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Eric Lefebvre

Posts: 508

Gatineau, Quebec, Canada

So my friend is getting married in like 2 weeks and called me yesterday to ask about food etiquette for photographers (should he provide a meal for the photographer or not ... so on so forth) so I answered his question and asked who he had hired ... I went to the guys website and I was underwhelmed.

I'm not sure if I should say anything about this ... I'm certainly not the best photographer in the world ...

http://flic.kr/p/cqc5h9
http://flic.kr/p/bBCp7Z

... but this guys photographic style is SOOOO dated.
His website ...

Am I being overly critical? Is his work really as bad as I think it is and if it is as bad as I perceive it to be, should I say anything?

Jul 26 12 12:32 pm Link

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Mer Soleil Photography

Posts: 221

Atlantic Beach, Florida, US

I would assume that your friend has looked at his work and rates and decided it was a good fit. Maybe the other, better wedding photographers were already booked for that weekend. Maybe this photographer has some more recent work that he showed them that does not appear on his website. Who knows.

If it is a close friend I would opine. But if it is not a close friend, I would leave it alone.

Jul 26 12 12:39 pm Link

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Tim Little Photography

Posts: 11771

Wilmington, Delaware, US

This is not the place to be critical of other peoples work. If the other photographer is a MM member its even worse. You should remove the link to his website if for no other reason than not being a jerk.

It doesn't matter what you think of his work. Your friend hired him. Actually, I suspect your friends bride or her family hired him. It is a terrible idea to photograph weddings of family and friends.  It's worse to call them out about it.

Jul 26 12 12:41 pm Link

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Philip R

Posts: 698

Agoura Hills, California, US

Unless asked for an opinion, I would just stay out of it.  Like when I see a bad play (that I didn't direct) of an actor friend, I just offer "Well you did it!"

Congratulate him on the wedding.

Jul 26 12 12:44 pm Link

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Miss AY

Posts: 8166

Bulqizë, Bulqizë, Albania

Unless you are planning to pay the bill for a photographer that you deem acceptable, then I'd keep your opinions to yourself.

I'm about a week and a half out from my wedding and if there's one thing that's pissing me off and stressing me out, it's everyone and their mother trying to give me their opinion on how things should be done, what I should change, what I should do, what I shouldn't do etc etc.

I'm betting your friend is in a similar boat with everyone around them trying to play wedding planner.

Leave it be.

Jul 26 12 12:44 pm Link

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Leonard Gee Photography

Posts: 18096

Sacramento, California, US

Eric Lefebvre wrote:
I'm not sure if I should say anything about this ... I'm certainly not the best photographer in the world ...

... but this guys photographic style is SOOOO dated.
His website ... http://www.mweigandphotography.com/galleries.html

Am I being overly critical? Is his work really as bad as I think it is and if it is as bad as I perceive it to be, should I say anything?

Right, you're not.....

What you are is irrelevant. You are not being over critical. What you are, is opinionated about something of which, you are not responsible. Do you know both the bride and groom? Do you know if it was the bride's decision or both their decisions? Will the bride and groom care about your opinion? Do you think the photographer is incompetent?

Otherwise, why? Do you have an opinion about the wedding cake? What about the flowers?

You do realize that 1. the photography contract is signed, 2. the retainer or fee is already paid, 3. the photographer already has the dates reserved, right?

Jul 26 12 12:46 pm Link

Photographer

Sekseeshotz

Posts: 331

Phoenix, Arizona, US

Be glad he didn't ask you to shoot his wedding!  That never ends well.

Jul 26 12 12:46 pm Link

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DELETED-ACCOUNT_

Posts: 10303

Los Angeles, California, US

I'm not sure why it's your place to point out the quality of the photographer's work, when you were asked a question about the etiquette of providing a meal....

Sounds like you're a bit jealous to me.

Jul 26 12 12:47 pm Link

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Gisella Heart

Posts: 1

BRONX, New York, US

Eric Lefebvre wrote:
So my friend is getting married in like 2 weeks and called me yesterday to ask about food etiquette for photographers (should he provide a meal for the photographer or not ... so on so forth) so I answered his question and asked who he had hired ... I went to the guys website and I was underwhelmed.

I'm not sure if I should say anything about this ... I'm certainly not the best photographer in the world ...

http://flic.kr/p/cqc5h9
http://flic.kr/p/bBCp7Z

... but this guys photographic style is SOOOO dated.
His website ... http://www.mweigandphotography.com/galleries.html

Am I being overly critical? Is his work really as bad as I think it is and if it is as bad as I perceive it to be, should I say anything?

You are a jerk. I think his pics are just fine. Maybe you just wanted the gig for yourself. sour grapes huh?

Jul 26 12 12:50 pm Link

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M Pandolfo Photography

Posts: 12117

Tampa, Florida, US

If you weren't a photographer would you have a) spent that much time researching said photographer, b) been so critical and c) cared who they chose?

You may think the style is dated. And it may be. That's also irrelevant. The people who matter selected that photographer for whatever reason.

If you say anything about their choice you are the only one who will look foolish. Your critique of the photographer will translate to "Oh my God, I am SUCH a better photographer than that."

I can only assume since you're friends with these people, they know you are a photographer. And they still chose not to use you. Whether it's to keep friendship separate from business (smart) or an issue they had with your particular style.

Jul 26 12 12:51 pm Link

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kl-photographics

Posts: 296

Lemgo, North Rhine-Westphalia, Germany

i mean obviously  ur friend liked the work from that guy. so just leave it if hes not asking u about ur opinion. its his wedding, n he will watch the pics for the rest of his life.

regards karsten

Jul 26 12 12:51 pm Link

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Simon Vintage Studios

Posts: 704

Dallas, Texas, US

Unless you can provide the photography that is of a much higher standard than the work in question, and im not sure you would be able to, i would keep your affairs to yourself. Just because you do not like the guys work does not make him a bad photographer. You did not go into detail about cost. Maybe the cost of the shoot reflects the quality of the photographer they hired. If the couple in question liked YOUR work so much would they not of hired YOU ?

Jul 26 12 12:52 pm Link

Photographer

ESR Photography

Posts: 1116

Austin, Texas, US

Eric Lefebvre wrote:
So my friend is getting married in like 2 weeks and called me yesterday to ask about food etiquette for photographers (should he provide a meal for the photographer or not ... so on so forth) so I answered his question and asked who he had hired ... I went to the guys website and I was underwhelmed.

I'm not sure if I should say anything about this ... I'm certainly not the best photographer in the world ...

http://flic.kr/p/cqc5h9
http://flic.kr/p/bBCp7Z

... but this guys photographic style is SOOOO dated.
His website ... http://www.mweigandphotography.com/galleries.html

Am I being overly critical? Is his work really as bad as I think it is and if it is as bad as I perceive it to be, should I say anything?

It's funny. Your profile suggests you mainly do weddings. Yet 'your friend' called you to ask about food etiquette? Perhaps your friend thinks of your work in the same fashion as you do the photographer to which you (inappropriately) called out? Just sayin'.....

Jul 26 12 12:52 pm Link

Photographer

Christopher Hartman

Posts: 54196

Buena Park, California, US

Eric Lefebvre wrote:
So my friend is getting married in like 2 weeks and called me yesterday to ask about food etiquette for photographers (should he provide a meal for the photographer or not ... so on so forth) so I answered his question and asked who he had hired ... I went to the guys website and I was underwhelmed.

I'm not sure if I should say anything about this ... I'm certainly not the best photographer in the world ...



Am I being overly critical? Is his work really as bad as I think it is and if it is as bad as I perceive it to be, should I say anything?

Let it go.  Your friend hired him.  Maybe that's all he could afford.  I don't know.  If you think they can do better on their budget, then tell him and give him some referrals.

As for feeding the photographers, when I've been hired to 2nd shoot, they work in the contract about being fed.  Doesn't have to be what the wedding guests get cause that can be expensive.  In fact, one wedding was at the Peterson museum in LA and there's a Johnny Rockets there too.  Before JR closed, they had a bunch of burgers and fries cooked up for the photographers, and other "help".  At another wedding I think we just got sandwiches or something.  And a few others we got what the guests got.  The best was an Indian wedding I shot at last month and they had a buffet style.  I loaded my plated up with lots of good food.  And took about 5 minutes to consume it as they didn't really leave us much time to have a break.  In fact, the photographer that hired me only got about 2 or 3 bites in before he had to get back to work.

Jul 26 12 12:54 pm Link

Photographer

Yingwah Productions

Posts: 1557

New York, New York, US

Seems like you're being more the snarky photographer thats butthurt your friend didn't hire you. It's tough to call the guy's style outdated when its mostly out of camera, i've come across more stylistic wedding photog's whose site now looks like an instagram portfolio. The less you do in post the less outdated it will look 10 years from now

Jul 26 12 12:58 pm Link

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Brian T Rickey

Posts: 4008

Saint Louis, Missouri, US

Never mind.

*leaves room*

Jul 26 12 12:58 pm Link

Photographer

Kool Koncepts

Posts: 965

Saint Louis, Michigan, US

His 'dated' work is what attracts and brings in his clients and what probably attracted your friend. Just because his style is not your choice does not mean it is not that of anyone else.

Bad and style reflect two very different things. Be professional, accept differences and remove the link in your post!

Jul 26 12 01:03 pm Link

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D S P

Posts: 510

Portland, Oregon, US

Every wedding I've attended, the photographer and assistant(s) were fed.

I would recommend staying out of the photographer critique and be happy that you are not shooting a friend's wedding.

As for outdated style... We paid $8000 for our wedding photography 25 years ago. Our images still blow away the images produced by the Big Guns of today's wedding photography.

Jul 26 12 01:05 pm Link

Photographer

Paul AI

Posts: 1046

Shawnee, Oklahoma, US

Tim Little Photography wrote:
This is not the place to be critical of other peoples work. If the other photographer is a MM member its even worse. You should remove the link to his website if for no other reason than not being a jerk.

+1

Jul 26 12 01:08 pm Link

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SPV Photo

Posts: 808

Las Vegas, Nevada, US

This should be interesting when the photographer reviews his traffic logs.

Jul 26 12 01:08 pm Link

Photographer

Laubenheimer

Posts: 9317

New York, New York, US

where did the OP go?

Jul 26 12 01:08 pm Link

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Eric Lefebvre

Posts: 508

Gatineau, Quebec, Canada

Love how aggressive this "community" is ... all I wanted to know was: "Am I being overly critical of the photographers work". I wasn't calling him out, I was bashing him (ok, maybe a little) ... I was truly wondering if his work was as poor as I thought it was. Apparently it's not. I thank you all for your answers on this subject ... I'll go remove the link to his website from my original post.

Jul 26 12 01:11 pm Link

Photographer

Eric Lefebvre

Posts: 508

Gatineau, Quebec, Canada

Mark Laubenheimer wrote:
where did the OP go?

The OP went to the a reptile zoo with his daughter. smile

Jul 26 12 01:11 pm Link

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Laubenheimer

Posts: 9317

New York, New York, US

Eric Lefebvre wrote:

The OP went to the a reptile zoo with his daughter. smile

and i thought i was in the reptile zoo....

Jul 26 12 01:13 pm Link

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Farenell Photography

Posts: 18832

Albany, New York, US

Eric Lefebvre wrote:
I'm not sure if I should say anything about this ... I'm certainly not the best photographer in the world ...

http://flic.kr/p/cqc5h9
http://flic.kr/p/bBCp7Z

... but this guys photographic style is SOOOO dated.

You'd be wise to keep your mouth shut. Simply because there are few ways of doing so w/o being a jealous douchebag cause they went w/ someone else.

A lot of things also go into choosing a wedding photographer than JUST the picture quality of the end product.

Jul 26 12 01:15 pm Link

Photographer

Eric Lefebvre

Posts: 508

Gatineau, Quebec, Canada

Mark Laubenheimer wrote:

and i thought i was in the reptile zoo....

http://raysreptiles.com/

Jul 26 12 01:17 pm Link

Photographer

Eric Lefebvre

Posts: 508

Gatineau, Quebec, Canada

Jul 26 12 01:18 pm Link

Photographer

J I M

Posts: 524

New York, New York, US

Eric Lefebvre wrote:
Love how aggressive this "community" is ... all I wanted to know was: "Am I being overly critical of the photographers work". I wasn't calling him out, I was bashing him (ok, maybe a little) ... I was truly wondering if his work was as poor as I thought it was. Apparently it's not. I thank you all for your answers on this subject ... I'll go remove the link to his website from my original post.

I believe you are being overly critical, yes.

And with all due respect, his wedding photography is no more 'dated' than portraits done against a grey backdrop.

IMHO

Jul 26 12 01:18 pm Link

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glofoto

Posts: 254

Nashville, Tennessee, US

I think the photographer whose work you feel is "dated" looks fine.  Nothing wrong with it at all.  As far as photographers go, I'd at least give him credit for the fact that he didn't make a post on a web forum coming across as a little child that got his ego bruised.  Is that the conduct of a professional to you?

Jul 26 12 01:22 pm Link

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Richie Rich B

Posts: 1521

Largo, Florida, US

Toss a couple of YOUR "wedding" pics in the critique forum and you'll find out right away if you're being overly critical.

Jul 26 12 01:23 pm Link

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Mark Salo

Posts: 11727

Olney, Maryland, US

glofoto wrote:
I think the photographer whose work you feel is "dated" looks fine.  Nothing wrong with it at all...

+1

Richie Rich B wrote:
Toss a couple of YOUR "wedding" pics in the critique forum and you'll find out right away if you're being overly critical.

+1

Jul 26 12 01:24 pm Link

Photographer

Eric Lefebvre

Posts: 508

Gatineau, Quebec, Canada

glofoto wrote:
I think the photographer whose work you feel is "dated" looks fine.  Nothing wrong with it at all.  As far as photographers go, I'd at least give him credit for the fact that he didn't make a post on a web forum coming across as a little child that got his ego bruised.  Is that the conduct of a professional to you?

Love how you assume I'm insulted for not having been asked to do my friends wedding ... I don't mix business with family/friends, it's just a bad idea in general.

Jul 26 12 01:25 pm Link

Photographer

Eric Lefebvre

Posts: 508

Gatineau, Quebec, Canada

Richie Rich B wrote:
Toss a couple of YOUR "wedding" pics in the critique forum and you'll find out right away if you're being overly critical.

Already said I wasn't the greatest ... you know what ... fuck this. I'm out of here.

Jul 26 12 01:26 pm Link

Photographer

Paul AI

Posts: 1046

Shawnee, Oklahoma, US

Eric Lefebvre wrote:
Already said I wasn't the greatest ... you know what ... fuck this. I'm out of here.

Bye.

Jul 26 12 01:27 pm Link

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DanaBarrett Photography

Posts: 1031

Franklin, Tennessee, US

I think the wedding photography business on a small budget has more to do with one's marketing skills then photography skills.  Not to say anything bad about said photographer, just a generalization of my opinion.  If you think its that bad, bring your camera when you attend, and take a few for yourself.  (Just don't get in the paid photographers way).

Edit:  Wow, a lot happened from when I finished reading to mine posted.  Seems silly to say anything now.

Jul 26 12 01:28 pm Link

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Strobist DeLux

Posts: 69

Los Angeles, California, US

His pictures look okay to me.

He's using a hi-res sensor, and there's nice bokeh from his prime lens.  The standard 'romantic' approach to wedding photography... see nothing out of the ordinary or anything particularly bad.  He could have better light by augmenting with a speed light or two or a reflector.

Jul 26 12 02:03 pm Link

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Bob Helm Photography

Posts: 18909

Cherry Hill, New Jersey, US

Eric Lefebvre wrote:
Love how aggressive this "community" is ... all I wanted to know was: "Am I being overly critical of the photographers work". I wasn't calling him out, I was bashing him (ok, maybe a little) ... I was truly wondering if his work was as poor as I thought it was. Apparently it's not. I thank you all for your answers on this subject ... I'll go remove the link to his website from my original post.

Yes, you are being overly critical, evidently your friend likes the  "outdated" style.

Jul 26 12 02:26 pm Link

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Strobist DeLux

Posts: 69

Los Angeles, California, US

Eric Lefebvre wrote:
So my friend is getting married in like 2 weeks and called me yesterday to ask about food etiquette for photographers (should he provide a meal for the photographer or not ... so on so forth) so I answered his question and asked who he had hired ... I went to the guys website and I was underwhelmed.

I'm not sure if I should say anything about this ... I'm certainly not the best photographer in the world ...

http://flic.kr/p/cqc5h9
http://flic.kr/p/bBCp7Z

... but this guys photographic style is SOOOO dated.
His website ...

Am I being overly critical? Is his work really as bad as I think it is and if it is as bad as I perceive it to be, should I say anything?

It's in our nature to be critical of others who dare to pick up a camera in our presence.

Jul 26 12 02:30 pm Link

Photographer

Erlinda

Posts: 7286

London, England, United Kingdom

Yeah the photographs aren't amazing but your friend hired him. So they are kind of stuck.

As a photographer and a friend I would hope my friends that are getting married and looking to hire a photographer would ask for my opinion since I would be able to help them a little more on what is good photography etc. hmm

Jul 26 12 02:30 pm Link

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WIP

Posts: 15973

Cheltenham, England, United Kingdom

Eric Lefebvre wrote:
Am I being overly critical? Is his work really as bad as I think it is and if it is as bad as I perceive it to be,

I'm sure he speaks highly of you too.

Jul 26 12 02:41 pm Link