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I just had a great idea . . . MM should set up a bunch of sting accounts. Super hot newbie model. When the offers to shoot coming rolling in, the sting profile responds with a polite "No, thank you." Then if the guy responds with any sort of lame ass harassment crap, the MM powers just delete the dipshit's profile. Genius, I know. Aug 30 13 08:43 am Link Nothing like MM to make you smile. A thread called "Professionalism" full of immature, heated, argumentative and aggressive statements. No real civilized debate between the extremes here. Professional to some people is a big camera, big car and symbols of success. To others it is the conduct of the person. Yet to others it is simply the innovation and quality of the image. It's all very well making beautiful images and posting them on the internet and it impresses people, but I chuckle to myself how many seconds most forum users would last with an art director asking them for a specific brief or challenge, could they actually take a picture entirely to someone else's brief and direction and impress that person, hmm I don't know, some "professionals" here are still figuring out how to talk to models, well... human beings in general. Aug 30 13 08:54 am Link JonPhoto wrote: Digital Czar wrote: Butthurt much... Aug 30 13 08:58 am Link Bill Tracy Photography wrote: Not really, takes 5 seconds to open an email, another 5 seconds to click the message link and redirected to MM Inbox, another 5-10 seconds to read the message followed by 25-60 seconds to look at the senders profile and port. Then another 30 seconds to go back to the message and type "No, but thanks for the message". God forbid you have crappy internet, MM is slow that day, or you're on your smart phone stuck in Mobile Mode. Aug 30 13 09:05 am Link there are probably more unprofessional models here then there are actual real models with professional ports...I would think that most true professionals would respond with a polite "no thank you"...In which case the professional thing to do would be to respond to that with a polite "thanks for your time and reply"... that's the way things work in the rest of the professional business world outside of model mayhem...regardless of how busy ones schedule may be...if you are sooooo busy with people flooding your in box and tripping over themselves with offers of paid modeling work at $100 plus an hour then kudos to you...but I highly doubt that's true in most cases...and if your a stripper, or a former stripper with a portfolio full of shitty point and shoot or cell phone images then I'm sorry to break this news to ya...your not what most would consider a professional model...the market will always be full of horny photogs wanting to hire you to shoot spreads, porn and hardcore bondage for website content... either way...I wouldn't let the lack of reply's ruin your day...there are still enough legit models or aspiring models on this site to make it worth while to send out a few emails...even some of newb models have surprised me with their willingness to learn and dedication to making a shoot come to life Aug 30 13 10:13 am Link Danielle Reid wrote: Class and common courtesy cannot be measured by time. Half the steps you mentioned were steps to read the message, which is what they are doing already. It's the lack of following through with a reply that I was referring to. I should hope that typing "No, but thanks for the message" would not take more than 10 seconds. Aug 30 13 12:27 pm Link Bill Tracy Photography wrote: K Aug 30 13 01:37 pm Link Professionalism is a two way street but many times photographers want to have their cake and eat it too. Aug 30 13 01:48 pm Link Paige Morgan wrote: Its much more professional to answer. And if the other guy has a hissy fit about a polite no thank you then atleast you were professional even if he wasn't. Aug 30 13 01:57 pm Link natural beauties of qld wrote: You're clever. For a Queenslander ;-) Aug 30 13 02:03 pm Link 1k-words-photograpy wrote: Perhaps part of the problem is that many MM "models" think a "job" is getting a photographer(Loosely applied title, btw) to pay them for taking what the real pros would call "testing". That doesn't even come close to a "job" where there is a real client and thousands of dollars and other expenses are on the line. In the days past, often a photographer was only as good as his last job for a client. So, would anyone take that risk with an unknown, untried model? Often not, unless there was an understanding with the client knowing it was a "new" model and might take a lot of direction and other things, like more film/processing/stylist time and whatever else to get the photo if that's the model the client wants or needs to have. Not at all the same as getting a photographer to take photos of you and pay. Aug 30 13 07:34 pm Link I could care less how much of a jerk another artist is. If s/he looks right for the part and has the talent required for the job, I make a point of tuning out the BS and get to work taking photos. I know I'll never have to see this person again, but the shots will last a lifetime and that's why I'm there. Keeping this in mind keeps me from retaliating and helps me remain on task. While it sometimes happens that friendships are struck in the course of a shoot, and when they are it's sweet, it's not what I'm after. And because I'm not the sort who needs to have everyone like him, I can do the work with the same quality regardless. The one thing that really gets to me, especially since I make it clear on my profile page, is when a model has confirmed a morning shoot time the night before it has been scheduled only to text me a half-hour before we were set to meet (while I'm en route to our agreed on location) saying, "Sorry, something came up. Can we move the shoot time up from 8AM to 10AM?" Yeah, I think to myself. Something came up on a Sunday at 7:30AM, within less than 12 hours of your confirmation, but not something so urgent that you'd have to call the shoot off entirely. Something like you slept in, right? I do not reply to her text. There is no further communication from me to the model of any kind. MY DAY DOES NOT BELONG TO YOU. YOU ARE NOT AS SPECIAL TO ME AS YOU ARE TO YOURSELF. MY WORLD DOES NOT REVOLVE AROUND YOU. It would be unprofessional of me to voice those thoughts so I don't. But that's what I'm thinking on the way home. And when I get home, the first thing I do is sign into Model Mayhem and block the person to (1) assuage my frustration, (2) to avoid receiving messages from him/her and (3) to ensure I do not make the mistake of reaching that person again. I understand that sometimes things do come up that require a postponement or cancellation and, when this occurs, I am far more understanding. Just don't play me for a fool. Sep 04 13 02:01 pm Link Digital Czar wrote: Rather ironic, considering how dated your work is. Sep 04 13 03:28 pm Link JessieLeigh wrote: That's what is called an unsolicited critique, which is not allowed here. Sep 04 13 07:38 pm Link Digital Czar wrote: Sure does...! Sep 04 13 07:42 pm Link I have had the opportunity several times over the years to have models showmen their MM inbox and we read messages together. If you have a good sense of humor and don't take things personal you an spend hours laughing, saying "ewwww!" Or something similar and generally get the heebee jeebees knowing the people's ending those messages are out there walking around in public and acting normal. I don't blame anyone here for not responding to messages. That is a big change in my way of thinking from 4 years ago. This is NOT professional site. Some are but most are either hobbyists, creepers, advanced beginners and sometime professionals. Throw into the mix a wide range of fetishes, psychologically imbalanced free range perverts, etc. and you have the basis for a pretty good reality tv show. That we all are part of to a degree. My advice is figure out how to word your messages tomake the cut. And quit trying to get other people to change. Change yourself to meet the challenge. Mostly no one cares that you are getting but hurt and scream for people to be nicer and adopt your procedure and values. You could have had this whole thread by yourself with a quick search and I wouldn't be thinking you are an arrogant Jerk. Post this question in the critique forum and ask people To look at your port to see if they find anything there that may be causing people to ignore your messages. Just a thought. Sep 04 13 08:13 pm Link JessieLeigh wrote: Sep 04 13 10:00 pm Link Garry k wrote: The subtext of a no-response is "Trust me, you don't want to work with me. I'm as unprofessional as they come, and I WILL flake on you." Sep 05 13 01:37 pm Link 255 West wrote: Actually there is a reason some models don't reply at all. If you poke around and actually listen they will tell you why pushing the ignore button is the new black. Additionally, there was a thread in the photographer forum not long ago on a similar topic. Many photographers ignore email from models they don't want to work with either. Sad but oh well. Sep 05 13 02:47 pm Link Untitled Photographer wrote: In the biz, it was always the unspoken, but polite rule that if you, as a shooter, were asked to bid on an assignment and it was one that for whatever the reason did not really want to do, you bid high-high enough to where you knew they would take another bid. It gave the message that you were busy enough that at the moment you couldn't do the job, or if they understood the unspoken reason, they moved on. Sep 06 13 08:24 pm Link honestly I rather have someone not respond to an email rather than to respond and then cancel the last minuet.Especially if I've had to spend money. Op, if you don't like how the models are on here there are other places to find models (an agency,other networking sites,craigslist,ebay classifieds, and backpages are good too). Sep 06 13 08:34 pm Link Digital Czar wrote: Was as in a decade ago? Sep 06 13 08:49 pm Link Carle Photography wrote: Nope, it's been this way and still is... Sep 06 13 09:10 pm Link JessieLeigh wrote: It's sure great to be evaluated by a weekend-hobby model. Tell me, are your photos great? If they indeed are, why are you only shooting weekends and not full-time when you are trying to give the appearance of having a great grip on the business of being a model and what it takes to be a photographer? Sep 06 13 10:12 pm Link Just imagine the huge, MASSIVE number of models, photographers, make-up artists, designers, and producers who have had the temerity to register themselves on this site and NOT responded to this query. The mere thought enrages me to no end. Sep 06 13 10:32 pm Link 255 West wrote: BS Sep 07 13 08:17 am Link Digital Czar wrote: I've met many models who were educated, successful and professionals in fields other than modelling. The implication often put about that models who have other jobs are "settling" for another career due to their failure at modelling is laughable. There are much more impressive, rewarding and well paying careers than modelling, and some of us do have other interests and passions. Sep 07 13 09:09 am Link JadeDRed wrote: That aside for the moment, if they have such a great grip on the business, they would be full-time and making a living at it. The real ones, photographers and models do this stuff on demand, at the time requested as opposed to the others who can do things over and over until they get it right. Sep 07 13 11:13 am Link Digital Czar wrote: Well what if they just wanted to model for fun and not for a career?Would that still make them unsuccessful? Sep 07 13 03:30 pm Link I guess common courtesy just isn't common anymore. So sad really. Sep 07 13 05:27 pm Link Rollo David Snook wrote: It's taken 5 pages for someone to say something that has substance. Sep 07 13 06:07 pm Link glofoto wrote: Agree. Sep 08 13 09:22 am Link DGI Concepts wrote: I get the ones that will read my detailed message explaining the shoot, the pay rate, etc etc. I see they read the message... I give them a week or so, and then I'll reply with "Yes, no, maybe?" - and then they'll reply saying they just read my message and they're never on the site. lol Do they realize people can see when they've read a message? Sep 08 13 10:16 am Link Alannah Jones Styling wrote: Not hostile at all if you read the previous commentary. Sep 08 13 01:21 pm Link Digital Czar wrote: Why are you even on mm? Go to an agency that represents models who can shoot all the time? Sep 08 13 08:42 pm Link Digital Czar wrote: Sep 10 13 08:48 pm Link Digital Czar wrote: First of all, pipe the F down. Sep 11 13 09:56 pm Link Elizabeta Rosandic wrote: That could be why he wants to do some trade shoots, lol Sep 12 13 04:31 am Link DLH Photo wrote: I find that works every time, just add "Paid Gig"....they can smell the $$$$ lol Sep 12 13 05:30 am Link Bill Tracy Photography wrote: The point of trade shoots is to benefit both parties. There are other reasons as to why an experienced model isn't going to respond to a trade offer from someone with an outdated portfolio, but the main reason is that it isn't practical. If I have no idea what his current work looks like (if he has any), why would I even consider trading with him? Sep 12 13 06:29 am Link |