many on here, myself included, who shoot more than erotic nudes. And I'm pretty sure there aren't any alternatives to MM. I, for one, enjoyed your sarcasm but you've got to be able to take it as well as give it around here. I hope you'll reconsider your retreat. Thick skin is my advice. **Edit** Not suggesting you do (as I work in advertising), but if you were to remove your blue shoe photo PMs will probably drop precipitously. But if you make it your avatar, the dam will burst.
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Terrell Gates
Posts: 1042
Santa Fe, New Mexico, US
Caena MacKenzie wrote: Emm, I have nothing against nudity. Heck, I love being naked, love sex..blah blah. But it seems like every shout out is from a photographer touting the nudes he shot. And I have received a few messages so far..most want me topless or more. I get it. I have boobs. People sometimes want to see them. But is MM mostly a bunch of older creepy men looking to just shoot cute naked girlies or something? I am new..so..be kind with your responses please! AM I AN "OLD (78) CREEPIE." Why make such a broad generalization? Give us oldies a break!!! www.nudespoetic.com
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Mark Salo
Posts: 11727
Olney, Maryland, US
creep-meter: mine is a Sekonic GWC-09
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American Glamour
Posts: 38813
Detroit, Michigan, US
The OP has asked a legitimate question, but I also understand why some are getting their feathers ruffled. I don't think anyone needs to though. I don't think she intended to do that. It is quite obvious, for a new female model, they are quickly inundated with offers for nudes. I think this is a good thread to explain to the OP why you do nudes, and for those who don't to chime in as well.
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American Glamour
Posts: 38813
Detroit, Michigan, US
Mark Salo wrote: creep-meter: mine is a Sekonic GWC-09 You are so behind the times!
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Bob Helm Photography
Posts: 18909
Cherry Hill, New Jersey, US
I read the OP and her port and am confused. Spend any time on MM and you quickly get that nudes are popular, nude models seem to be in demand and if you are not 5'7"+ you are SOL for fashion work and the market for you is swimwear, lingerie and nude. She says she does nude and is offended if she gets nude offers. Does not make sense and there are a lot of models here who would be happy to get any type of offer. Your portfolio is an ad to get work and needs to be positive and IMO should never have a negative word in it and tell people why you are here. It should not be ambivalent. Same for post that insult the people who may want to work with you.
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Koryn
Posts: 39496
Boston, Massachusetts, US
If people saying, "Check out my new nudes!" comes across as creepy to you, then you might be carrying more of a negative attitude toward nudity than you realize. To be comfortable here, most people need to check some of their biases at the door.
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F-1 Photo
Posts: 1164
New York, New York, US
The logic that you employ always amazes me! "Blah blah, see my boobs...creepy old men..." Has it occurred to you that magazines such as Playboy and the like primarily feature young women between 18-26 in various stages of undress?! There is an entire industry devoted to this swerving the demographic you mention. Then there is the mainstream media; pretty girls grace the pages of everything from electronics magazines to calendars to TV commercials, and it goes on and on. Guess what?! It isn't anything new either. Males from ages 12-90 read Playboy to see images of young naked girls. However, you're surprised by this on MM.
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DOUGLASFOTOS
Posts: 10604
Los Angeles, California, US
It sure did get Soapbox all of a sudden...OP...why not delete those names at the end of response.
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ChadAlan
Posts: 4254
Los Angeles, California, US
Caena MacKenzie wrote: Ok, let me try to rephrase before this gets out of hand. 1. I didnt mean to offend older people at all. What I was intending on saying was that, I am new, and the bulk of what I have seen are shoutouts to come see other peoples portfolios by photographers. Great. Except most of these shout outs aren't "hey, I am based in Florida, check out my new imagery"..or similar. They were along the lines of "I have two new nudes!!!" and I thought that to be a wee bit odd considering this is a website devoted to photography and models, makeup and such, not just naked models. 2. I am not OFFENDED by nakedness. Heck, I look at plenty of porn. However, this doesnt mean I wish to be featured in it. It clearly states I will do implied nudity and yet do not wish to do erotic shots, spreads etc. Considering I also dont have any topless photos or butts or whatever in my limited portfolio thus far, I kind of figured (incorrectly) that people would get the idea that I am open to the idea of it, but dont want to do just a nude pictorial for just any random photographer. I see LOTS of amazing photographers (and models, makeup artists, bodypainters..and so on) on here. I am in awe of good photography. There are likely thousands of amazing naked photographs on here of some amazing people. I didnt mean to stereotype everyone. I asked a question, since I am new and was only approved YESTERDAY that in my LIMITED time online here, the bulk of what I have been exposed to are the aforementioned photographers asking people to come check out their new naked pictures. Maybe my impression is different than yours. Maybe a females is different than a males. Maybe a model's is different than a photographers. Maybe its just because I am new. So I asked a seemingly harmless question and I am getting slammed. Then the mod stepped in to try to smooth it over and I am still getting crucified. So..thanks. I am shutting up now. Apologies to all those I have offended. Hitler. The KKK. Al-Qaeda. Donald Sterling. Caena McKenzie. AWESOME. Hi Caena, From what I've read in the posts above, you are a little far from being slammed. What you have gotten thus far are viewpoints from photographers on the question and opinions you presented. No need for sarcasm in your closing above. The forums are for civil discussion and debate, which is what I've seen in the posts above. There are many different types of people on this site, with lots of different motivations for being here.
Caena MacKenzie wrote: Emm, I have nothing against nudity. Heck, I love being naked, love sex..blah blah. But it seems like every shout out is from a photographer touting the nudes he shot. And I have received a few messages so far..most want me topless or more. I get it. I have boobs. People sometimes want to see them. But is MM mostly a bunch of older creepy men looking to just shoot cute naked girlies or something? I am new..so..be kind with your responses please! I understand your newness and genuine curiosity, but please understand that there is a reason that you chose to use the words "older" and "creepy". You could have just said, "Why do so many on here want to shoot nudes?" I have another profile that focuses on nudes. I'm not really on MM to get any clients. I have a website for that. So it makes sense that someone would use MM to source models for their less mainstream work, or for personal projects, fantasy, nude, experimentation, to network, although there are many great fashion and commercial models on MM as well
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J Haggerty
Posts: 1315
Augusta, Georgia, US
Unfortunately sarcasm does not translate well over forum and feathers are easily ruffled with the autonomy of the internet providing some security. Your question does provide an interesting topic for discussion. As a youngish female, I set up a model profile as well and specified that I would NOT do nude work and yet my inbox was filled with request for nude and fetish work. It is rather inappropriate, but unavoidable - again, the Internet has a different set of rules entirely. MM does not consist individuals with the sole purpose of seeing naked flesh. Instead of associating age and style type, allow the work to speak for itself. You might find a profile with work that speaks to you and that should not be ignored because the photographer is a specific sex and age. In this instance, as with most, the work DOES speak for itself. Simply thank the person with the interest and decline the shoot, block or report to mod if they become belligerent or uncomfortably pushy. To the other members who took an insulted stance on this topic. This behavior is very common on MM which does explain a posting or several with the concern. Instead of bashing the ignorance of the op - recognize that it does happen and it is our responsibility to correct misinformation. Keep the passion and keep it safe and clean.
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SPRINGHEEL
Posts: 38224
Detroit, Michigan, US
Caena MacKenzie wrote: But is MM mostly a bunch of older creepy men looking to just shoot cute naked girlies or something? I like you
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Jerry Nemeth
Posts: 33355
Dearborn, Michigan, US
Caena MacKenzie wrote: Wow, wasnt trying to be rude. Apologies if it came across that way., I am very sarcastic and brash. Apparently it fell on deaf ears here. Anyway to clarify, I have simply seen most of the shout-outs from the photographers say "hey, check out my portfolio, I have new nude imagery!"..which to me, comes off as somewhat creepy. And the few messages I have got have been asked to do erotic photos, which is not what I wrote in my profile and certainly not anything similar to any image in my portfolio. So, I apologise if it seems that I stereotyped the lot of you, but that wasnt my intention. I dont care what age or sex the photographer is, only the quality and style of their work, and their professional demeanor. If all they are shooting is nude/erotic work, I would have thought a different site would be more appropriate (possibly?)..or at least..I would have expected less of an avalanche of "hey, look at the hot naked chicks" in the shoutouts and portfolios I have scanned. Simple as that. Guess I am mistaken. Sheesh, picky crowd. *retreats to hole* There are many models who model nude and photographers who photograph nude models on MM.
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Bambi Le Bam
Posts: 26
Jackson, Tennessee, US
Caena MacKenzie wrote: I asked a question, since I am new and was only approved YESTERDAY that in my LIMITED time online here, the bulk of what I have been exposed to are the aforementioned photographers asking people to come check out their new naked pictures. Maybe my impression is different than yours. Maybe a females is different than a males. Maybe a model's is different than a photographers. Maybe its just because I am new. So I asked a seemingly harmless question and I am getting slammed. Then the mod stepped in to try to smooth it over and I am still getting crucified. So..thanks. I am shutting up now. Apologies to all those I have offended. Hitler. The KKK. Al-Qaeda. Donald Sterling. Caena McKenzie. AWESOME. Perhaps you should have given it more than a day and chosen your words a little more wisely? You did come off as abrasive (I know I would have taken offense if I was a photog). I've only been here a month, and like you I've seen the numerous announcements about "New Nudes". I secretly wondered what the site was really about. However, as I do with everything in my life, I chose to give it some time and check things out. I've checked the forums, read old posts, etc. determining the "character" of MM. Although, I'm sure there are some GWC's out there, I really don't believe the majority are creeps, pervs, etc. If you are uncomfortable with any offers you get, simply decline (or don't respond). That's the beauty of this site. If all else fails, you can always CAM. Right?
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LUNA_PHOTOGRAPHY
Posts: 259
Wilmington, North Carolina, US
Caena MacKenzie wrote: ] But is MM mostly a bunch of older creepy men looking to just shoot cute naked girlies or something? I am new..so..be kind with your responses please! Yes.
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Evie Wolfe
Posts: 1201
Nottingham, England, United Kingdom
Hi Yeah... Internet modelling is an awful lot of nakedness. You can't avoid it, and it can be a bit overwhelming until you learn to tune it out (if that is what you want to do). I'm largely desensitized to it, but every so often I step back and think 'wow, there is a lot of nudity here'. Of course, that is not a bad thing - but when you're looking to shoot other stuff, or don't shoot nude at all, it can get a bit tiresome. You aren't the first person to point this out - in fact there is an opinion here that a significant number of newer models leave or abandon their profiles because of the constant nude offers. There are a couple of things you can do to lessen the nude-y focus here - turning on the 'worksafe' mode will blank out 18+ photos when you browse profiles, and removing 'nude' from your availability will lessen the offers you get for it, though that will not stop them entirely. MM isn't ALL nudes though - there are some amazing people on here who don't shoot nudes, or who shoot things besides nudes, and plenty of models who don't do nudes at all. Just like it is 100% ok for people to only be interested in nudity on MM, (after all, nudity sells), it is 100% ok for you to not want to be a part of that, or to want to be a part of that less than you are now. There's room for everyone here
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J Haggerty
Posts: 1315
Augusta, Georgia, US
Bambi Le Bam wrote: Perhaps you should have given it more than a day and chosen your words a little more wisely? You did come off as abrasive (I know I would have taken offense if I was a photog). I've only been here a month, and like you I've seen the numerous announcements about "New Nudes". I secretly wondered what the site was really about. However, as I do with everything in my life, I chose to give it some time and check things out. I've checked the forums, read old posts, etc. determining the "character" of MM. Although, I'm sure there are some GWC's out there, I really don't believe the majority are creeps, pervs, etc. If you are uncomfortable with any offers you get, simply decline (or don't respond). That's the beauty of this site. If all else fails, you can always CAM. Right? Very well put and a great model to follow. Dig through and get a feel for the place before making any assumptions. Assumptions on the internet will consume your soul... almost literally.
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Albertex Photography
Posts: 18159
Mansfield, Texas, US
Jennifer Haggerty wrote: Unfortunately sarcasm does not translate well over forum and feathers are easily ruffled with the autonomy of the internet providing some security. Your question does provide an interesting topic for discussion. As a youngish female, I set up a model profile as well and specified that I would NOT do nude work and yet my inbox was filled with request for nude and fetish work. It is rather inappropriate, but unavoidable - again, the Internet has a different set of rules entirely. MM does not consist individuals with the sole purpose of seeing naked flesh. Instead of associating age and style type, allow the work to speak for itself. You might find a profile with work that speaks to you and that should not be ignored because the photographer is a specific sex and age. In this instance, as with most, the work DOES speak for itself. Simply thank the person with the interest and decline the shoot, block or report to mod if they become belligerent or uncomfortably pushy. To the other members who took an insulted stance on this topic. This behavior is very common on MM which does explain a posting or several with the concern. Instead of bashing the ignorance of the op - recognize that it does happen and it is our responsibility to correct misinformation. Keep the passion and keep it safe and clean. Well said. It is the Mayhem after all. As a Gatekeeper and Forum Guide we try very hard to keep creepers away. If buy chance any messages are too creepy and out of line CAM it: https://www.modelmayhem.com/contactamod Otherwise please take the offer to shoot nudes as a simple reply to your offer to shoot nudes non TF.
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salvatori.
Posts: 4288
Amundsen-Scott - permanent station of the US, Unclaimed Sector, Antarctica
OP, No offense, but the 'apologies' you offered in your numerous replies (as well as grouping yourself in with heinous examples of humanity for sarcastic effect) did more damage than good, IMHO. Again, this is my opinion only, but I would never work with someone who posts things as you do here. You are aware that a photographer who is considering working with you can search the fora and see the threads you start, correct? And by the way, your reply 'clarified' your beliefs that only a photographer's work matters to you when considering a collaboration, not their gender or age. But your original 'creepy OLD... GUYS...' says otherwise. Again, best of luck.
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Bambi Le Bam
Posts: 26
Jackson, Tennessee, US
Jennifer Haggerty wrote: Very well put and a great model to follow. Dig through and get a feel for the place before making any assumptions. Assumptions on the internet will consume your soul... almost literally. Thank you! Made me blush!
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Justin
Posts: 22389
Fort Collins, Colorado, US
Welcome to Model Mayhem. Nude photos draw more traffic than non-nude photos. I think people know this. So posting, "Look at my new nudes!" is really just playing to the numbers. It's my impression, not a scientific analysis, that a substantial number of MM photographers are older (40+?)(50+?) men. So a fair number of "Look at my new nudes!" by photographers will be older men. As to creepy, yeah, I'm positive there are creepy guys here. If you don't want to work with them, do judicious screening. On the other hand, I bet that creepy guys who want to photograph nekkid girls are part of the market, so if they pay and you're comfortable with the work, maybe you want to work with them. I dunno. That's your call. As for me, I have a pretty good samples of nudes in my portfolio (and here I resist the impulse to say, "Check them out!!!"), and I have them there because they appeal to me artistically. If they're fap material to someone, then someone is really hard up (nyuk!) for fap material. Best of luck with your modeling and posting here in the forums.
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Toto Photo
Posts: 3757
Belmont, California, US
Caena MacKenzie wrote: you noticed the shoes? B-b-b-barely
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Mark Salo
Posts: 11727
Olney, Maryland, US
Mark Salo wrote: creep-meter: mine is a Sekonic GWC-09 GPS Studio Services wrote: You are so behind the times! It has served me well. I will be upgrading to digital soon.
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wrongsideofthirty
Posts: 543
Boston, Massachusetts, US
GPS Studio Services wrote: The OP has asked a legitimate question, but I also understand why some are getting their feathers ruffled. I don't think anyone needs to though. I don't think she intended to do that. It is quite obvious, for a new female model, they are quickly inundated with offers for nudes. I think this is a good thread to explain to the OP why you do nudes, and for those who don't to chime in as well. She may have asked a "legit" question but I don't see why any photographer here should have to "explain why they shoot nudes" to someone who doesn't understand why people want to shoot them. sorry, some people just don't get it, and the OP seems to be one of them; that's not a criticism or a putdown or any type of slight intended to the OP its just an observation from reading her post besides does anyone really want to listen to all the cliches about "the beauty of the human form" welcome to MM
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Light and Lens Studio
Posts: 3450
Sisters, Oregon, US
Orca Bay Images wrote: Loved the insulting stereotyping and the bad statistical method. A few porny messages and we're all older creepies? Get over yourself. If you persist with this attitude, you'll make sure that the only photographer who will request your participation are the older creepies. The true creepies. Who else would put up with that attitude? Applause
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Light and Lens Studio
Posts: 3450
Sisters, Oregon, US
Caena MacKenzie wrote: Ok, let me try to rephrase before this gets out of hand.............. I asked a question, [b]since I am new and was only approved YESTERDAY that in my LIMITED time online here, the bulk of what I have been exposed to are the aforementioned photographers asking people to come check out their new naked pictures.............. Then the mod stepped in to try to smooth it over and I am still getting crucified. So..thanks. I am shutting up now. Apologies to all those I have offended. Hitler. The KKK. Al-Qaeda. Donald Sterling. Caena McKenzie. AWESOME. Well, a wise person once said, "It's better to keep your mouth shut at the risk of seeming to be ignorant rather than open it and remove all doubt". The rising tide of arrogance among new, inexperienced, and uninformed models never ceases to amaze. Enjoy your next visit to Oregon. If the phone doesn't ring, it's me. Just another old photographer that you managed to piss off.
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Revenge Photography
Posts: 1905
Horsham, Victoria, Australia
Once again a handful of asshats run off a new model. FFS is the newbie forum, no need to set the dogs on the OP
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Bambi Le Bam
Posts: 26
Jackson, Tennessee, US
Revenge Photography wrote: Once again a handful of asshats run off a new model. FFS is the newbie forum, no need to set the dogs on the OP Correct me if I'm wrong (it is possible), but: The OP's very first post in the forum (after just being approved) was abrasive She then got advice as to what to do to help defer the offers that offended her so much- what does she do? - the exact opposite! Her "apology"... well really wasn't an apology when you consider the names and finally she changed her name as a final f u. I really don't think anyone ran her off... I think it's more of a case of "you can dish it out, but you can't take it"
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Marin Photo NYC
Posts: 7348
New York, New York, US
Darn..missed the fireworks!
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